You shouldn't try to compensate for being shorter, but there is one way you can be better than most guys - be a good listener and pick up on things.
Most guys pay no attention to a girl half the time, so if you genuinely pay attention to a girl, she'll notice you. For instance, if you happen to find out yellow roses are her favorite, you store that one in the memory banks. When something comes up, like she did well on a project, or its her birthday, you make her a card and attach a single yellow rose. The fact you listened and didn't just focus on her boobs while you were talking to her will give you an advantage over most guys.
The whole listening thing goes back to eye contact. You can't have wondering or shifty eye when you are talking to a girl you like. Keep the eyes up at her face and off her body. Focus on what is upstairs.
There is no need to compensate. The best thing to do is completely forget about your height and live you life. I suppose you compensate by not thinking about it. How many times have you heard how important confidence is? Not thinking about your height, or any other perceived negative, is showing confidence.
It's not about compensating. It is about finding a girl who likes a shorter man. These girls usually want to be treated equally or dominate in a relationship. It can be harder to find someone submissive in my opinion. Hope this helps!
The best way to compensate is by not trying. I've talked about my pal on here, and he's an inch taller than you, and he goes through chicks like Dixie cups.
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I know a guy at the gym who is short. He is pretty ripped, maybe he is overcompensating but he does not think of himself as short and I bet if he had to fight a much taller opponent he would kick his ass.
A lot of money, but she still likely to cheat with a tall guy, because she truly attracted to him.
Other than good personality I hate to say this but money.
Be friendly and funny. Anne Bancroft married Mel Brooks.
Whoever came up with the last one is funny. I'm 6'2 and that is not reality.
But to answer the question, personality. I have a friend your height and almost every girlfriend he has had has been 5'9 or taller.
Definitely not by getting one of those annoying things that amplifies a car’s engine noise.
This whole height thing is shallow and superficial. A short guy can "compensate" by being a great guy
Why does he have to compensate?
Is he that lacking in confidence?
Bulking up or having a lot money is one way
You can date shorter ethnicities. Latinas. 😍
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