Do guys not like it when a girl offers her body so easily?

[Anonymous]

When they haven’t even started dating yet and the girl is on the prowl.

Guys, explain your answer why you do/don’t like this.

[Anonymous]

What? That's so weird when some men are like that, living in a double-standards world. I hate that mentality.

I've met plenty of women and female friends of mine who used to or still go out from time to time with the sole intention of finding someone to hook up with. That doesn't mean they are any less of a person. Who am I to judge? I've definitely been horny, gone to a party or somewhere social, and hoped to meet someone who was also horny and wanted to have sex. Sometimes it worked out, sometimes it didn't. I had some friends who I could call too, so that was always nice- give a friend a call, head over to her place, and within the hour, we're naked and having sex, or she's got her pants off and I'm eating her out, or I've got my pants off and she's sucking my dick or giving me a handjob. I've literally driven over an hour to meet up with a friend at her place, chat for five minutes about life as we walk inside, I take my pants off, she leans over into my lap, a few minutes later she's swallowing my load, I get dressed, say see you later and then I head out. And I've also been that call for a few others- they'd reach out, I'd go to their place, they'd answer the door wearing only a robe or a pair of boxers, and a minute later I'm on my knees with some guy's cock in my mouth, sucking him off while he's moaning about how good it feels. Same thing, he eventually cums, I swallow his load, clean up and head out, he feels great, I do too because I loved giving head.

So yea, I think it's wrong for guys to judge or not like it when women go out with the intent of getting laid. Some women just want some cock (just as some guys do), and some women just want some pussy (just as some guys do). There's nothing wrong with going out hoping to get end the night with an orgasm instead of a new relationship

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Sometimes, I just wanna fuck. I don't want to know about your best friend or what sports you played in college. I just think you're hot, and want to plough you against a wall.

I've had very healthy, committed relationships, some of which ended respectfully.

If she's impatiently throwing herself at you, that can be unattractive. But picking up on my energy and not trying to slow things down because you know you're already down with it is preferred to a bunch of games that waste my time.

[Anonymous]

Guys have double standards.
They will love to have a girl at their bed if she is easy to get but when it comes to marriage they want hard to get and virgin girl.
Sorry if it sounds offensive and rude but that's truth. I m not going anonymous so please respect my opinion and dont react.

[stepyo99]

It's not a double standard. It's pretty straight forward. Guys want sex. If a guy can have sex with a girl without any commitment, then why would he ever get married?

If a guy waits to have sex until after marriage with a girl, it's because he believes she meets certain requirements that will make her suitable for a long-term partner and mother.

[AlphaGhost]

No, your argument makes perfect sense, even in old days you go to whore house for sex and then marry respectable woman with noble character.

[Opinion Owner]

I am virgin too. And i dont want physical connection and dont want a guy who is having so many affairs then offer me marriage proposal. @stepyo99 and @AlphaGhost

[Opinion Owner]

Guys have double standards and i said it because i have seen and heared about it.

[AlphaGhost]

Everybody is entitled to their opinion, and I completely understand where you are coming from (Khan you are Pashtun or Afghani), but you have to see this from their point of view. Males indeed have double standards here but same goes for western woman.
They sleep around in their twenties with guys near 30's and completely ignore their age mates cuz men in their 30's have stable career but when these women hit their 30's, now they want their age mates to marry them and settle down with them after completely ignoring them for like 13 years.
This ties back to the original question, yes men want to marry quality woman, when their dating potential tremendously increase in their 30's and they sleep around/survive on whatever they can have in their twenties.
It's no brainer and simple fact of life but modern feminism and 3rd cancer wave has ruined women lives by making them believe otherwise. You guys can complain about it, cry about it or do whatever you want but menopause and continuous regression of fertility with advancing age are facts and that's why men go for younger woman.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK576440/
www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9789007/

To reiterate, both genders in West have double standards and they deserve each other.

[desidoll]

Many can be hypocrite. They only want you to be easy to them, not other men. At the same time, if you put out, you are a slut.

[Anonymous]

Yes of course men want sex. But most likely no in the way of a relationship if you’re giving it up that easy. Makes me think she’s done that w numerous other men. I started talking to this girl. She really liked me, I liked her. First night she was already on her knees swallowing me. That lasted for a few months but I had to move on. She had already done that w 4 other dudes at my work. She tried explaining that she really liked me, that she shouldn’t have done that w the other dudes, that she wouldn’t do it again w anyone else but me. So I moved on.

[mommymommymommy]

A girl i like who likes me back, recently told me, that she likes me back (apparently she had before but I never realized she had told me), but 1. she's afraid of being hurt again 2. she doesn't have time to date, as she works two jobs, works out AND travels, A LOT, so, while she doesn't really want to date or be in anything serious, she mentioned she wanted to fuck. I'm not sure if that's what I want to do especially since im a virgin and dont know if i want to lose it to just a girl im "not dating"

[Wraith_Cemetery]

Modest women (in action and dress) are more worthy of my respect. Why would I want anything to do with a girl that just throws herself at any guy that comes along? Those are a dime a dozen. Especially in the age of Only Fans. A respectable modest girl is rare.

[Adam1978]

If you are that easy with me, I will assume you have been that easy with others and your body count is high. I will also assume another guy can pick you up as easily when we are together. So you simply can't be trusted. You made yourself cheap and your pricetag will stick. Keep in mind that we do check what other guys have to go through. So if a guy needs to go through hoops while others doesn't it also mirror badly on you.

[Berethor]

Guys like sex, problem with easy girl is that she also easy with other guys, she untrustworthy.

[Angelo75]

We like it but we ask ourself how many other guys has it been offered to.
Also if we end up falling in love, will she be able to resist cheating on me just as a girl who would take LONG before offering her body?

[DJB72]

Dislike. Definitely.

The reason is simple: if she's offering everything up to me before we even had dinner, how many other guys accepted the same offer?

[RavVid]

We like girls being easier than prostitutes only cheaper.

In the front of our mind we know we aren't that special and will think 'Maybe I should put on two condoms'.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

They will like - of course,

but not for relationship…

[Babygirl_S]

Well they hate Indian and Middle Eastern women the most. These women are known to be more conservative and less likely to have sex easily. So the answer is they prefer easy women.

[Unit1]

I highly prefer easy girls. But if the girl has sex with me on the first date, she damn sure had or will have sex with other men on first dates too, which disqualifies her for me.

[Sparkie460]

No I never liked it if she was ready for sex quickly. I always liked to wait until we knew more about each other and we had a firm connection together. That usually took about 3 months.

[soe11]

I like it, I should not be judged by her offering sex, I respect her attitude, she open and honest.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I sure don't. First of all that's drama waiting to happen.. Otherwise I've enjoyed the chase. Give me a challenge that doesn't directly involve cash or emotional baggage!

[Surely]

That would make me wonder if that was her way of greeting people. Nothing more than a handshake?

[justabuddy]

It's a lot like a guy who spends money on random girls. Girls tend to lose respect for that guy. It's best to show you have more to offer than just sex or money.

[Shy_Steve]

We love it, But only if we find her Attractive.

[Shamalien]

We probably like it

but we do not respect it

[cloud9vortex1234]

I prefer that. I don't have much time on my hands due to my career.

[Anonymous]

If your talking about getting intimate before your in a relationship then. I don't like that. I'm wanting to know someone and be in something serious before becoming so intimate.