At dinner you sit side-by-side instead of across from each other, you allow your legs to touch, you make eye contact and let it linger, you hold hands, touch him in the middle of his back, lean in and whisper in his ear, you suggest that you share a dessert and then you feed him a few bites and allow him to do the same for you. At the end of the date, you put both arms around him and give him a full body hug, then you pull your face back but keep your arms around his waist, look into his eyes, tilt your head to one side, and close your eyes. Unless he is dead or doesn't like girls, he will kiss you.
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So for me, my move is the hug, I give her a hug at the end, and if she really hugs me back and holds on to it for that little more than have a second... then I go for the kiss.
So, if he hugs you, really lean into that hug, like full frontal body on body... when he pulls away, loosen the hold a little, but don't let go, tile your face towards his and make eye contact. Just hold him and maintain eye contact.
If he doesn't go for the kiss after that, then he is either non interested, or he is not a real man.
You make it crystal clear that you like him. As clear as how you want him to let YOU know that he likes you. Honestly I'd just grab him and go for it, if the date went great.
a girl shouldn't have to try so hard to get her date to kiss her...
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Why wait for him to kiss you? If you want him, go ahead and kiss him.
Just look kissable. If you look at established couples, if the girl wants a kiss she just tilts her head/mouth towards her guy. Should work the same for you on a date. Unmistakeable body language.
All cheek kisses which are really cheek touches are initiated by the female but... you could take him by surprise and actually kiss him on the cheek with your lips. A girl did that to me and it told me everything I needed to know.
Don't see why it shouldn't be a first date if you have hit it off and feel affection & hope. Do it when you feel that on the nth date where n = 1,2,3 ...
Flirting and making it clear that's somthing you want
At 34? You make it easy for him. Get face to face and up close. If he doesn't kiss you here's either clueless or gay.
Well you need to be the type that touch and stay close, if you keep your distance you won't get a kiss for sure.
Give him a quick peck on the cheek and say he owes you one and you want it to be on your lips.
Or any other direct blunt approach.it's not hard you can tell they want to kiss you the whole time
I have had girls ask me if I would kiss them. I guess I was always a little slow out of the gate
Any variation of “Your lips look fucking hot, let me have a taste?” will work. As for the second, whenever you feel comfortable.
use your secret kissy lips technique. apply lip chap, lip gloss, lip stick, and unleash the smooches
I have had kisses on first dates and even beyond it
If you want it just kiss him.
Do a good bye kiss when the date is over.
Probably the third date or sixth date 😊😊😊💋😘💋
I would ask her when she's ready
Before the end of the first date
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