Is it bad I don’t want to sleep over?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been dating for over a year now, and I still don’t like sleeping over. Even with previous partners I didn’t like sleeping over because I am a VERY light sleeper, and unless I’m sleeping alone, I will not sleep at all. Like I feel like I’ll be that person that’ll want to have 2 beds in their bedroom when they’re married xD
My boyfriend is the opposite and can sleep anywhere, so he’s becoming concerned as to why I don’t like sleeping over.
Would this be a dealbreaker in a relationship?

[ProbablyClueless]

That would be a dealbreaker for me. It's not even a question of how light of a sleeper you are, it's a comfort level thing.

I would find it super strange (and honestly, extremely insulting) that you didn't have that level of comfort with me to fall asleep together a year in.

[SnowedIn]

You're not in middle school: it's not a "sleep over".

But, no, it's not bad if you don't want to spend the night.

[Anonymous]

I could not be in a relationship where we didn't sleepover with each other. I'm sure guys want it even more.

[Jazzy54]

No. If you don’t want to sleepover, don’t sleep over. 😊

[OlderAndWiser]

Dealbreaker for me.

[Anonymous]

It would be a dealbreaker for me.