Is this most guys experience?
Is tinder easy for men to get hook ups?
Is this most guys experience?
That depends.
Those apps used to be a lot better for men. Now they've sort of become a paywall. ie because so many simps pay for it I gather their messages, superlikes etc are higher up in a girl's stack.
Also, it depends if one is looking for quality. No one should be bragging about a cheap shag. Anyone can get their dick sucked by a grubby girl who has been dicked 50 times. You said yourself, you swiped right on all the women. 19 out of 20 women on those sites are not worth swiping on.
Tinder has a glitch. Every time you log on the second person you see is always a match if you have any matches to begin with. Why they put your matches in the second slot who knows but it works. Now you might not like your match but at least you know if they do like you that is where you will find them.
Tinder is for sex. If you are a hot guy, you can get any girl. Don't listen to the fake coach. lol
Tinder is for idiots who don't care about throwing their money away. Men are such suckers.
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I tried Tinder once, after my divorce. I got a few offers from women but never followed up on any.
If you're in a Big City, it's easy to get laid on Tinder and Bumble.
It used to be easier with the free versions when you could swipe as many times as you want. I would always have "99+ Matches" in my inbox and could get sex or head any night of the week.
BUT...
I'll tell ya, the gold-mine for sex was CRAIGSLIST PERSONAL ADS. I was so PO'ed when they shut the personal ads down. You could post one ad in a big city like SF or LA and have at least 30 options that same night.
Depends on your attractiveness. And by that I don't simply mean your looks, because looks alone are useless. Your overall atractiveness, that includes your social skills, your personality, how you present yourself, your "game", and yes, your looks too. If that stuff is okay, you can get hookups. But it's not easy, you have to put effort into it and e patient.
Here's the thing with specifically looking for hookups - it's usually a bad idea. Casual hookups are something that happens when the circumstances are right, not when you go out looking for it. By specifically looking to find hookups, you most likely are already ruining your chances. Also, women can smell that from a mile away. They don't want a guy who explicitly wants hookups, they too just want it too let it happen if it happens to happen, not plan it ahead.
who cares when you can have a doll? it never say no, and doesn't have headaches. It will "try" everything and loves all the positions. it won't get pregnant and the back door is never dirty. as soon as they come equipped with ai in 1-2 years, womankind becomes obsolete. just being a messenger stating the obvious here, no need to hate.
No cause the only men on there are prople who are afraid to talk to women in real life or have almost no social skills so they can’t even position themselves to get into that situation also if you not somewhat attracted not many women will even acknowledge you exist
I have tried it and had no luck , Most of the girls I matched with were scams or prostitutes trying to get money from me so I don’t fall for that shit , so no I had no luck what so ever on Tinder , I have better luck meeting girls in public
statistically no for the average guy. hell yes for the top tier guys
This right here. There’s not really room for your personality to shine. It’s a split second glance and a swipe. So, the best-looking men get laid EASY on the app. But most men have little success.
Unfortunately, this has made a lot of men conclude that only looks matter. But, that’s just the nature of the app.
In real life situations where you interact with people before exchanging info, you have an opportunity to show your personality and be seen as a person rather than just a profile picture.
Tinder is not nearly so fertile as it used to be. Seems like a lot more work to get laid there then it was a few years ago; with a lot more wasted time and frustration.
Yes. You can either go straight to the hookup or you go on date (s) and hookup. But it doesn’t always workout, of course.
You’re shown to more people when you first sign up. The longer you’re on the worse your matches will be. You also have to be careful of catfish, bots and AI.
I'm not sure, I only tried it once at a friends insistence. I got plenty of matches but would never consider meeting a random from the internet for a date. I'm old fashioned in this regard, I look in person & express my interest in person.
i would say that hyper attractive men can maybe use tinder for that. the average male can IF he has no standards.
Depends how shallow you are.
Also women looking for hookups could be honey traps in tinder. Like girls cheeting or using a guy to get their x or current man jelous.
Only if you're a top 10% in looks and status, then yes, otherwise get used to your hand.
It's as easy as picking up a black hole and throwing it into a neighboring galaxy, which is impossible
I dont use tinder. Its cheap. Its degrading. Its fake. Its an STD waiting to happen. Its a kidnapping / rape , waiting to happen. Any self respecting person, does not use tinder
It's usually fairly easy to get matches, but damn near impossible to follow up for a hookup
only a small percent of guys usually have success on tinder. I feel like i missed the whole dating app era i ask girls out the old fashioned way.
as easy as being wholely illiterate and trying to read long format tax codes and laws.
Nope.
the algorithm favors women And is designed to keep them single and swiping
Unless he's Mr. Popular. The answer is no and not really.
Nope. In a decade on these apps, I never got a hookup out of it. I did have a couple conversations, but definitely not any hookups lol
Easy for women to get hookups. Men get nothing, unless you're super rich and/or hot.
If the man is extremely attractive like the top 10% than yeah. Rest don’t get noticed
I think that's all it's used for
It’s based only on looks. So it’s easy if you look good.
Wow hookup culture.. you don't need expensive marriage or money good for you
Only a small percentage of men seem to have success with that
Not necessarily. Much easier for women
Yeah that’s pretty much all it’s good for
It's easy if you lie and are not picky.
Only half of dudes get even one legit match.
Fuck no 😂😂😂😂😂
Tried when I was 18, nothing so binned it
Never worked for me
Yes and no
Probably, yeah.
Nope
Always takes effort
Yeah way to essay
@April_love lol this is true. have u tried tinder yet?
I did I was band from tinder
@April_love why did you get banned?
No it isn't
Nope
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