so I went on two dates this with this guy who I was talking to on instagram, I always thought he was cute and was flattered to be seeing him. he's muslim and im not. I fell so hard for this guy and things ended terribly between us. but Im blocked on everything and I really do feel crazy for chasing him and going as far as to saying that im in love with him off two dates and a month of talking/texting. its been 5 months since this happen and I can't get over him and I still cry over him. am I crazy for feeling this way? I've talked to multiple guys, gone clubbing and I've been on dating apps but I just can't find someone that gave me the feeling he did, I just feel like it was love at first sight and im miserable since it ended. how can I forget him and be happy again, I've been considering seeing a therapist. I've acknowledged he did wrong in some aspects and so did I, but I don't know why he would block me and not communicate once. I think about how things used to be a lot and fall into this cycle. I feel stupid because we do have religious / cultural differences and I was willing to do anything for him.
At least YOU went out on a few dates. I still feel sad about a guy I felt as though I ALMOST had a chance to go on at least one date with. I've had wonderful boyfriends since then, but I still can't get over how he blocked me from talking to him instead of trying to salvage the conversation like I was trying to do. It's just something you have to live with I guess.
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simple. find someone else to be crazy over
in all honesty, you need to reflect on why you are crazy for him. is it his good looks? is it his money? is it something else? you need to be honest with yourself and not lie to yourself otherwise you'll end up in the same situation.
if you've found the answer, you need to then ask yourself, are those reasons really important to you? is it more important a partner be good-looking as opposed to treating you well? is it more important a partner have money as opposed to having the potential to get money even if he started off in the mud? there's a lot of questions you'll need ask yourself and need answering yourself.
It goes away with time. You can also talk to other guys.
Unrequited love is brutal. It’s still a loss though that you’ll have to process to heal.
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