Do women want men on their level?

Question

When a girl is successful do women tend to want men on their level or higher

ManOnFire · Accepted Answer

Intelligent women (not meaning book smart or college degree) want men on their level. They want a man who thinks like them and has the same values.

Women who are fucked up and insecure want men who are lower than them, so she can feel better about herself and try to control or "change" the guy.

Women who are street smart and love money want a man higher than them so they can feel like they picked a king, or got picked by a king.

DaveJord · Accepted Answer

I never met a woman that treated me as if I was on the same level as them. I mean if you are then you are, and it's a nonissue. But if you two are not then, yeah its and issues. Because either she has placed herself on a level above you, or she feels inadequate on some level about you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Sometimes on their level, sometimes above their level.
I do know however if a man is sexually desirable she will still sleep with him and still be attracted to him.

Depends on her view of status and attractiveness. Women on birth control tend to desire les masculine men of money.
While women in their natural status and cycling naturally 🩸, they tend to desire Attractive Men of High testosterone

devilish-cutie · Accepted Answer

generally everyone wants someone on their level regarding looks/intelligence but as with anything there are some up down variations that can pass but those variations are not major

Avicenna · Answer

Most want men at their level (whatever that means). Higher they think he won't stick around because he'll find someone better.

Anonymous · Answer

Lol this comment section is a bunch of people who have no clue.
Just top with this superiority bullshit. It never ends...

Women want whatever they individually want. Success is a subjective term. I mean you really have people out here earning 70k or even 100k and think that is a lot lol.

As humans we constantly want to put down others and say others are superior to another. There is no damn levels. You want whatever you want. Many of the people you reject could be what you want if they were willing and understood how to change. There are no levels. They aren't on a lower level than you, they just don't want to be what you want. They are involved in different ideas of life.

You got hs drop outs turned millionaires and they weren't secret genii. You got dudes earning above average but treat their women like shit. Stop with the levels. Humans are too complex for this.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

I think the majority of women aren't that shallow. They realize its really hard to find a decent guy, that is faithful and wants to start a family these days. Therefore, wanting someone on their level is likely an afterthought.

Most guys on the other hand choose women that they consider to be lower than their level because they want to be in control. That is why most women who are well educated and have a high level job often find it difficult to find a guy.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

I think so. Men and women generally date and marry people within their circles of income, education and career since that's the people they are mostly around.

You won't see a doctor date and marry a dude that works at Wal-Mart, not necessary because she looks down on him but because a man at his level doesn't associate with people at a higher social economic level thus they can't interact with each other.

ilovelamp · Answer

WHat guys view as a level and what women view as a level are different.

WOmen care a lot about a mans status, socially for example where a man could care less about a womans place in the world socially.

Anonymous · Answer

Generally, no. Women seek to "marry up". It's called hypergamy. It's not their fault... they are genetically programmed to do so from millions of years of evolutionary forces.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

I'm not sure. I dated the male version of me and it felt like kissing a sibling if you're not into incest. I do want someone close to my level though where I'm a bit better at certain things and he's a bit better at others.

Adam1978 · Answer

Because they don't understand the difference between their value in society and as a partner. So they think they are worth more now. Which usually isn't true.

TenderFantasy · Answer

Yes! I mean why not? And you're talking about someone you're daing or having a serious relationship, even marriage with right? Not just some random guy!

Adaeva · Answer

Of course not. All women want men above their level. However, most end up settling for men at their level.

Unit1 · Answer

I personally know multiple women, who married men "below their level" (such as financial capabilities). Take it or leave it and be a MGTOW member.

Spongebobssocks · Answer

No. Women want men they can look up to a respect. Most women do not all

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

People are individuals, so something as complex as who is "the best option" is going to be highly subjective.

TheDaydreamer · Answer

Depends on the women, can't really do a simple yes or no on this question because different women value different things in a man.

Anonymous · Answer

Women just want a man who they think will create the best offspring and be a good daddy for their babies. I mean really that's what it all comes down to. Either consciously or subconsciously

Anonymous · Answer

Women simply do not date down. Men will. It's a sad double standard.. Because of hypergamy most women limit them selves to the top 5 to 10% of men.. Meaning they will be alone forever because those same men do not want them.

Anonymous · Answer

My answer was option B. But it accidentally became option A. Women want higher level guys than they.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. But the punchline is most have no idea where that value us which is why so many fail so much. Because he ain't going to tell her till after he's f***ed her. 😆😆😆

imawfulatusernames · Answer

Depends on the woman but no woman who respects herself wants a man who cares about it

Chthou95 · Answer

They actually want higher. Wonen dont want average or mediocrity. This is why high value men are being pursued by a lot of women

Anonymous · Answer

I want a man on my level; single full time parent that works and doesn’t receive child support from the other parent that doesn’t see their kid (s).

TallAnon · Answer

In the real world people don't think about levels. They just live and do what makes them feel good.

Anonymous · Answer

No, they only want the upper. Not on the level or lower.

Anonymous · Answer

Of course. The fact people don't understand this is why 90% of marriages end up unhappy

Nikki1989 · Answer

I never think about it.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

On their level if not a little higher.

Dargil · Answer

Yes, and they want men they can control.

Masumgunahkar · Answer

Womans want strong man everytime

JosyJosy · Answer

Yep.

Iron_Man · Answer

Maybe higher

Anonymous · Answer

Typically higher.

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