Men, how do you feel when approached by a beautiful woman?

[Anonymous]

[PaulPanda8]

had a co-worker whom was a knock out approach me. But I was married at the time. And when we ran into each other, i'd say dumb shit. I didn't know what to say to her. I'm single or divorced, whatever. If a knock out woman approached me, i don't really know. Because I'm the guy that women don't approach. Not even a, "Excuse me, do you know where x is?" There was a YMCA worker that i kinda liked and she asked if it was cold outside. I told her kinda. And she replied, "I left my groceries in the trunk." In my head, I'm thinking, "Why would you do that?" It could be she was trying to talk to me, but I don't know. Women generally don't approach me. If i was Justin Beiber, they might. Or Brad Pitt, they might. A guy needs to look like a model for a woman to approach. Facts of life. So, yeah, I don't know how I would feel. If she asked me directions, I would be polite but honest. If I don't know where x location is, i'll say, "I'm sorry, i don't know where that is." and move along. Good question. made me think.

[DaveJord]

I am far from unattractive... I mean it has happened, but rarely. When does I am always caught off guard, and I guess I am a little confused. Because you want to think she's interested, but then it like almost never happens. So, you're kind become miss trusting of the person.

You really question their intentions, and motivations. Especially if they are just being flirtatious in a settle or indirect way.

[Asker]

so what did they plan to do if they were not interested?

[DaveJord]

I have no idea... I have this girl that comes into my office for work reasons. She hangs out for 30 to 40 minutes talking to me. Then the next time she comes in and she brings dounuts, for the office, but she leaves them on my desk.

I am totally confused because it is work, but I addressed her work-related issue in the first 5 minutes. And came in 4 to 5 times withing a three-week time period and spent a lot of time talking to me.

So I asked her what her situation was? She answered what do you mean? I said are you single dating married or what? She said it was none of my business. I told okay, never mind then. I addressed your work related issues, concerns and questions in the first 5 minutes and I even though I very much appreciated the dounuts, its not necessary in order to for me to do my job. So unless there is something else work related you need, I am not sure what else there is to talk about?

We left in huff and has not been back in over a month and now she only comes in when on my days off.

So I honestly question if she was being flirty on purpose, or just trying to be nice, or if she thought I was going to go out of my way to do something for her just because she is attractive, and being extra nice to me?

its super confusing. But I dealt with it directly?

Apparently, nobody knows her situation so there theory is she is either shacking up with someone else in the company and trying to keep it on the down low, or she is a lesbian. Nobody really knows. But most the guys agree she is just a tease and means nothing by it, other than being nice.. but at the same the time, she obviously was wanting something? So was she just trying to use her looks to get some type of special treatment or is seriously just that nice of person?

[jennifer_bloom]

Most guys won't say no to a beautiful and smart woman - but they might not stay interested if she is not a good person.

[richardcory]

Depends on what is meant by "beautiful". I find many women beautiful and am happy if they want to talk to me. If a women who is carefully dolled-up approaches me, I'm a bit suspicious because I'm not generally considered attractive to people who value that sort of perfection - so I wonder if she has some agenda. But I'm happy to talk to her and find out

[Kiss_Me]

1. What do you REALLY want?

2. Cool. I never dislike the opportunity to practice flirting with a beautiful girl.

3. Have fun with it. She is most likely NOT interested, but who cares? See # 2

[Finchie40]

Nothing at all. she is probably going to ask for me for directions or where something is at in the store lol

[nolabels]

It depends on the situation.

Flattered, confident.

Yeah, it depends.

[RavVid]

I look behind me to see who she is really approaching :)

[runnerboy]

I'm a horny teen guy so of course you know my answer. I love it and wish it would happen more... but when it has happened I loved it!

[DexWest]

You could approach me… that’s fine, but that doesn’t mean I’ll acknowledge it or even notice. Not being mean. I just don’t care about stuff like that in my day to day life. I’m working on myself.

[LiamJHayden]

Okay, but most of the time it is because she wants to sweet talk me into letting her park in my driveway.

[stratford]

It depends on what she wants and whether she is full of herself.

[Rockstarrrrr]

Really nice... Sometimes I'm caught off guard and I don't know how to react lol

[Unit1]

i will let you know as soon as it happens.

But i wouldn't wait for it.

[YourExLover69]

Never happened to me. Lol
I know not even an average girl would approach me too

[eladz1331]

The truth is that I'm really happy because then it shows that I'm worth something lol my heart is beating fast with excitement and besides, it's perfect in my opinion that women turn to men

[Vegasrunner]

It's fine but truly beautiful women don't really approach men.

[JCT666]

By trying not to overthink. She's probably just gonna ask for the time or something...

[gemgem]

That she's going to try to sell me something. And I'm usually correct.

[DextroShade]

Beautiful women don't approach men unless they are famous.

[lorenzomichael]

The same as I would feel if a ugly ass girl approached me. I wouldn't feel shit.

[SmokyEnrique]

It happens and feels good. what about you when handsome man approach you?

[Asker]

i freak out. i know his intentions must not be good

[SmokyEnrique]

His intention?

[Anonymous]

Like I'm about to be scammed if they are a stranger

If I know them then I'll be doing business or maybe they'd date me

[Anonymous]

Nothing feel special...
It's normal i know I'm approachable.

[Asker]

🤣🤣🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Lol 😂

[Anonymous]

Most men would never know this because women normally never approach guys

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Like someone's about to sell me something

[strateguy632]

i feel yay, and excited, when it happened.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

I'll let you know when it happens

[BoopBoopBeep]

It's flattering, even if i have to decline.

[FunkyMonkee]

Thrilled but, cautious!!

[exitseven]

I pee my pants.

[andreasderjuengere]

I feel... approached? :)

[DJB72]

Confused. I assume she's blind or insane.

[tfan1]

It’s never happened 😞

[Wise4myage]

I think that would make my day.

[stargazeraug1989]

I'll let you know when it happens.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, you beat me to it

[Blueeyes81]

Caught off guard.

[EaterPeter]

What does she wants from me? Is this real?

[BLP11520]

Excited of course

[Abdulwahh]

Like with any other person approaching me

[Jmmmfi4]

Like I'd know

[SnowedIn]

Flattered.

[Anonymous]

I don't like it, I would like to cuss her.

[boobliker]

joyful and happy,

[Emanon25]

Happy lol

[Aiko_E_Lara]

Get my guard up

[msc545]

Worried.

[Charliefretz329]

Horny and nervous

[SunnyRS]

Good.

[Anonymous]

Suspicious.