Do you agree a man and a woman should split the checks on all dates until they are married? (Page 2)

[Likes2drive]

If we were truly equal yeah but it never works that way, best you’ll get is maybe sometimes , I remember my ex wife only ever paying for me on my birthday all the years we were together

[CateM]

Whoever initiates the date should pay, unless the other person offers to split the bill

[annabananna]

I think you should do whatever if comfortable both are comfortable with and works for them. That is different with each person. Just communicate.

[Heolurt]

I don't date, never been on a date, I have been stood up on a blind date but I 💯 agree dates should always be dutch until there is some sort of a structured committed relationship.

[Anonymous]

If that works for the relationship then sure fine. I think it’s perfectly fine for the woman to pay for one date and the man for another. It’s nice to spoil each other at times.

[fonduegirl]

They should do that even after marriage, or maybe take turns to pay.

[fonduegirl]

I always have problem with splitting checks. I don't eat much, and I usually go for something cheap. So I should just pay for myself :/

[JosyJosy]

Other, I think we should just keep splitting. Why would a ring change that?

[XXblack88]

In 2023 you almost have to split the bill. Or at least pay for the next date

[Sasha0426]

Even when married, I still want to split checks. I don’t want any guy to pay any check. I’ll refuse if he offers.

[TacosRAwesome]

My preference is that either pays for what they get or thereabouts.

[Pohjolan]

I'd say on the first date it's up to the person doing the invitation but also gets to choose the place.

[Anonymous]

Whoever does the asking should be the one who pays.

[Anonymous]

They don’t have to. It depends on the relationship! My boyfriend pays more often then me because he has a good paying job and I m a student

[Anonymous]

No. Sometimes one partner can treat the other.

[Stevefiveo]

I would pay for all the dates but I guess I am an old fashioned guy.

[LimitedBenefits101]

Ofc most women voted men need to court them lol, what a SURPRISE... not

[MeiAndYou]

I am okay with any option paying, not paying or splitting

[randyzuchows]

If your dating who ever asks they take care of it, but if your dating don't you split bills?

[driven159]

Whoever asks the other person out pays the check how simple can that be?

[Twalli]

Men should always be prepared to pay, but not expected

[AlwaysTime4Tori]

Nothing wrong with a little romance - I can see why a guy wouldn't want a gold-digger, but I also don't want a cheapskate!

[WowwGirl]

Seriously?

[coachTanthony]

It's 2023 so yeah. Things have changed young Flanigan.

[Anonymous]

Not unless we are just going to be friends

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t think there would be a second ‘date’ if he asked me out and then expected me to pay and I don’t ask men to come out with me unless we are friends

[Kelly6]

Yes.

equal rights.

[Strong_Warrior]

No a woman needs to court the man (other)

[Songomatic]

I hope there’s more than 50 percent 😂

[krin_m]

It depends on the relationship!

[JesseJayNeak]

Equal rights don’t come for free

[Tonyblony5150]

Because I'm old school in that way

[Preeti161101]

No idea 💡

[Anonymous]

Yes yes