Ok, so I've recently just got back with my ex girlfriend and we really want things to work out between us seeing that we do love each other just that the issue that broke us was trust issues but she is an overthinker and doesn't trust me fully yet and we want to meet and stuff currently we do FaceTimes everyday but also she's scared that if we do meet she's gonna snap at me and we're gonna become distant again. Please help.
Speaking from an overthinker's pov, sometimes it's good being an over thinker cause you can see things before they happen and sometimes it's just self sabotage. Do I have trust issues? Not when it comes to a partner probably cheating on me but on other things, which is a little weird I think. Though I can guarantee you, being an over thinker isn't great at all, everything has a meaning to you and nothing happens coincidentally.
I have a friend who's in a really toxic relationship with her on&off girlfriend. It's not good to go back, you'll always wanna go back even if there's nothing left for you there but if you see a future with her, go to therapy and get your things straight and a little reassure goes a long way 💖 ✨.
If she doesn't trust you now she might not trust you later but if you both are trying to make it work then you and her both need to always communicate, hear and understand each other's point of view otherwise it will not work out. You will have to meet up sooner or later but if you think it's better for her for you two to meet up later then communicate about it. Maybe she needs more time before she meets up with you so she doesn't snap and so that you two can talk
Fear in a relationship is never good. Of course, its natural to have a little hesitation when it comes to getting back with your ex, but trust me, being scared that someone will lash out or hurt you is never a good sign. also, building a relationship on texting, calling, and facetime isn't a strong foundation. avoiding meeting up means that the two of you might be good on paper, but impractical irl. just do your best to navigate this logically and if it calls for a breakup or honesty about your feelings, you should let them be known. voice your concerns and what's meant to happen will happen.
Getting back with an ex is never a good idea. It is not like the trust issues will magically go away.
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