Anyone else here easily able to get someone attractive to genuinely want you but you're not actually confident in life?

[Anonymous]

I'm not trying to undermine confidence because confidence definitely helps and I certainly have confidence with women because I understand women, and when I'm having a better day, I am definitely better at attracting. However, I think understanding is more valuable than confidence when it comes to attraction.

But aside from this, I feel like I suck at life. I'm pretty sure there are plenty of people who are the opposite of me and some even literally think they suck at everything, so I have to feel fortunate to some extent. I know people would find massive value in being able to do what I do, but I'm not fulfilled, and I'm just trying to see who's out there who understands me.

Please share your story.

[Guy13]

Been there in early 20s but not now.

[Asker]

How did you figure it out

[Guy13]

I faked it kind of thing and decent looking but it took me getting my education and career in order. I lost a girl Uber it but it is …. Getting education and career right is full-time sacrifice.