Can a guy or a girl can ever move on from their First Love... If their First Love died or something like that?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

As we grow each and every day there are things that happen to us that are out of our control
We are all unique we are all individual
We get a foundation in life on who we are going to be from our parents

And as we grow and start to find ourselves we believe in ourselves we understand who we are. Or we understand who we want to be
In a way we are all programmed from the people who have raised us.
And then we leave the nest.
And we either stay that person.
Or we re program ourselves

We all get to choose who we want to be in life
There are moments in time when things happen to us that are not in our control
Good things and painful things. And we feel them deep. In that moment you just want the world to stop . You want everything to be still and to be quiet it's hard to understand why the planet why everybody else is still moving when there's so much pain going through you

In time you either get up or you lay there you either let the pain win
Or you come to understanding with self.
We are all built tuff no matter who we are we adapt we move forward

No matter what has happen to us no matter the depth if the pain we feel we adapt or we don't

I have lost a lot if people in my life people who I might have not liked very much but I loved them.
I wasn't ready for them to go I was angry. I had all theses feels rushing through my heart body soul spirit
But some things you can not change.
The only thing you can change is yourself you understand and you except what has just happened
And you learn from it. You either stay angry. Or you become more loving because you know it's going to happen again and you want to people to know who you are and and how you feel about them and you change that next moment you adapt. On becoming a better person for others and for self you find a piece of yourself and you grow you start to understand life is short and you start to live it become it and experience it. You start to realize who we really are.
What we are capable of doing as a people as a human race you start to understand unconditional love and you become it you give it you share it it's a moment in time you can either hold yourself back or you can go and grow from it and become it
No matters a pain that we might feel in any given moment who you were programmed to be how you programmed yourself you will find the positive out of it you will grow from and each time this happens you become bigger better and stronger it doesn't mean that you forget because you never do and you never want to because that's your choice that's who you want to do to answer your question yes you can move on it's your choice how long you want to be there

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

Yes, but it takes a second love to do so, and some time in-between of being alone. Its not an easy thing for people to do, its often extremely difficult to accept the person is actually gone, both because of love and because most people can't accept that death is the end (to the point of making up stuff like souls and afterlives and reincarnation etc.).

A religious person would, for example, have a much harder time moving on, because they think souls exist, so they think moving on is betraying their SO, and because of that they might remain single until they too die.

Anemone978 · Accepted Answer

Depends on the person, my one friend is still not over his girlfriend who died of cancer and it has been 10 years..

One of my moms friends as well his girlfriend when he was a teenager got drunk and on her way home passed out in the snow and died.. He is almost 70 and never dated a women after her, he uses escorts.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

It's going to make me a bit sad, but l always make sure the love for him is Dead when I start dating again so that sadness isn't going to stay for long. I can move on.

connemara_crocodile · Answer

It's funny, just this morning I dreamed about the girl I was in love with when I was ten 🤣 I haven't thought of her in ages! I mean, I'm 31 now 😂 but apparently she was stored somewhere in my head still 🤔

abc3643 · Answer

Yes. Both of my grandmothers did marrying my grandfathers after they were widowed at a young age.
So, thank God they moved on, or I would not be here.
Two men had to die so my parents, my sister, and I could be born.

Sexiestjohnson · Answer

It depends on who the said guy or girl is. If they come from the tribe of the Ostrich, the answer will always be YES. If they are Lions, the answer will also be yes. If they are Shepherds, the answer would be yes. If they are Wolves, yes. If they are TeenWolves, never.

So your animal tribe determines what you are capable of. But even a Teenwolfs with time can move on but it takes a rich amount of time.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Some do so it is possible, but I am not sure it is the norm. I have had several girls I have been fond of, but I have never had what I would call a genuine "love" in that sense. My dad and grandparents are my only examples of people losing their spouses to death. None of them ever remarried.

DancingQueen16 · Answer

It took me like three years to move on from my first crush because he moved away before I had enough courage to tell him how I felt

runnerboy · Answer

They may not forget it but I think with time they could move on.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

Of course that would be terrible tragedy to happen loss grieving. Take few years definitely. but they would want you to move on and be happy

htmndg183 · Answer

I think they can but it takes a lot out of them to move on.

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Probably. But it will take time and it will take a certain person.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes if their first love is a liar, cheater or turned out to be lazy. Waqt ke Saath Saath sab theek ho jata hai. 😔

Christoff92 · Answer

Yes. Ever if they go away for college and careers 😏

roy_ricky09 · Answer

Life moves on so should you

FireGodGoesSeeknFire · Answer

Yes, almost everyone does.

Kelly6 · Answer

yes they can move, but it will take time

BLP11520 · Answer

Yeah I did she didn’t die though

In_Trance · Answer

Absolutely

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