I’m not talking about 5’9 or 5’7 I’m talking about 5’4😬😬. What can I do to make myself more appealing? How can I get someone to settle for me? What qualities should I try to approve? What are the best personality traits that girls like? Do I need to become a gym rat? Should I become super educated?
You shouldn't try to compensate for being shorter, but there is one way you can be better than most guys - be a good listener and pick up on things.
Most guys pay no attention to a girl half the time, so if you genuinely pay attention to a girl, she'll notice you. For instance, if you happen to find out yellow roses are her favorite, you store that one in the memory banks. When something comes up, like she did well on a project, or its her birthday, you make her a card and attach a single yellow rose. The fact you listened and didn't just focus on her boobs while you were talking to her will give you an advantage over most guys.
The whole listening thing goes back to eye contact. You can't have wondering or shifty eye when you are talking to a girl you like. Keep the eyes up at her face and off her body. Focus on what is upstairs.
There is no need to compensate. The best thing to do is completely forget about your height and live you life. I suppose you compensate by not thinking about it. How many times have you heard how important confidence is? Not thinking about your height, or any other perceived negative, is showing confidence.
It's not about compensating. It is about finding a girl who likes a shorter man. These girls usually want to be treated equally or dominate in a relationship. It can be harder to find someone submissive in my opinion. Hope this helps!
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First off every relationship should be equal but are you being honest about most girls that go for short guys do it to be “dominate” I know that’s not your exact words but is that actually true?
The best way to compensate is by not trying. I've talked about my pal on here, and he's an inch taller than you, and he goes through chicks like Dixie cups.
I said it wrong. He's not ON here, I just have talked about him on here. He gets so many girls that he cheats on them to get rid of them. He's too nice to dump them, so he gets them to dump him. I'm not by any way condoning his behavior, but it's not my circus and not my monkeys. He has the smile, the gift of gab, and the charisma. But he gets bored and wants to get a new one. He was only 17, so maybe that has changed.
Yep, we each have our own paths but the realities of life are if she can see you as provider, husband, and father with a plan. Nothing new under the sun.
I know a guy at the gym who is short. He is pretty ripped, maybe he is overcompensating but he does not think of himself as short and I bet if he had to fight a much taller opponent he would kick his ass.
I guess quite a lot but it’s a little complicated because they are all older and I’m not talking like 5 years older I’m talking 40s 50s and I’m only 22😂 I’m currently working on the make “lots of money”part but there is a girl that I work with that’s closer to my age, I’m currently trying to work on being surrounded by people my age
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