Why am I starting to get unsure about getting into relationship?

[Anonymous]

I have been single for four years. Now there is a girl i really like. We kissed few times and went out. So things are looking well and her friends told me she likes me for a long time. But sometimes i wonder if i really wanna be in relationship. Sometimes i feel like i dont want to text someone all the time or tell someone where i go and with whom and stuff. Sometimes i just feel like this is not for me and i want to have my freedom. I have always been okay being single and i dont mind spending time alone. I just sometimes wonder if really want to be with someone. But i mean i really like this girl.

[Changiis07]

That's something to really think about. I mean you would have to put effort into the relationship unless she feels the same as you do and gives you much needed space knowing she can trust you otherwise it's best to stay single. As for me I'm the same, I like to be alone and don't want to be in a relationship unless they are worth it as of now I hope I don't start liking anyone because I do like my freedom but you can also talk to her and let her know what's on your mind, you 'd be surprised maybe she doesn't want one either or understands..

[Anonymous]

Just as a word of warning, I’m the exact same way and it doesn’t go away. I’ve probably sabotaged myself several times because of it.

[LostandFound__x]

My best advice is to enter things slowly