How do you get over someone who only used you for sex?

[Anonymous]

I genuinely had feelings for him and he made me believe he did too. Suddenly he started ignoring me and hanging out with other girls. Im so heartbroken, i have always had the best intentions for him and he genuinely made me believe he cared for me. I want to forget about him but it hurts so much. by the way i have to see him daily because we are in the same class so i can't cut off contact or never see him again

[boggboss]

By not forgetting u have to accept it and learn from this experience understanding where u went wrong and that he was a asshole that was lying from the start

[Asker]

Thanks i appreciate it! How do i know where i went wrong though? Because i feel like i genuinely did everything in my power to make it work

[boggboss]

Thats one off your mistakes when it comes to relationships and dating if u put in 100% thats only 50 percent off the relationship because it requires him to also want to make it work and be trying by the sounds off it he never intended for anything to happen past him getting what he wanted

[Asker]

That makes sense!! Thanks

[CharlieTrag]

This is why olden people say sex after marriage.

[Asker]

I used to want that too but i have thought about it and for myself i decided this is not what i wanted. I dont regret sleeping with him. I am sad over the fact that he pretended to have feelings when he didn't

[Anonymous]

Sarah?

[Asker]

How did you know?

[Opinion Owner]

You were a dancer?

[Opinion Owner]

Or are one?

[Asker]

No haha