Should we just agree no matter who asks who out on a first date that the woman should always pay from now on?

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Brainsbeforebeauty · Accepted Answer

So then women can expect or demand sex cuz they paid right?🤔 cuz you know women are expected to put out cuz the man bought them dinner and if they don’t (you know the women with self respect) then the men will be on the internet claiming women date just for free food 🙄😂

SaoirseS · Accepted Answer

No, we should agree that two people old enough to date are old enough to work this out between themselves without involving public opinion, so-called traditions, or non-existing etiquette. This is not a tough one.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

Sure I can go with that and when a guy asks me out, I'll simply say no because either I don't have any money at the time or I don't want to pay for it.

Then he can whine about how he never gets any dates because everyone he asks say no.

Seems like a great way to get more no for guys when they ask women out.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

I expect that I will never have another first date, but if I did, I would expect to pay for everything. My generation won't change that.

AviatorTom · Answer

In an ideal world, the man always pays, and the woman pays in person... later.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I think everyone should pay their way on every date. But if someone is ever short on it then be willing to help. For example, if he/she brought $20 but it ended up being a charge of $25 then the date could at least offer to cover the extra. Now say they brought $20 and the bill on their end along is $200. Nah fck them 🤣 they better go wash dishes. Even if you have the money, they dont deserve the help because they knew the limited money they had

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Hell yeah... I make them pay anyways, so it should just be the standard operating procedure. Can't call me cheap when you're supposed to be buying my food.

One of my side chicks broke it down like this, "Whoever asks the other one out should pay," and of course, I just agreed with her... She wanted the "D" bad. Damn she was hawt. Philippina chick.

Potteplante · Answer

If I start dating again - and it doesn't happen as it usually does and I'll not just end up in a relationship and then date, then I'll never let a man pay for me, I've heard horror stories about it and would prefer not ending in a situation like that.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I think someone is angling for a return of downvote totals.

RobT312 · Answer

Hahaaa , I love that idea. It will never happen, maybe I’m traditional but I’m fine paying on a first date

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I wouldn't feel comfortable taking that stance and not bc it would likely piss most girls off, it is just not the way I was raised.

genericname85 · Answer

i disagree. i think depends on how it's worded. when i say "hey, let's grab lunch together", it means each will pay their coffee. if i say "i wanna invite you to a dinner" that means i will pay.

like words have meaning. i don't leave shit up for guessing and chance. i say what it is.

Wish4UrB00ty · Answer

😂😂😂 yes! That would make everything so much easier!!

dragoblack · Answer

We live in an unstable economy that isn't affordable for just 1 person at a nice restaurant. Neither should be left to foot the bill. It should be to pay for your own or each others meal... whatever is agreed upon. That way it shows consideration and if one goes to get the most expensive meal, they pay for their own. So no big loss on either side. This isn't the 1960s where everything is affordable. Got to change with the times

Anpu23 · Answer

I would feel weird about it. Sorry just too old and set in my ways for that kind of a change!

msc545 · Answer

Sure for at least the next 100 years. Men deserve reparations. Affter that, we can go back to 50/50.

Sasha0426 · Answer

If I have the money, I don’t want the guy to pay at all. What does he need to pay for?

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

I'd like to pay for at least the first six months

Pohjolan · Answer

Humans would go extinct if men would start behaving as picky as women.

Anonymous · Answer

That depends, if she pays does that mean she EXPECTS me to put out?

Unit1 · Answer

Not for me. I stay with 50/50 for starters. I won't say no if she pays. I'll send her the money for what I have expended after and then suggest a second date. 💕

notwoke · Answer

women don't stay with men they have to pay for. Men pay so women open their legs. You can fool yourself for a little while, but if either of these things stop happening... This relationship is over!

Red-Blaze · Answer

Fliping the problem dose not solve it 😅

ChillaxingLove · Answer

If money is an issue right out the gate maybe they shouldn’t bother dating lol

Anonymous · Answer

Either the person that asks the other out pays or I pay for me you pay for you

Pete671 · Answer

Yes because then the guys can know that they aren't being used for a free meal,,,

Nikki1989 · Answer

That wouldn't bother me.

chewyfetuschunks · Answer

Whoever suggests the date pays

Michael09 · Answer

It's old school tradition to pay for your date's meal. She has desert covered/LOL

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Why do women think their time is always more valuable than a man's?

Jamie05rhs · Answer

No. She should only pay for herself.

captain_voidwalker · Answer

Nope 50/50 split 100% of the time

Msputiton · Answer

I don't date, so idc🤷🏾‍♀️

LazerBean · Answer

No thanks.

humanearth · Answer

Any real man would pay

Texaskid1 · Answer

About damn time.

Anonymous · Answer

No way. Why should she pay everytime? NO

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