Is someone wanting to move in with you early on (2 months in) a red flag?

[Anonymous]

yes

no

[Leapfrog00]

I dated a girl once that wanted to move in with me after a little over a month. She was possessive, a cheater, and abusive. I've known other people this has happened to also.

From my experience and from what I've seen happen to others, when someone wants to move in with you that soon, that want to control your life and your every move. Yes, it's a red flag. I can't say that it may turn out like that. You make get lucky, but I wouldn't chance it.

The best things are worth waiting for.

[RavVid]

If you are seeing each other every night then you sort of have moved in with each other.

I don't think there is a time frame on this. If it seems right do it. If not don't do it.

[Anonymous]

I mean in general yes, I’d say that’s a red flag because it’s very soon and you two are probably still in the honeymoon phase.

[humanearth]

Yes major red flag