no it's not the same. think of men as dogs and women as cats
men's love is based on mutual appreciation and returning favors i. e. you do something for me and I'll do something for you or vice versa. bro code 101 this is why male friendships are usually stronger than female friendships but of course the gynocentric society we live in deems this as entitlement if you expect something in return which makes no sense because insisting on one-sided exchanges itself is more entitled
women's love is based on attraction and it can't be forced. if she's not attracted to her current spouse for whatever reason e. g. he suffers a workplace injury that leaves his limbs chopped off that leads to him gaining weight and losing his job etc. she begins to feel "trapped" in the relationship as if she's obligated to take care of her spouse
basically dogs are called man's best friend for a reason and cats do whatever the hell they want and sometimes expect one-sided good treatment
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It does seem that woman want more of an emotional romance and men want more of a physical romance. Probably because guys don't like to talk about their feelings. I second that!
I believe men still love woman with all their heart when they find the right person, but probably do love each other in different ways, because of expectations.
The biggest mistake people make when going into relationships is not telling the other person what they want. Usually, it's the females that bring this up, lol, and the guys just go with the flow, but it probably doesn't hurt. Telling someone what you want makes it clear what you're expecting from the relationship.
I would probably never get married, because I almost got married once and got stood up, so if I was with someone and she did want to get married, I should probably tell her in the beginning that I don't want to get married.
Lack of communication is always the problem with relationships.
No we each love differently... but men seem to fall in love harder than women do... though they seem to fall in love less than women.. other than that, I have rarely seen a relationship where both of them were deeply in love with the other, it is usually one loves deeply and the other settles or is using them...
Im just gonna say that I’ve never heard of a single successful and happy relationship where the man wasn’t the hardcore one with all the emotions before the woman. The rule of he needs to love you more plays here. Men aren’t lighter and fun in love if they’re actually in love
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As groups, there are differences. But that mask huge individual differences.
so this is a politically incorrect way to describe relationship dynamics….
That said : it’s not exactly wrong, and it’s not exactly right either.
But it is more correct than not.
Were complicated, and maybe we focus too hard on finding patterns when we should focus on being present.
I think if we generilize then I agree with you. Women tend to be more emotional and want to make it clear from start and men tend to more wanna enjoy and see where it leads. But it depends ofcorse. Just what I've noticed around me.
Nope, not only do men fall in love quicker, but are often the first to say I love you. Men also take rejection harder. I know the stereotype is the other way. It's not that women are heartless it is that they are most risk adverse in pursuing mates. Women have to potential to have a baby so they have to be.
Not at all. Men love the actual woman for who she is. Women love a man for what he can provide (money, status, lifestyle).
Depending on the romance that they have foe each other 🤗
Not even close. Women are operating from a completely different rulebook then men.
Yes, men only want ONE thing and it's disgusting 😡
Woman are not the same as men, men and women are different. No judgment here, just stating fact.
No its not the same at all. Very different. Men love women harder and women love from an opportunistic point of view
I feel I’m in the middle.
No a man's love is different from a woman's love.
It's not the same because all men are thief and all women are whore
maybe
Totally agree 💯
Not at all
Definitely not
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