Is normal to be really unsure about getting into relationship?

[Anonymous]

I have been single for like five years now. I would say being single has become like comfort zone. Now i met one girl and she is really pretty and her friends told mines that she likes me. But i just dont feel like getting into relationship. Experience all that drama again. And heartbreak. I have carried my own shit alone for so long that i dont need anyone to help me or support me. Also i would say relationships are not really my thing. I feel like i dont need anyone and go through all those shitty parts of being with someone again even though she is really pretty and seems like a good girl

[Truthatanycost]

I've been single for a long time and my life purpose is what comes first. Unless that woman is a woman of God, she will bring only drama, uncertainty and wasted energy to your life. Those who are not of God will be led by their own desires, ego and lust. Thus before you invite any woman into your life ask yourself whether she is a woman of God or a Jezebel. Ask yourself whether she's lived a wise past and avoided hookup culture, promiscuity or the sins of the flesh. Ask yourself whether she brings anything of quality to your life. At your age your life purpose (what you were born to do) should be your priority. Men have been taught to place women on a pedestal but they should have been doing this with God, scripture and their life purpose. You can change the world and become one of the greatest men alive, ask yourself whether this woman will help or hinder on that path. Her being pretty should be ignored, look deep on the inside, what is there? what is beyond her eyes?

[Flowergirl8258]

I think it's fine as long as it doesn't bother you to be alone or that you feel like something's missing.

Just don't be afraid and don't let yourself be held back in life because you dont want to deal with heartbreak and drama, they're a part of life but that doesn't mean you'll experience it with everyone you meet. There might come a time when you meet someone that changes your mind about wanting to be in a relationship.