Should I stay with this guy?

[Anonymous]

This guy had been loving me since 6 years and we are in a situationship from 6 years yet he never asked me to marry him during these 6 years. I was expecting him to initiate the topic of marriage but he haven't initiated yet since he was focusing on his other life goals. Recently I came across a creepy guy who's been following me up like a creepy stalker. I've told this to my boyfriend, texted him to be available to me if something worst situation might occur and he seen my text, switched off his mobile, disappeared from my life and there have been no texts or calls further. Why he was been suddenly like this? Why isn't he concerned about my well being from a stalker? Should I stay with a guy who refuses to be available to me if worst situations might occur? What are my boyfriend's intentions?

Updates

3 mo

Update : He was guessing that I was indirectly pointing him out his past actions. In past, he was a stalker to me who did the same but I agreed to his love yet he still assumes that it's about the past and he removed himself out of the situation where actually I was saying him about another guy but not him. If this is the situation, are his actions justifiable to the present situation?

[DaveJord]

Dude sounds like and asshole honestly. You have these guys that can't find good woman and get treated like shit... then there are all these women with these ass hole guys that treat them like shit. And they come on here asking what they should do?

Don't date ass hole men. I don't put up with shit like from women, so you should not put up with it from men... but you have been for 6 years. So there is nothing I can say to you today that is going to change how you feel and what you do.

[Anonymous]

This guy sucks, if you were my girlfriend I'd feel a need to be protective over you, I'd be more active here and try to get all the information I can about this creepy stalker, not leave you alone by ignoring you

You deserve better

[Asker]

You are a perfect boyfriend to your girl

[Asker]

If every guy think like you, girls would never get abused

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you lol I'd never abuse my girl and I'd never let anyone do it either!

If your boyfriend was good with opening the relationship a bit you could also ask him if he'd set you up with someone he knows that's good in bed so you can have fun with him!!

[Opinion Owner]

Oh whoops I made a mistake with this and another question

[slatyb]

"I was expecting him to initiate the topic of marriage" Why? Have you ever told him your feelings about marriage? Did you just assume that everyone wants to be married, or that after a certain amount of time had passed he would feel an obligation to marry you? Maybe he has no intention of ever marrying you or anyone else.

Suppose he says he is happy and has no plans to leave you but will never marry? Would you stay or would you end it? I feel like there are a lot of things that should have been discussed about five years ago.

You are still quite young to be married. Even if your friends are married, they aren't necessarily happy. Marriage isn't magic. It's the same two people, but in a legal contract.

[Vikkrram]

Do tell me that how this guy is stalking you? Is he following you around is sending you messages?

And I think if he says that he is your boyfriend then of course he should take care of yours not just run away from this situation

[Asker]

Following me around, sending messages and doing all stalker activities

[Vikkrram]

And of course you didn't like this guy so do one thing just clear to him that go away from you. You aren't interested in him.

[Asker]

Yeah

[Vikkrram]

Can i ask u something? Need ur opinion

[Asker]

Sure

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am there is a girl who is younger than me. She and i was always kinda looking at each other. this went for almost 3 Years.

Like you know ma'am eyes do the talking but one day i thought that i was a bit rude to her and if i even had crush on her i need to apologise her so i messaged her on Instagram and said sorry to her.
Of course she didn't get that but i just said i need to say sorry to her and after that i never messaged her. Now ma'am whenever we meet we kinda avoid looking at each other and leave that place.

Ma'am for my inner gulit i apologized. And never said anything bad to her and after i didn't even messaged her.

Ma'am you think that i am a creep?

[Asker]

No, it looks to her that you are a weak guy. A strong guy will feel confident enough to not avoid her, look at her directly, move on from what happened but stay in the present. Either it can work or not, you need to act normal by staying confident. It helps you and her not to feel awkward

[Vikkrram]

She behaved that way that's why i chose to do that she was behaving like i did a crime or i have threaten hir..

[Asker]

If she's doing like that, you can ignore her, avoid her but don't feel any guilt and stay involved in other things which would be the best for yourself

[Vikkrram]

Ma'am my friends are telling me that you are a dumb , fool you just loose your respect and she will find you creep. But my point is i only said sorry to her.

And yes i know i don't have to be felt guilty. But i thought it's better to ask you

[Asker]

Don't focus on negative comments from your friends. Simply ignore her and live your best life elsewhere by not caring her. If she likes you, she should approach you now as she ran out of opportunity with you. If she doesn't, don't care about her and focus on better choices to move on

[MementoMori777]

Does your boyfriend know this person? Because his reaction is very peculiar, answering your question tho, no you should not stay with that guy because a man should always protect his woman and this shouldn't slide with you considering he just left you for dead with this situation, that was a very irreversible response to that situation and now you know you can't depend on him with your life, which it shouldn't be like that, very cowardly from his part no lie.

[runnerboy]

He seems to have drifted apart. Is he going through some difficulties in life or his health or job? Do you think he is cheating. Has your sex life with him also changed?

[Asker]

No idea why he drifted apart

[Adam1978]

Stalkers are a police issue not your boyfriend, he can't sit and babysit you. If you want his protection you need to stay near him not the other way around.

[Cheerfull009]

He is not interested to marry you, he want only in relationship, leave him