Sex addiction: how do you mitigate?

[Anonymous]

Took me some time to accept it but I clearly have an addiction to sex.

As a single guy it's not easy.

It's a vicious loop where I meet someone we have sex and all is good but then things end and remission is very tough.
But trying to abstain is also hard as the less I have it the more I want it.

A weird subconscious way to cope is to keep myself a mess and even my apartment not very tidy because whenever my looks are on point and my place is sparkling I end up with a girl in my bed (horrible I know)

Not sure what could help.

Tried dating too but it didn't last even though I tried to make everything prefect, she just didn't fall in love with me and ended it within 3 months...

Not sure what is broken or what could be fixed but I could use advice.

[strateguy632]

if real then need a therapy interaction, not alone, but if i do not eat , i feel withdrawal is that an obsessed addiction to food?

[Unit1]

That's why we have

[Asker]

Used to work before but now it's very stale.
It's like once you jump to hard drugs the weed just doesn't cut it. (Not that I would know I don't take substances)

[Unit1]

I see what you mean.
I leveled it up by making more money and going to the courtesans. These times are over however. Now I'm building up my capital with trading CFDs on Cryptocurrencies, Stocks and Commodities. It's a very slow build up but the only accessible way for me to get what I want.

[Asker]

I have no problem getting it, and have never had to pay either. But seems like a sgort term solution

[Unit1]

Yeah, point being is we want sex like every hour. That's pretty natural and expected. Once you get old, you'll probably miss it. I know I do.
What's "abnormal" is not wanting sex at all. INMHO.