Like being successful and having graduated college and have degrees or a degree is a wonderful thing especially as a woman but that’s just one part of you. You could be the most unfriendliest, deceptive and selfish person despite those good things you having going on. You just have success connected to your name.
Women overwhelmingly want a man who is better than her in almost every way. They want him taller, stronger, better educated, higher earning, and higher status. The problem is that they project these desires onto men, and assume that men also want and value these things in women - but we don't.
In fact, the more successful and desirable a man is, the less these things are valued by him in women, as a rule. In fact, the men who do value these things in women are the least desirable men - the broke, uneducated, and unmotivated men who just want to live off of someone else
Meanwhile, women putting all their energy into these things comes at the expense of the things men - especially the most attractive and successful men - value in women:
Youth
Purity
Femininity
Cooperativeness
Peacefulness
Being family-oriented (rather than career-oriented)
This is why there are so many Boss Babes with good incomes, nice apartments, and lots of stamps in their passports, who are on TikTok crying about there being no men around. The men are there, but they don't want Boss Babes - they much prefer the young, feminine barista or checkout girl who hasn't been poisoned by the radical college environment and who hasn't wasted her fertility battling in the corporate world, becoming loud and masculine and jaded.
The number of men even considering a relationship with a woman has declined significantly as Boss Babe culture has been promoted, because they would rather be alone than deal with that. And it's easy for a woman in her 20s to be alone, because she is still physically attractive and can get lots of male attention and favors. That changes significantly in a woman's 30s, and with far less attention and far fewer favors, she realizes that living alone is not that fun, especially when there is hard or dirty jobs that need to be done. But by then, it's usually too late.
There is a new generation of girls who are college age and some of them are still suitable for relationships, and so the men still interested in a relationship can pick one of them instead.
Well, having a degree doesn't make you successful, there are plenty of worthless degrees in general, then plenty of degrees that are worthless in certain regions. Say you get a certification to be a plant operator in an area with no chemical plants...
Anyway, college is a good place to meet women because they're stacked like fish in a barrel, after that I could care less if a woman has a degree or not, nor would I understand why a woman would believe that would make me want to hit on her or not.
At least I haven't noticed any difference between women who have degrees or not from how pretty y'all are. Actually I take that back, I did date one woman with a culinary arts degree specifically for her cooking, but that didn't last long because she couldn't cook.
I mean, let's be real. Most women are - simply by lived exprience - out of most men's leagues.
Degree or not, most modern dating age men are really terrible people. Especially if you're talking cishet white middle aged American men (give this comment an hour and read the replies for proof of fragility).
I agree. Actually a lot of men are providers when they love you. Having brains is definitely attractive, but they’ll first appreciate your heart and kindness.
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Women think a whole lot of things to explain away why men aren't interested in them. It is seen here quite a lot. Why are men intimidated etc etc when it is we just don't like them.
I met a couple of women recently (separate dates, not at the same time :) ) and whilst they were reasonably comely, their attitudes stank so much I pretty much lost any interest in sex with them immediately.
Women seem to think female mate selection criteria are male mate selection criteria and they aren't. At least we get to see who they really quickly now.
In general the more educated, and self-reliant the woman the less desirable she is to have a romantic relationship with.
Put simply, you don't bring anything to the table she will respect. So maintaining a solid relationship with her is going to be tricky simply because you don't offer anything she needs.
Likewise she efforts less and less of what you need to because the time she invested or will invest in such career and education is ill-replaceable time she she needed to invest in having and raising the family you need for her.
So she brings less of value to the relationships as well.
So as a general rule avoid serous relationships with women who have real careers and collage degrees. There just isn't as much to get in trade with them long term as someone who is more available for what you need.
Well I mean that only backfires on them cause they technically are limiting themselves and shortening their dating opportunities, good guys can be broke and in struggles just how bad men can be successful
Im kind of torn on this, because if she does get into a relationship with a man of lower status then her, she will at best see him as a pet.
At the same time, I'm frankly sick of women who seem almost proud to be weak and reliant on someone else to survive.
I just ask anyway. I dropped out of community college after my freshman year to run my business and have dated a few attorneys, who obviously are far more educated than I am, just by being bold enough to ask them out.
I dunno, polls say college educated women aren’t interested in men who either have no or less college education than themselves.
It's called "imposter syndrome" and it can be a mental condition for some.
Men don't care about a woman's education or career unless they are bums.
The only thing college tells me is that you like to study, take orders and could possibly smart but there's no guarantee
Because some men think they're out of the league of women with degrees and who are successful
They feel entitled.
Everyone can be insacurse
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