Am I the issue? Or?

[buttercup1288]

Okay, I've made mistakes dating. I've sent nudes, I've sent nasty text messages, and explicit messages. But I've gone the other route of waiting. Even the topic of sex, it's just an uncomfortable topic for me to talk about because I'm not an open person. It takes me a while.

For instance, a guy got upset that I wouldn't tell him if I was a virgin or not. He was willing to end the conversation if I didn't answer the question. I told him it made me uncomfortable, and he was saying how he wanted a real woman and how it wouldn't be hard where it is to get it.

This is what I deal with, and I've wasted time on this guy. He wanted to send a dick pic and I said no. Then he got mad AGAIN

Am I being unreasonable? I don't see where I'm wrong. I set boundaries and they are overstepped.

[MementoMori777]

I understand your frustration, I respect that even tho he tried to be manipulative about it, you stuck with your decision, you aren't the issue, that means only one thing, his intentions were sexual and or phsyical because you simply not opening up about your sexual experiences was his deal breaker, you even told them why you didn't, that it makes you uncomfortable which shows it was early through the talking stage wasn't it? I think you made the proper decision considering you made him show his true colors a lot quicker

[Sharkstealth]

I'm not exactly the authority on dating because most dates I've had have not worked out but I would still say no your not. I'm pondering why you would continue to pursue him under the circumstances. Do you not have choices?

[buttercup1288]

I'm pretty large so not a lot of men want to settle for that. So that's why I feel like I have to put up with this kinda thing.

[itsalyssaagain]

Omg that guy sounds like a dickhead! You’re not wrong and you should always stick to your boundaries and what you feel comfortable doing. Pushing you to do otherwise shows he has bad intentions.

[buttercup1288]

That's what I thought too!

He was a walking red flag but I gave it a chance lol. It's partly my fault but it was awful.

[itsalyssaagain]

It’s okay sis I’ve done that too lol

[Anonymous]

Ofc you're Emma Watson that guy should respect your boundaries..😊