Do guys really get this little attention on dating apps?

Anonymous

I signed up on a dating site for the first time in my life. The site has like 200 daily users and my inbox currently is at 150 messages which you would think is good but it was basically all guys who aren't my type at all, so I overcame my fear and just messaged the one guy that I really want

He got really excited which I found cute and then we talked about if we already met with people from that site and if we talk to others a lot and he said he doesn't really talk to a lot of people there except smalltalk and that he met with one girl three years ago and he wanted to meet another one last year but she didn't even show up or something

He just seems so happy that I messaged him and I told him we'll do something and he's so excited about that too, I can't believe that it's so hard for guys though? Especially because this one is so sweet. Is it like that for every guy?

Do guys really get this little attention on dating apps?
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