Do you think it's hard for traditional people to date in the dating climate?

[cth2188]

I think so..

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If you are traditional would you date someone modern or remain single? I'd remain single - sorry People who are modern don't have standards , morals, core values, or integrity

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All the folks salty in the comments I don't deal with MODERN PEOPLE !!! NOT MY CUP OF TEA AND YES I KNOW WHAT I WANT - I DON'T DO HOOK UP CULTURE NOR AM I INTERESTED IN MODERN DATING!!! NOONE IS ASKING FOLKS TO CHANGE LET ME DEAL WITH I WANT AND EVERYONE ELSE CAN DO THEM!!

[sheenagwapa]

i love Jesus and He is real and so i don't wanna engage in oremarital sex. but i'm fine with marriage not registered because i'm after with God's blessing. it's just me and him like in the movie kasal, kasali, kasalo in the altar with a priest

[cth2188]

SAME 💯

[xCherryKizz]

Depends on the values i guess. Im the smex after marriage kind and we sort of worked it out my way once he understood that.

Some people change for love

[cth2188]

Yes , I don't expect anyone to change - I just know what I want and don't want - I already see how dating is. I don't even online date - I prefer the pld fashioned way

[cth2188]

Old typo

[xCherryKizz]

Yeah dont change for other people in the comments. People are harsh here, but as long as you have no regrets and stand by what you live for, you'll find happiness in your own terms

[cth2188]

Thanks ❤️

[Lliam]

The more qualifications and demands a person has, the more they narrow down the field and limit their own desirability. It's possible to narrow down the field to zero by being too rigid.

[Gummy_Cluster]

Whenever people talk about the hardships of dating, this image always pops into my head.

[cth2188]

GOOD it makes my dating pool accessible and it weeds out the people I don't want. I don't want a modern dating partner as we have nothing in common- I know traditional people and will stick to only them

[cth2188]

@Gummy_Cluster there is no hardship this question applied to traditional people who date and know what kind of partner they want. For me I rather be single then deal with a modern dating partner

[Gummy_Cluster]

@cth2188
I wasn't necessarily talking about you. I was talking about this site in general. All the "Woe is me" crap. Threatening to stay single is an idle threat, because no one among the 8 billion people on the planet, cares. I'm not trying to be mean, but times are changing. The Internet destroyed dating. The toothpaste ain't going back into the tube, so you just need to move forward in life. You can find a sex partner on your phone, and the Japanese are making sex bots that look real, and have AI. I wish you the best of luck, and hope you find happiness, but I doubt you will find it in a church, because that ain't happening.

[Lliam]

@cth2188. Why did you ask the question if you weren't interested in opinions?

[cth2188]

You could have scrolled on, but you decided to message and this was a question not a rant. I want to hear from traditional people who are single and have issues finding a partner who matches them and their perspective

[cth2188]

Only folks who are upset are those modern everyone else posted their opinion.. even sharing beliefs I wouldn't waste anyone's time out here knowing we don't share the same beliefs or morals

[cth2188]

I asked traditional people clearly you have an issue with the question - I didn't ask you for your opinion pretaining to my dating pool and who I should date. I asked traditional people their experiences and how it is dating for them

[Lliam]

That's not what you asked.
Talk about "salty". Jeeez

[cth2188]

Yes it is what I said I asked traditional people would they date modern or stay single and I asked them if it's hard - ifc about your opinion in my dating pool options. I'm still waiting on the right person and will continue to wait ✋️ I won't even date anyone online or someone who doesn't court

[cth2188]

Idc ^

[cth2188]

It's been 11 years and will stay single aslong as I need too

[Lliam]

Get used to it. You're mean.

[cth2188]

Get used to what? I don't have to do anything I dont want to do nor deal with anyone I don't want to. Stop trying to control my life and what I'm supposed to do. I'm not mean I'm being defensive right now. Like I said I won't deal with anyone modern idc who you are and what you're offering - this generation is lost - very lost.

[cth2188]

Next person I meet will be in person as this is how I meet and date / if you took the covid-19 vaccines N E X T

[Lliam]

Read your question again. You asked everyone if they think it's hard form "traditional" people to date in the dating climate.

And the way you talked to me was mean.

You're too hostile. I'm done.

[cth2188]

My question applied to T R A D I T I O N A L people

[cth2188]

I'm not hostile you respond about my dating qualifications and requirements yes - I have them ! It's a sin to have that in this day and time unfortunately! Like morals and values mean nothing ! I'm not changing my dating preference or perspectives to accommodate anyone !

[cth2188]

Either you match or you don't ! Either you're the it or not ! My values and core values are important and no I'm not looking for a perfect person !

[Gummy_Cluster]

Liam,
When you get time, can you help me out with my moon cheese question?
Guys, Do you think he is pulling my leg? ↗

[cth2188]

I don't settle sorry!

[Astarlessnightsky]

Dating is and was always hard.

No one said finding that one really special person out of 10.000~25.000~50.000~100.000 people is easy.

[cth2188]

Yes - it's gotten even harder with text message and social media

[Tyrael]

Yeah definitely. I don't understand what's going on these days, I guess I'm already too old lol

[cth2188]

SAME 💯

[HighValue]

Yeah. My whole life it has been rare to encounter people with good morals.

[cth2188]

Same 💯

[cth2188]

Morals are very important and a standard for me

[Gummy_Cluster]

Times are changing. Don't expect people to have the same morals, core values and integrity as you. Maybe they're better than you.

[cth2188]

How about I deal with people like myself - I tell people I don't deal with modern people / I stick to traditional people and no I don't expect anything I know what I want when it comes to a partner and its not anyone doing hook up culture

[cth2188]

There's nothing modern people can do for me and my beliefs... I operate differently sorry

[Gummy_Cluster]

Why did you say "sorry?"

[cth2188]

A figure of speech since you had something negative to say like it's a hardship it's not I have traditional friends who are MARRIED and not doing what society does / they have morals, values, respect, and integrity

[Gummy_Cluster]

I wish you the best of luck, and I wasn't being negative. I hope you can reconcile this and work it out. I really do. I'm single and I don't care about the world changing. And don't EVEN talk to me about marriage, if you haven't been there. My best friend's father raped all of his daughters, and he was a pillar of society. His best friend was the pastor of the church. The rapist sat in the front row. He destroyed their lives. I just don't want you to go chasing waterfalls.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8WEtxJ4-sh4
I'd give you my advice, but I don't think you want that.

[cth2188]

There's nothing to work out I'm sticking to traditional people that's it - 💯 I'm old fashioned and traditional no other way around honey

[cth2188]

I've been married before this isn't my first rodeo

[cth2188]

Yes I desire to get married again

[LiamJHayden]

No, they just need to be very clear about their goals and boundaries.

[cth2188]

Even still I wouldn't deal with anyone modern

[Slim57]

Yeah I do but don't give up

[cth2188]

Trying not hard too , but standing firm