Should I have texted first?

[Anonymous]

I went on a date with a man. The date went good and he enjoyed my company. At the end of the night he told me “To get home safe and to text him sometime”. I was wondering should I be the one to text first? Or should he text me? I haven’t reached out but he hasn’t either. I just feel like if he had such a good time and everything would he be the one texting me? Or like chasing me? Before we went out on the date he never really texted me. Just on the day, we confirmed we still was gonna meet. I feel as maybe he just doesn’t like me. But I just took him off my social media. Because he did show some red flags. He didn’t even text me all week before the date, he has flaked on a date before, on the date certain things sounded like a lie, he has ghosted me before. So didn’t I do the right thing and took him off social media? Or do I need to chill out and text him first? I feel like I’m not in the wrong. But I want other peoples perspectives of the situation.

[teamvic]

Mmm if he had red flags and you're sure about them then no, I suppose you did do the right thing. Just not really for the right reason. It's like you used the wrong formula but got the right answer in the end

Yeah it's true if he had a good time he could've messaged you. But at the same time, did you also, not have a good time? Why didn't you message him? What if he was thinking the same thing? " well if she had a good time then why didn't she message me?" And then to top it off you removed him from social media, he forsure is gonna think you ghosted him and weren't Interested. It shouldn't always have to come down to the guy making the first move and showing interest. If does feel nice when the girl you're interested takes the time to show they're into you as well. But I guess none of this matters if he had red flags anyway. But you probably should've hit him up but oh well. Next time I suppose