Are Independent Women And Nice Guys A Major Turn Off For You?

[anon1903]

here,
said independent girl flaunts her liberal attitude by knowing how to do "manly" jobs like fixing a car and playing sports and athletic body (which i think are just normal features, gender stuff is dumb).
Or,
Said nice guys goes out of his ways to cater to woman in hopes of getting noticed as a suitor for sex and romance and complains how his female friends are dating losers and he's so much better.

Basically people who flex their normal behavior and complain how unfair it is that their preferred gender isn't applauding them for it (and they might be entitled since they're "different" than others).

These details are only for people who are ready to say "it really depends".

LGBT community is also welcomed to answer.

[Phoenix98]

The liberal attitude is that's unappealing not only is it very unattractive but it's extremely toxic and unhealthy to be around.

But that's the only thing I found to be a turn off, I don't care if a woman played sports I mean honestly most people played sports in some capacity at least they did when I was a kid. And I don't have an issue with a woman knowing how to work on a vehicle, it's a valuable skill to have it can save you money if you know how to do repairs yourself and prevent you from getting screwed over by mechanics.

But the liberal attitude? I won't have anything to do with that, it's a waste of my time.

[NathanDavis]

resourceful, skilled and fit... big time yes

but all the flexing and preaching... sounds like too much, if she's complaining and comparing herself to others all the time, that would be a big no for me

[QuietVerbena]

Independent women do not turn me off. I’m generally impressed by them. Nice guys turn me off only if they brag about how nice they are. If they’re sincerely nice and don’t make a big deal about it it’s definitely not a turnoff.

[anon1903]

What about independent women who brag about their "I don't need anyone" mindset?

[QuietVerbena]

That I find annoying and definitely a turnoff

[anon1903]

Yeah :D

[Sunkizzd]

nope, they are not a turn off for me as I'm an independent woman myself. not sure I flaunt it tho.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Being a nice guy is only a turn off when it seems like it’s faked to win the woman’s approval, genuinely nice down to earth guys you can just be friendly with that don’t test the boundaries or want something from the girl, are a turn on.

[SnowedIn]

The independent or the nice are not the turn off. The "flaunt" and "flex" and "look at me" are.

[AdithyaR]

Independent women are great but nice guys are terrible.
I say this cause the guys who go around saying they're nice, aren't actually nice. Actual good guys don't need to say it, their actions speak for themselves.

[RockyHammock]

So when a girl asks me for help and it's within my power to do so, no matter how big of an ask; it always makes me feel happy in the relationship. For me at least it's not a sexual thing

[slatyb]

Independent women are the best. I would rather be wanted than needed.

[Tstrbrainer]

Nice combination. These two categories are likely to put off a lot of people as they are usually displaying characteristics majority of people are not looking for

[Owen009]

Well young people can harp about independent this and independent that, but when you get my age, we all tend to depend on each other pretty regularly. Men and women.

[Pete671]

Independent women are a massive turn-on for me,,,

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's the entitled part that would annoy me.

[Stevefiveo]

I like independent girls as well as submissive girls too.

[htmndg183]

Independent women are a turn on.

[anon1903]

Okay :)

[Wise4myage]

No, not in the slightest.

[shortster]

Not really.

[MustangSue]

No...

[Debbie14217]

not really

[dinojames22]

It's a turn on