Have you ever felt bad about how picky you are (dating)?

[TopTier]

Yes

No

[Guy13]

I have no qualms about being a picky dater as I basically know what I am seeking. I am not talking about the list or box checking career, height, shape, eyes, hair, perfect teeth, and etc type things. That being said, there are nonnegotiable or points where compromise is impossible. The opposite sex Bestie and "Work Husband" type relationships and poor day-to-day judgment with money, sex, and drugs are such issues.

There are values that must be shared such as religious and political worldview where religious convictions are overriding and practically this means no abortion, shacking up without marriage, and clear understanding of the common sense and nonsensical practicality of LGBT same-sex relationship for sure Significant time around all your family is necessary.

Values, Vision, and Expectations must align. Expect the difficult questions and discussions and if it feels like an interview rather than a priority then you have vaulted into the "no way in hell list" as Communication is paramount.

[OfMiceandMen]

Nope, being attracted to some one is instinctual. It's not being picky, if you just don't feel it in your bones.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I don't get why people are angry at others being picky when it comes to who they date. If they're not attracted to you then why would you want to date them?

(Ignoring unrealistic expectations)

[electromagnetic]

Absolutely not.
Why should I have to settle? It’s fair to say we are allowed to be a little selective.
Otherwise we pretty much are waiting our own time and the time of the other person.

[Stressyalaire]

No, I found just the guy who met the standards I put out. It only felt good, I can tell you that.

[Anonymous]

I was far too picky with a few girls I dated. I let silly concerns I didn't even know mattered get in the way of finding out.

[Anonymous]

I’m more picky about character and personality.

[Anonymous]

I used to let a lot of guys touch me, now I'm very picky.

[LiamJHayden]

Why would I feel bad about not giving someone else a false hope?

[NostalgiaSenpi]

I'm not really picky. I just don't care for obesity.

[clampfan101]

Only because I’m too hard on myself in general. If I wasn’t, I’m sure I could say No.

[LazerBean]

Not at all, and I got exactly what I wanted.

[FreyaRed]

Why? Dating isn't a charity event.

[Nikki1989]

No, I know what I want.

[Iron_Man]

No because I know I want a good person

[Anonymous]

Felt bad? For what? Your question isn’t clear.

[LavLavLuv]

not at all