Do you have any tips for online dating and matching with older men?

[TheSimFans]

When dating an older man, I should be aware of red flags. I have been experimenting with different communication styles when I text. There are some older men who seem pushy. There are some older men who have friends on Facebook who are girls, but I'm not sure if they are suitable or not. I'm not sure if the new guy that I've been texting on Whatsapp is the guy I'm talking to. The other guy kept pushing me. How should I proceed?

[RavVid]

What is an older guy to you? That might be 30, 35, 40 or more. And what is pushy? I'm guessing wanting sex but maybe it is pushy in other ways.

As guys get older we appreciate girls more and probably form friendships with girls so I don't why that should be a red flag. At least some girls like said older guy so I would think it more green flag.

Are you thinking the pushy guy has an alter ego and you are texting the same physical guy? turns of phrase consistent typos, miss-spellings would be some indicators.

I don't think there is anything special in matching with older men cw younger men other than indicating a preference for men who have got their life in order and have life experience/maturity. It is possible that you might think 35 is quite ok but that 35 yo man is hesitant to approach a 25 yo woman. So I think you should be clear what ages you will consider.

I don't think that communication style would make much difference but he won't be Gen Z and will likely be more straight up and more certain. We expect different communication style from women anyway because they do. If you are fun & caring you're good to go.

[shortster]

Know what you want and don't waste time on guys who don't fullfil your wants.

[DannyUk2017]

Older men are pushy? Well not growing any younger, so ofcourse if we find someone that we match with, we try not to lose them. But his pushy "sexualy" then that man cannot contain himself, it might be a sex depraved man that is hungry, obsessed, so you might want to take "caution" in there, as one thing can lead to another.

[TheSimFans]

How pushy is a red flag and watch older men i mention two men on my detail , one older kept saying abot dating me and do you want a relationship with me. the other men just ask me out twice and is too soon. I'm younger and only one or two thing in common in one guy and both commutation from WhatsApp's. Do i need to be more assertive with men that are older then me and none of them hasn't said anything about sex. just seem to be young men just talk about sex from online dating. not yet metup with two men yet but I'm not sure

[slatyb]

Pushing you how? Texting before meeting is a waste of time. Just go meet them for coffee or whatever and see how it goes.

[TheSimFans]

not metup since i'm not attracted to them if they going to be pushy and persistent? . i don't want to meetup with them.

[Sparkie460]

I've never done online dating. That started after I was married I think. I did it the old fashioned way

[Provingdatruth]

How old do you want them?…

[TheSimFans]

Not too old 20 to 30+ . yet nothing seem very good to any men. that I met

[TheSimFans]

From online dating

[Lokiion]

Try people younger then you but not to young the older you go the more they not gonna wanna go out or have fun also since they in college more the. Likely you will be able to spend more time with them