If my experiences with women have been very bad, is my fault?

[Anonymous]

[ManOnFire]

Yes and no.

Yes in that maybe you didn't have a lot of good social skills with women, or a good understanding of how they think and behave, so you responded to those situations poorly or without a lot of know-how in dealing with them.

No in that maybe you have never really done anything wrong, you have always been kind and respectful, but they took advantage of that, took your kindness for weakness, and that hurt you. Thus your experiences with them could be called bad.

[TooHot2Care]

No…. Thats just what weird male feminists and toxic femcels on Reddit want you to believe.

I was in a room of racist people and called a fancy little word that rhymes with “trigger” got threatened with gun violence, lynching and was mocked for “my ancestors serving them.”.

I spent the entire time chuckling at these people with a smug grin on my face, occasionally getting bored and looking at my watch or cellphone.

By Reddit logic, since I was surrounded by racist assholes and I was one guy, I am the asshole…. But, that wasn’t true at all….😂

HOWEVER.

if you keep having bad experiences with women, it means your outward presentation leads to a common outcome.

This is your persona being lacking rather than YOU yourself being lacking.

[Mariena_Anne92]

Depends on what makes it bad, is it her behaviour, is it yours? What kind of experience will u describe as bad?

[Asker]

Its more so the dishonesty. Most women have lied and turned out to be phonies. a lot of them are even cruel to the point where they don't care about leading men on

[LazerBean]

Yep. Only you chose to be with those women.

[Asker]

I don't. To tell you the truth women are a mystery so i go into really not knowing what the women is like as a person. Most have just been very dishonest

[LazerBean]

You were forced to be with those women?

[Asker]

Yes i was

[LazerBean]

And how exactly were you forced?

[Asker]

They used their Jedi mind powers on me

[LazerBean]

Yeah, figured.

[astrophelle]

Totally agree @ManOnFire

[In_Trance]

who's fault would it be if it's not yours?

[riverrat3]

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