His ex girlfriend cheated on him and he is taking it all out on me. He first asked me to delete instagram… so i did. He then took some of my clothes and told me I shouldn’t wear them anymore; i agreed and i told him if my clothes make you uncomfortable i will dress however you want basically he hated my yoga pants and suggested i wear cargo/sweatpants. He also has commitment issues he breaks up with me every 2 weeks. He accuses me of all random things and is super suspicious of me. He asked me to stop talking to my male colleagues in university & work. Yesterday he asked to check my phone as he accused me of cheating tbh that was the red line. I broke up with him and he came back later to apologize & promised me to change and seek therapy. I told him i will only go back under certain conditions and we will WRITE RULES to enforce boundaries, some of the rules that i want to write are things like respect, no checking phones, asking and listening before jumping to conclusions etc do y’all have any ideas or smart rules or approaches to address this situation?
My boyfriend has sooo many trust issues its ruining our relationship, what should I do?
