If you are very angry with your boyfriend will you still accept the flowers from him or No?

[Anonymous]

He did not come to me and give me, it was delivery.

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+1 y

I don't know why he used delivery boy maybe he is worried I will be more angry. But at the that time I accept them and still thinking what to do with those flowers.

[Miristheiss]

Guys, a word of advice.

Give flowers to women for no reason. Surprise them, out of the blue, just because you like them.

Don't get them flowers on cliche events like Valentine's Day or "I'm in the dog house so buy her flowers to make up".

Just surprise her with flowers from time to time because you are thinking of her. That will mean the most.

[qwert1234]

And don't do it often and with pattern. If you stop, then "something is wrong".

[Twalli]

A coworker got flowers from her husband one day and the first thing she said is "What did you do?" He said nothing and wanted to show her how much he loved her. She then heard an ad on the radio for 50% off flowers at Dierbergs.
Considering he was cheating on her, he did do something, but wasn't feeling guilty about it. They're divorced now.

[Qwertsy]

I was always told to never buy flowers or gifts when she is angry, because next time you buy her flowers or gifts she will be reminded of when she was angry. Buy flowers for her when she least expects it. She loves it!

Whatever the reason, sorry to hear he made you mad, I hope everything works out for you!

[marrk]

No, but I do not appreciate things that die. Some people like flowers as gifts, I don’t. The fact he didn’t deliver them himself seems lame.

An apology would be him acknowledging what he did wrong and how he would change and the steps he is making so he doesn’t mess up again. He would also have to acknowledge my feelings.

[jennifer_bloom]

I don't know because you did not say why you were angry but I will say when I'm in a bad mood, I watch animal videos or do meditation to calm down.

[Genie23]

I would but only if he doesn't hire someone for delivery. I always accepted hugs, chocolates or anything my ex brought/gave me when I was mad. I appreciate efforts. I don't want to hurt someone for making efforts to cheer me up.

[Dreamclouds]

That is a natural and normal process of thought I believe

[OlderAndWiser]

Is it more important for you to play a game in which you "win?" Maybe you have some misguided ideas about relationships and how they should work.

[Pinay_ako]

The thought that counts!

[Poppymarie]

If I felt like he was genuinely sorry and wanted to make things right, yes, I’d soften. But if I felt like he was just sending them because he thought it would fix things without him having to make much effort, I’d be pissed off. If your partner gets you flowers, it needs to be accompanied by the willingness to communicate and make up.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Did he commit a hanging offense?


If not, and it is something you will get over, get over it.


Don’t give the silent treatment. Thats the only reason he had flowers delivered. Is to get you talking to him again.


Does he know why you are mad? Is he trying to troubleshoot where he malfunctioned?


If you haven’t told him, he needs to know.

[Anonymous]

1, he didn't hand them to you personally. wrong move

2, what did he do that made you very angry? if it was something forgivable, i'd just need more time and maybe some food. but the painful memory will then be placed in the back of my mind to remember again when he makes me upset from something else... and it'll pile on

[Smashingdoozy]

No. Using flowers as an apology isn't okay. If the flowers were accompanied by a sincere apology then sure. But buying your way out of a mistake isn't healthy.

[Jemini_Crocket]

I think I would but it really depends on the reason why we argued and/or momentarily separated. I also think it'd be easier to get through me if he'd come in person, though delivery is a nice gesture as well not gonna lie.

[FreyaRed]

I don't let control myself by anger and my common sense won't accepts bribes in shape of flowers brought by delivery. The truth is everyone is replaceable

[Roxxy99]

The flowers are an obvious gesture to say he’s sorry. Yes, I would accept them. I might still need to settle whatever the issue was but the gesture would still mean something to me.

[mb120101]

I got into a fight with an ex and left flowers on her car at midnight so shed wake up to it and i got a “why did you leave flowers on my car?” , dont like that girl very much now

[arodriguez664]

It would depend on how angry I was. If I was about to break it off with him angry then no I wouldn't. But if I was a little angry or I could get over it angry then yes

[Reem12345reem]

I would accept them and take the flowers/gifts but with a " im still mad at u " face

[AdithyaR]

Depends on what he did.
Made an honest mistake, I'd consider the flowers an apology.
If it was a major issue like cheating or abuse, he can take those flowers and stick'em where the sun don't shine.

[Twalli]

The basement? LOL

[AdithyaR]

Upto him 🤣

[DizzyDesii]

Hell yea lmao

[DizzyDesii]

Im still mad, but im not gonna punish the flowers for his behavior 🤣

[rachel776]

that's a good apology

[Dreamclouds]

Good one

[Sirenboobzilla]

Absolutely. I'm all about signs and gestures of affection and meaning. I can be mad at him but I still love him

[MementoMori777]

All ima say is that another minute of life is never promised so when you make choices, you gotta make them not believing there's always time.

[strateguy632]

i would refuse to sign, and tell company "send him his money back" if i were girl.

[Christoff92]

If he cried out to her with all his feelings. She probably would 😊

[Anonymous]

He bought you flowers and paid to have them delivered, and this is where your head is?

Set your ego aside and decide if you want to forgive him (assuming he is the only one at fault here).

[Twalli]

You should, he's trying to make amends. It's hard for guys to know how to apologize to girls. Maybe he thought you'd be angrier if he tried to bring them himself.

[Anonymous]

Well what did he do lol.
If it’s something dumb that he did just accept it and stop b-ching

[Anonymous]

Flowers are not for “sorry”.
He wants you to accept and approve of his poor behaviours, he wants you to consider them a normal thing.

[Dreamclouds]

Smart opinion

[Anonymous]

Yes I would. Not many are lucky to get flowers and you sound like an ungrateful brat.

[Opinion Owner]

Unless of course he didn’t something out of line. Like cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

*did

[In_Trance]

Hopefully you didn't freak out on the delivery driver

[jamartheg]

@JustinTheGreat would you still accept flowers from me if you were mad at me?

[JustinTheGreat]

Ofc bby 😩🫶

[Anonymous]

Well a man that uses a delivery boy is not a man, a man comes and gives you flower himself and he apolizes looking in your eyes

[Nikki1989]

Flowers don't change anything.

[jshm2]

You must be a psycho.

[WhitneySnow]

It depends on what he did to make me angry

[sheikalana]

Yes, I would accept.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Only if he's actually sorry.

[KrakenAttackin]

How about you calm your tits?

[Wise4myage]

You shouldn't accept the flowers.

[Con29]

Make him work for his apology

[elizamichale1]

Nops.. why would i

[Anonymous]

Usually husband buy flowers when they cheat

[Iron_Man]

Ask the girls