What to do when my girlfriend is taller than me, and prefers to date taller men?

[nik0102]

i really like her as she is, the only thing is that she longs for a taller boyfriend and sometimes it sucks seeing her gaze at some tall guys walking by

[TommyWiseau69]

Just dump her. You're wasting your time. Doesn't matter if she likes other things about you. I find it weird if a woman were to like certain aspects of me but like not see me as her "ideal" and still likes other types of guys. Finding a woman that actually likes everything in a guy if he's not tall is rare as fuck these days. Good luck

[nik0102]

If it is rare why should I dump her? The next one could be bothered by something else

[TommyWiseau69]

Thats why I'm saying its rare to find a good woman these days. Cut her out of your life if its really that bad, but even if it isn't it probably will end up not being so great at some point so save yourself before you get miserable. I would probably just focus on yourself but don't expect to find any good woman. Its like trying to find a good apple a bunch of rotten ones, the same goes for guys too. If I were in your position I would dump her in an instant, I would hate that feeling that i'm a lesser and less favored still than another type of guy. Its really not genuine at all.

[boggboss]

Why would she decide to be with u if u are not what she is attracted too

[nik0102]

who knows, maybe i check all the other boxes

[boggboss]

But surely if its a problem u are in a doomed relationship

[nik0102]

i mean, when we are having breaks, her friends with benefits are always taller

[boggboss]

Lol what does that even mean when u have breaks how is this a relationship u want to be in

[nik0102]

It is just something to refresh the relationship

[boggboss]

Lol u shouldn't need to refresh the relationship mate unless u guys plan on being short term this will never work long term

[nik0102]

I mean, during the break she had what she was missing

[boggboss]

So like I said if u have somthing long term with kids how will thay work oh mummy is gone for a few days she will be back this is trolling

[ShesRad80]

has she literally told you she prefers taller or is it just your insecurity? height means nothing if you really like/love someone

[nik0102]

she has told me that taller than her is what she wants. also that she feels more relaxed when being around someone taller. also, she is 5.9 and i am 5.7

[ShesRad80]

thats ridiculous, there is nothing wrong with being short

[nik0102]

objectively, 5.7 is short or average for a man?

[ShesRad80]

im 4'11 everyones taller then me, i dont think 5'7 is short

[nik0102]

i dont know, in my culture at least, women have been very critical of my height

[ShesRad80]

you can't help your height its silly.
American girls can be weird with height too

[gothbxtch]

if she’s into you specifically she won’t care

[nik0102]

She is but also craves this difference

[htmndg183]

Why is she with you in the first place if she is that shallow? Not only are you both unhappy, she's constantly hinting at her problem. I'd leave her if i were you. I've dated taller girls but i've never had to hear this.

[Reem12345reem]

then just get talller

[In_Trance]

you put up with it or you move on