Can you ever be "just friends" with someone you have a crush on?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

Try to spend as much as your time with that person alone, create a more intimate and trusting environment for the both of you to determine if this is really something you both would want, I have always been slow to start when it comes to developing feelings but its normally the guy I spend the most time with and the I trust the most.

[Opinion Owner]

I answered a completely different question sorry; I have yet to be capable of this I can't manage an emotional attachment that will never carry into more.

[Blacksnake285]

Girls love to lead you on just for the attention especially if she looks good. The better she looks the more she’d only just want the attention


I’ve had girls who bumped into me on purpose and didn’t make themselves visible on my presence. Like if she were into menu would see her much more often like I did before the shoulder bump. She just wanted attention and for me to notice her. I ignore hot women because of thes

[MysteriousDarkness]

No because you don't want the person that you have a crush on to be with anyone else but you. Being just friends runs the risk of you having to be around them and the person they're with if they get with someone else.

[devilish-cutie]

hahah no, thats a lie... you always want more, thats a fact

[Pinay_ako]

Yes it’s better than nothing.

[Simslover92]

No that is going to be painful for me. It's better to just cut ties. You would have to see this person be with someone else which would be hard.

[Nikki1989]

Crushes are for teenagers. I never have them.

[Sasha0426]

There’s an age limit to have crushes?

[EricSummer]

Sure. In the narrow sense of the word you develop the crush just on your own while watching the other person and marvelling at how desirable they are. You may start feeling in love with them without any intimacy. This is immature behavior that you should not allow yourself after adolescence.
Of course, if you say "crush" just for someone you fancy and may start dating then it's different.

[MisterKuulius]

I can and I have, but it was not worth it. She and her best friend betrayed me in the end.

[Angelo75]

Nope. I'd end up unconsciously trying to win her over.
And since I'm married, that's a recipe for me cheating. So I'd just stay away.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Yes... It's not like she's the only girl I'd ever find attractive... I don't think it's that hard

[AsaKyo]

Being "just friends" with anyone you are in love with is going to be difficult

[Anonymous]

Only if I think their is a chance the other person will change their minds.

[Villane11e]

How often do they though =(

[mandyfire98]

Probably not if you have a real crush on them.

[Daviddd5412]

No that seems painful

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'm friends with your mom. With benefits of course

[Boomchakalaca]

No. Have u not watched vampire diaries

[Jazzy54]

For me, nah. Too awkward. 🫣

[DaddyDiablo]

I can't really do that..

[LiamJHayden]

I haven't had a crush since I was little.

[clampfan101]

If they noticed me back, yes. 🙄

[Masumgunahkar]

Never because you can't make it

[In_Trance]

No, why would you want to be?

[Katie329]

its hard but yes

[AliSulayman]

Never

[BrookeS]

I am

[JonesT10Apr]

never