Do you agree that rejection has consequences? (Page 3)

[Jltakk]

Yep, the assumption that constant rejection isn't going to snowball into a major problem is something that I will never understand.

[Anonymous]

Danny Devito is married. Your appearance isn't the reason you're single. It's the excuse. Improve your personality. Improve your income level. Don't cry about a rejection. Take steps to prevent another one. The world is not going to lower their standards to accommodate you. You have to raise yourself above them.

[msc545]

Danny Devito is also rich. that counts very heavily in his attractiveness to women.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh, I'm aware. That why I said to increase your income level. It also helps that Danny is really funny and charismatic, which went a long way toward making him rich in the first place. Hence why I suggested making changes to your personality. Neither of which are easy things to do, but nothing worth having comes easy.

[msc545]

Just being rich without the personality changes will do it for most women. They love money a lot more than they love sex or men.

[Gummy_Cluster]

Danny has way more than money.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6w1kKWRY1ks

[Paul_in_Indy]

Danny Devito is charming. He is not an angry, self-centered guy threatening to blow up if women do’t pay attention to him.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Is anyone surprised though? This is the same generation that told their pie faced daughters that they were the prize

This is what happens when you have a society that raises boys to be weak

[boggboss]

I have not seen someone make the claim that rejection don't have some level of consequences

[Fireguy17]

I don't think anyone likes rejection, but it happens, it is just part of life so you learn to shake it off and go on your way.

[prensesmishka]

The man in the picture gives me such negative vibes. He looks so angry.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes, the consequences should be the person better themselves.

No one is entitled to be accepted or liked by the opposite gender.

Incels main problem is they are extremely entitled little pricks.

[OddBeMe]

I’m sure “femcels” (just thought up, prob exists already) is already out there. But inceldom seems to be a reaction to feminism. So not sure actual women would be incels….

But yes, rejection can be crippling. But I’d argue incels don’t know because they prob have never tried asking a girl out. Ever.

[msc545]

I think they are men who have asked women out many times and been rejected many times. You have to have been damaged to behave as they do.

[OddBeMe]

Maybe but not necessarily. Their damage doesn’t appear to come from experience with women. But with talking online to other creeps and ratcheting up the scary posts. Until someone decides to shoot up a school.

[Iron_Man]

Depends what it’s for how many times they do it what goes around comes around

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Rejection hurts, but if you make a personality out of it you are the one to blame.

[Nikki1989]

For the overly sensitive, rejection can really hurt, so it depends on the person.

[msc545]

So it is the fault of the person who is rejected for being "overly sensitive"?

[UncleBilll]

I love challenges, noting is impossible.

[grega239]

They do. Such is life

[lottiebannotie]

Of course it's only natural

[Anonymous]

there's always someone else who won't reject you

[Sasha0426]

Can we not reject people? 🤔

[DarkLegacy]

Depends on the reason

[Sasha0426]

Like what for example?

[DarkLegacy]

If it is done because of physical appearance or disability unless they are too mentally disabled to consent. Then that is wrong

[Sasha0426]

I can agree with looks but I’m not sure on the disability. I rather someone be truthful about not being able to handle someone’s disability. Like, if they don’t have the patience.

[DarkLegacy]

Can i ask you, do you think it is ok to have sex with a blind woman. I haven't but i was wondering.

[Sasha0426]

I don’t see why not. As long as there’s consent involved.

[DarkLegacy]

Cool

[msc545]

You can, but there are consequences.

[Sasha0426]

@msc545 I’ve rejected some guys. Maybe I should’ve led them on 🤔

[Paul_in_Indy]

@DarkLegacy Whoa, whoa, whoa! You are saying that women to sleep with (or marry?) guys whom they don’t like if those guys are not great looking? What in the world? No one has a right to “avoid rejection.” The complaint that “you rejected me” is another way of saying, “you should know that I get what I want—and what you want doesn’t matter.”

[Paul_in_Indy]

“You can reject me, but there will be consequences.” I translate that to mean, “you belong to me, or else.”

[msc545]

There are natural consequences that follow from repeated rejections. Women reject men solely on the basis of appearance and other things such as height that cannot be changed.

[Paul_in_Indy]

So, what are you demanding? If a woman thinks you are unattractive or too short, what is she required to do for you? Does she have to go on a date with you? Does she have to have sex with you? Is she required to marry you? What is the line here? What does she owe you for not being attracted to you? To what extent are you entitled to have your way with someone that you like who does not like you?

[msc545]

Sure you can but it has social consequences.

[Sasha0426]

@msc545 So if a woman says no to sex and she got raped, you believed she deserved it? Or if a guy killed her for rejecting him?

[Paul_in_Indy]

And there are no social consequences to the rule that you have to marry the first guy who asks you out because you aren’t allowed to reject him? Or, let’s be serious, you just have to have unprotected sex with every guy who demands it. There are no social consequences we can imagine from that.

Or does this rule only apply to you? Do you all women need to except your advances, but they’re free to reject other people?

[msc545]

Rejection takes many forms. Try not to be cruel.

[MessofConfuzzled]

always does