This guy had been loving me since 6 years and we are in a situationship from 6 years yet he never asked me to marry him during these 6 years. I was expecting him to initiate the topic of marriage but he haven't initiated yet since he was focusing on his other life goals. Recently I came across a creepy guy who's been following me up like a creepy stalker. I've told this to my boyfriend, texted him to be available to me if something worst situation might occur and he seen my text, switched off his mobile, disappeared from my life and there have been no texts or calls further. Why he was been suddenly like this? Why isn't he concerned about my well being from a stalker? Should I stay with a guy who refuses to be available to me if worst situations might occur? What are my boyfriend's intentions?
Dude sounds like and asshole honestly. You have these guys that can't find good woman and get treated like shit... then there are all these women with these ass hole guys that treat them like shit. And they come on here asking what they should do?
Don't date ass hole men. I don't put up with shit like from women, so you should not put up with it from men... but you have been for 6 years. So there is nothing I can say to you today that is going to change how you feel and what you do.
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This guy sucks, if you were my girlfriend I'd feel a need to be protective over you, I'd be more active here and try to get all the information I can about this creepy stalker, not leave you alone by ignoring you
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"I was expecting him to initiate the topic of marriage" Why? Have you ever told him your feelings about marriage? Did you just assume that everyone wants to be married, or that after a certain amount of time had passed he would feel an obligation to marry you? Maybe he has no intention of ever marrying you or anyone else.
Suppose he says he is happy and has no plans to leave you but will never marry? Would you stay or would you end it? I feel like there are a lot of things that should have been discussed about five years ago.
You are still quite young to be married. Even if your friends are married, they aren't necessarily happy. Marriage isn't magic. It's the same two people, but in a legal contract.Do tell me that how this guy is stalking you? Is he following you around is sending you messages?
And I think if he says that he is your boyfriend then of course he should take care of yours not just run away from this situationDoes your boyfriend know this person? Because his reaction is very peculiar, answering your question tho, no you should not stay with that guy because a man should always protect his woman and this shouldn't slide with you considering he just left you for dead with this situation, that was a very irreversible response to that situation and now you know you can't depend on him with your life, which it shouldn't be like that, very cowardly from his part no lie.
He seems to have drifted apart. Is he going through some difficulties in life or his health or job? Do you think he is cheating. Has your sex life with him also changed?
Stalkers are a police issue not your boyfriend, he can't sit and babysit you. If you want his protection you need to stay near him not the other way around.
He is not interested to marry you, he want only in relationship, leave him
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