I met this guy at church. We are both gamer nerds and we exchanged numbers to play games together. I like his personality, he's a nice person. We have a ton in common and we get along really well.
I didn't like his appearance, he's like an average dude. But we met up to hangout the other day and I realized he's not that bad. I do have an issue with his hair style, I wish I could pick a better hair style for him it would make him better looking.
It's obvious he doesn't know good hair styles. But I know that kind of thinking isn't right, I got to accept him for the way he is. We've only been talking for three days but I don't see myself kissing him.
Right now I see him as a friend, I like talking and hanging out with him. Maybe the romantic feelings will come later? I've barely dated to know/I don't have that much experience.
My brother was asking if I want to date him. I honestly don't have an answer to that. I feel like it's too early to tell we barely just started talking.
I'm a virgin waiting for marriage. I dont feel lust or sexual desires like other people do. I'm just enjoying his company and talking to him and I don't want to jump the gun.
Does it seem like I like him or not? Or maybe do you think I should take my time with it more? I feel this pressure from my brother like I'm supposed to be imagining marriage with him or something.
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"I do have an issue with his hair style, I wish I could pick a better hair style for him it would make him better looking.
It's obvious he doesn't know good hair styles. But I know that kind of thinking isn't right, I got to accept him for the way he is."
Why? If you have a positive and helpful suggestion for him, go for it. It is the good thought that counts.
NOTE: just suggest, and perhaps offer to help if you know hair stylists and that sort of thing, but DO NOT scold. Remember, he would appreciate help, not nagging.