Girls, Why do I get zero likes on dating apps?

[Anonymous]

My friends get matches all the time, and they're just normal guys. I thought I was very fit and decently attractive, plus I try to fill out my bio with fun facts and some humor, but I just don't get any likes. What are the profiles like that you swipe on? I know one friend is 6'-4" and the other is a dentist. I'm 5'-10" and have a middle class office job, so maybe I'm just not attractive?

[Anonymous]

Since you asked...

"I thought I was very fit and decently attractive". Yikes... here's your first problem. You said you thought you was "very fit", meaning you thought for sure you were fit but then you go on and you say "decently attractive". Decently attractive is a maybe I am, maybe I'm not, description. It's like saying I'm not that attractive but I am not ugly.

If your friends ARE attractive, then that is also why they are receiving likes.

"plus I try to fill out my bio with fun facts and some humor" That's cute, but girls only really care if they're reading it after they find you attractive. "He's hot... let me see if there's more to him... omg! he likes cats, so do I!" Is more of our thought process. It's hard to make a judgment on this because I cannot see your dating profile. Sometimes what guys see as humor, girls don't and that could be a turn off for them.

"I'm 5'-10" and have a middle class office job, so maybe I'm just not attractive?" 5'10 is a good height. If you're 5ft11 with your shoes on, then I don't see anything wrong with upping it up an inch because it's still a true height. But the issue is that they're are a lot of guys who claim 5'10 but in reality they are much shorter. Guys don't tend to lie about they're height when they are in the 6ft range so girls are more trusting of a guy who puts 6'0+ than a guy who puts their height in the 5ft range. My advice would be to put something like "I am really 5'10 and will be the same height when I show up" or something. Secondly, I don't think there's anything wrong with your job.

[AsaKyo]

It's because you use dating apps