My boyfriend rather work 3 days for 5 hours for only $120 doing hard work than getting a actual job. What would you do if you were him?

[Anonymous]

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+1 y

The money he makes isn't enough. He still live with his parents. He do have a habit for asking me for money and I get piss off that's why I feel like he need an actual job

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+1 y

I told him why don't he get a actual full time job he got mad and said he want to do what he want and think I'm making fun of him

[Anonymous]

That’s nothing other than lazy, he doesn’t want a real job. Have you ever thought about how is he gonna provide for your family with 120 a week if you two ever got married? The man needs to grow up, and unless you’re gonna help or push him do it then you’re only dooming yourself to be stressed with the responsibility of keep a roof of your heads. I don't know what I’d do if I were him but if I were you I’d really think about leaving him if he doesn’t shape up.

[petitedollbabee]

No such thing as an “actual job”. You do something and get paid for doing it. That’s a job. If he’s earning enough money to support himself then that’s all that matters. I don’t see why you’re so upset by what HIS job is and what HE earns, unless he’s mooching off of you?

[petitedollbabee]

Your update could’ve been included in the question to begin with, to add context.

[Sparkie460]

He is lazy. If it is not enough for him to survive then he should get a full time job or a second job to be able to support himself. You should think about the future with him. Is this what you want to get married to and have kids with? A man is supposed to support his family. How is he going to support a family when he can't support himself.

If he's content working just a few hours you might want to rethink your relationship

[Avicenna]

When he asks you for money, decline to give it to him

[MementoMori777]

Depends, what's the job he's doing now? 🤔

Cause I mean I used to risk it all to sell some dope so, legit money is legit money but it depends on the job of course lol

[MementoMori777]

Is he trying to create a business or something?

[Asker]

He said cleaning a man bed out I don't know wth that mean

[MementoMori777]

Yep you lost me as well, I don't know what that might even mean but he shouldn't be settling with that, he should have other small money moves as well

[Asker]

He said he would sell dope but I said I would break up with him then he doing that crazy shit. Because he really trying to work in a club.

[MementoMori777]

Sounds to me like he just looking for excuses to I guess start wildin out, if he really sold dope he would change his mind when the first person tries to take his shit no lie, he's gotta get a grip and start making proper decisions cause no lie he got a girl and everything, he can't just be thinking for himself anymore

[Asker]

My rent 1200 and have car payment 350 I'm making 14.50 and I'm doing stuff alone and it hard for me.

[MementoMori777]

I'm sure it is, if things don't change I wouldn't blame you if you decided to move on and find someone that will at least try and help.

[slatyb]

How is he able to airport himself on that? Is that $120/week or $120/day?

[Asker]

120 a week

[slatyb]

So who else is supporting him? You?

[richardcory]

Its really useful in life to find a full time job and eventually a full time career.

[andreasderjuengere]

If I were him, I'd dump you.

My life - MY! decisions.

[andreasderjuengere]

Your update came a minute too late. With that added info, it should be YOU who dumps HIM.

[mommymommymommy]

I work 4 days a week (part time job), for a little over 6 hours a day, for almost 600 a check. Yet, I'm single. Why? I dont know

[mommymommymommy]

I still live with my parents, because I can

[mommymommymommy]

How does he expect to live on what he's making. I barely survive on mine, but, even I'm making more than him

[JesseP1nk]

WTF? How old is he? You see future with this guy? Does he look like he could take care of his future wife and baby? - DUMP his ASS.

[LiamJHayden]

If he has no ambition all you can do is ditch him and find someone more motivated.

[Anonymous]

Just 15 hours pathetic, I'm knocking out 70