Do you dump your unresolved baggage on people you date?

[shades777]

[RavVid]

Mostly not but I think we unconsciously do. After every failed relationship, no matter if you ended it or they did, you will ask why didn't it work?

You very likely to find a reason and head it off at the pass next time I'd suggest.

[KingslayerC]

Everyone does, that's why we want to rack up as little relationship drama as we can. The more drama we go through, the more "fleas" we take with us.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I was trying to find a diplomatic but honest way to put this but all I got is, "Yep!"

Just weeks after I started dating my wife, I passed out at my Birthday party. It was so embarrassing that our guy friends had to lift me into the taxi. Then after I fell out of the taxi, I couldn't move.

So my wife (now, she wasn't back then) had to get two random guys off the street to carry me back into her apartment after all the struggle to get me into the taxi.

But I knew she was a keeper because while I passed out on her bed, she went shopping at pharmaceutical stores at like 3am in the morn looking for all this hangover medicine and foods, and she presented to me when I woke up in her bed.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

But my friend and bartender back then used to joke that I'm like a person who exposes his asshole all the time to the rest of the world. I expose my vulnerability and baggage to everyone I meet for better or worse. It's my way to search for like-minded souls.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

My number one unresolved baggage is alcohol in case I didn't make that clear. I'm still working to solve it. I've gotten better, but I haven't solved it.

[rachel776]

if i want to get rid of them

"so my last boyfriend i would put gravy all over his body while he was sleeping..."

[virtualwasp]

no i rarely date

[shades777]

okay

[AaronKrieger]

Some, but not all of it