Why does it seem that guys get almost no likes on dating apps?

[Whatthefluff]

[ReginaGeorgina]

Because of mentality I guess.

Woman have many guys she can choose from, so she is afforded the ability to choose her partner crticially. Most men are also touch starved and really have no standards or opinions so they are desperate af and swipe right on every girl hoping for at least one person to do the same. I saw some video where the dude is like if a girl is good looking, he would sleep with her even though he HATES her. So in the end 100 guys will like 1 girl and that 1 girl will critically choose 1 guy out of the hundred.

[petitedollbabee]

From what I’ve seen personally, usually because of bad bio and bad photos. Girls don’t care about seeing the same generic profile that 100 other guys have. Be unique and stick out.

[Lionman95]

Firstly guys often don´t get how important pictures are for women and they therefore upload either some random pics or some pics to brag that shall make them look good but are not authentic.
Secondly and far more importantly because women rarely give likes to guys since it´s often the situation that if a woman gives a like a match is created. So to avoid getting many matches with guys women give likes only too a few number of guys.

[asphaltrhymes]

I think I've learnt former at 29 merrily now, happily, that if the woman don't come to me, I don't bother bantering to the woman. And even if women talk to me, im on my guard thinking "what's the catch and why's this chick flirting, has she got STIs or a single mother or baggage somewhere somehow" whirls my mind voice lol 🤣

[asphaltrhymes]

So in reality, I feel like society everywhere would be better, if people just were direct and blunt, all genders. Lol. 😋

[inhua]

it's practically a numbers game and reaching a certain standard to be considered attractive and worthy of receiving likes

80% of men are below average in attractiveness

[zeitgeist057]

also seems men are reasonable in estimation of attractive, with a representative bell curve. It makes sense, not everyone is the most attractive, average will be the most common. Women according to this graph rate in an extreme disconnect from reality, literally no one being most attractive and over half being least attractive or one step up from least attractive/disgusting. With women rating more than half of men so low, it's no wonder.

[glennos89]

Because most woman only want to date the higher ranking males to go on a date with.

Most woman aren't willing to choose the average joe

So in reality girls are sharing the guys that are on the higher ranking levels over and over again 🤷‍♂️

[blissinanarchy1]

I don’t mean to come off as a douchebag, but I feel I get more likes than the average man. Women like height, I’m 6’3.

[PurpleiPad]

Hot guys get tons of likes. Online dating doesn't work because women are stupid.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

That's because guys are thirsty to meet girls

[Tyrael]

Because guys outnumber girls on there so the girls can pick and choose. And they all choose the same top 10% of dudes, and then wonder why they can't lock them down.

[mommymommymommy]

Women have been taught that if they're "aggressive" with how they come off, it can be seen as desp. Unfortunately, that's not the case, and it should be "re-educated through labor", lol, no jk jk. Rise against joke

[zeitgeist057]

I got it

https://youtu.be/dhldbymXK-8

[mommymommymommy]

@zeitgeist057 haha, nice

[ChiTown33]

Guys get plenty of likes. I get probably a half a dozen a day. It's messages that guys don't get. The likes are what women use to Bait guys. Then if the guys messages them she ignores him. This is why I don't messages first on dating apps.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Not enough women on those apps. 80% of dating app populations is male.

[OfMiceandMen]

Because women don't have to really seek out the guys, they come running on those websites.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

For the same reason unattractive girls hardly get any attention.

Dating apps are for sexual and short flings only.

People go on there typically trying to date the best, not some bottom of the barrel that nobody desires.

[Anonymous]

Because most men on dating apps are the dregs of humanity, otherwise they wouldn't be on dating apps.

[SoJust]

Dating apps is nonsense because an environment where there is imagination cannot be beloved from there , there is not flirt

[BlackJeep]

I have no idea why guys pay for dating apps.

[genericname85]

it seems like that because it "is" like that.

[Andres77]

No idea. I wouldn’t ever consider using one

[Anonymous]

Women don't want average men. We are all after the top 10% of men.

[Christoff92]

Because their are so many men on dating apps.

[SadyConfused1998]

Maybe because 90% of them don't use them

[joeND]

women don't like to make the first move

[Jamie05rhs]

That's not true. I get a ton of likes.

[Iron_Man]

I have no idea you tell me

[DextroShade]

Women are too entitled.

[Imsmurter1]

Wish women were easier to woo

[Reorx]

80/20 rule.