How to get over being used for sex?

[Anonymous]

it has ruined my life knowing everyday that the guy I'm in love with uses me for sex.

he's so manipulative and when I say he can't come round, he won't take no for an answer.

Everyone thinks its my fault for being a doormat, but no one understands how controlling and manipulative he is when he wants something.

Plus, we do get on and have a laugh together and a lot to talk about, and therefore in the moment I feel he doesn't just see me as a sex object. But I know he does and it hurts. It makes me so depressed and has had a very serious impact on my mental health. I have very low self esteem and I just want to cry all the time. I feel ill never ever be good enough for anyone to invest in.

[kyleelyn199723]

And why do you think you aren’t worthy of finding a guy that makes you laugh but also sees you a lot more than a sex object. Believe me when I say this, guys are easily replaceable.

[Anonymous]

It is very tough to get over that. He is a jerk and you don’t deserve a jerk. You deserve better. You should tell his parents and also get support from friends, and therapists. You deserve support to be able to move on in life.

[Yourfriend2021]

Don't let that guy ruin you, it's not you, it's him. You're good enough, don't worry and just break it off with him.

[Kroberts16]

You have to hold your ground. Set some boundaries. Tell him to step up or step out.

[OlderAndWiser]

Who is in charge of your life?

[EssenceOfLight]

You're afraid of taking control of yourself, so others take control over you. You can't be assertive if you aren't consequent in your actions

[Equi2ube]

So start using him for sex. Either that or charge him.

[Equi2ube]

And as long as you feel like you are good enough for no one, then, by definition, you are. You need self worth and to feel attractive. I can't tell you how to get there, but you've got to.
If you don't then you'll be exactly the person who gets used every time.
It's cliché but true, if you can't love yourself, no one else can either.

[Wise4myage]

You need to cut him out of your life for good and focus on forgiving yourself.

[noohair]

He won't take no for an answer is called rape. Stand up for yourself, No one can do that for you.

[Anonymous]

I mean girls secretly love the abuse that’s the problem. They low-key want a guy that treats them poorly

[Uptowngirl88]

IT IS YOUR FAULT STUPID

[disgustingweebtrash]

shit happens

[In_Trance]

Live n learn

[Anonymous]

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