I'm not asking for advice lol i want you to know that women can hurt men too
Hmmm. I can think of a few things:
- Cheat on him with his brother.
- Cheat on him with his best friend.
- Get pregnant and not even know who the father is (cheated with a bunch of dudes).
- Making raise a baby that wasn't his until he discovers that he's not the dad from a DNA test.
- Get him arrested for not paying enough child support when she was spending the money on nails and lashes.
- Give him an STD knowingly.
- Wait years just to divorce him when he's at his worst and take the house, the kids and half of his net worth (Dr. Dre's wife divorced him when he was having a brain aneurysm operation)
- Lie about abuse to get a divorce so you can keep the house (true story).
- Lie about rape, then try to give him a friend invite on Facebook after he served his sentence (Brian Banks)
- Lie about rape and have him looked for decades, only to find out 40 years later he was innocent.
- Lie about sexual assualt and have a lynch mob brutally murder him and mutilate his face (Emmitt Till).
- Assualt him physically, then claim that she was assaulted and have him get canceled (Jonathan Majors).
Honestly, I can keep going on and on but you get the point.
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+1 yI feel like I going have make up something dark for this. Lead him on and take all his money not be as good look as she said she was. make him look bad in every way she can. lie to him. Cheat on Him then make him think he have kids with her when he dose not have. then pay for kids that are not his. Take his sperm In the bath room and then have his real kid and not tell him. molest or rape his kid. then accused his of doing it and Cheating on her. Try turn everyone against him. Also maybe molest or rape and hit him and get him addicted to drugs. Not take his last name. Not get a divorce till she get all his stuff take the kid that not his away for a bit. Refuse the kid that she had with his is her kid. Say it from him Cheating. Do this for a few years When she is an unfit mom and had the other kid taken away. have her get mad cut off all contact with him and his family. then try get him put into jail. try get him fired from his job. Burn his home with him and the 2 kids in it. Take the new car away and start a new life and pretend it never happened.
That the best I can think of.
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934 opinions shared on Dating topic. Men are human. What hurts won’t will hurt men and vice versa. And just like women are different from each other, so are men. Different things hurt different people differently. Generally you will find greater differences within the sex than across the aisle bc of age back ground education culture religion political views general outlook etc etc so you’re not going to learn much by trying to figure out men vs women. WAY too many variables.
What you could do, think of things that greatly hurt you, then keeping it neutral and not framing it as things that hurt women or men (bc that will prejudice men against being honest bc most are taught to be a ma is to not be whatever a woman is likes hates etc etc ) then ask everyone equally if it hurts them and see by the numbers there is huge diff between women and men in polls. 🙂🙂
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First worst thing is falsely claim rape and send him to prison. Second worse thing isis to file for divorce, lie and claim that he abuses the children. Third worse thing is divorce him, ignore the court orders regarding visitation and never let him see his children. Fourth worst thing is falsely file sexual harassment and get him fired from his job.
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2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Probably to turn his children against him. Second would be to withhold access to them, by leaving him and moving away with the kids. Those are the stories that bother me the most, beyond outright violence/murder.
If there are no kids, then it's a toss-up between cheating and significant financial theft - cleaning out entire accounts, etc. My godmother's son, who is my age and who I grew up with, stupidly married a trailer trash disaster who stole $60,000 from his business account plus another $10,000 from a joint account when she decided to leave him. He had to borrow money to make payroll and complete his jobs. Of course, she now has 6 kids with 5 men, and has been to jail several times, but being female, has barely served a tiny fraction of her sentences, and still routinely commits theft and fraud. At least one of her daughters is a stripper/OF girl, with full support from mom...40 Reply1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Lead him on with the promise of love or pussy and he gets none
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I think this just leads to disappointment.
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@Billlewis so you'd rather get your kids molested than be deprived of a woman's hole?
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+1 yLove him and dump him. I want you to know that men have feelings too.
130 Reply 1.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I get where you're coming from, but I think the question just presents an opportunity for women to revel in hurting men, as many women take pleasure in cruelty.
00 Reply16.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. False rape accusations
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Yup. It’s over for you after this. Especially if the girl is underage. Hanging yourself will be less painful.
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@jeffend888 you are hanging out with underaged girls?
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@Mewzinc No. But underaged girls love to pretend they are of consenting age and then play the age card when things don't go their way or when they get caught. I have seen it happen.
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@Mewzinc it’s easy to get fake IDs. Bars and clubs might have scammers to show the fakes. Most guys don’t carry one around.
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Definitely one of them
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* Have a scanner to scan fake IDs
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@midnightmoon05 that's crazy. I went my entire life without having one of those.
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@Mewzinc didn’t have what? Fake IDs?
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@jeffend888 I have seen this as well.
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@midnightmoon05 Yes.
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@KrakenAttackin Yup. And the worst part is they all know this. They know they have maximum deniability because they know they can play the age card if they have to.
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@jeffend888 Absolutely true and women will not hesitate to use any weapon in their arsenal.
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@Mewzinc fake IDs are common. Younger teens kids use it to get into clubs.
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+1 yLorena Bobbitt comes to mind….
For those who don’t know the name, she took a kitchen knife and cut off her husbands penis while he slept. Then she drove away and threw his penis in a drainage ditch.
That’s probably the worst thing I can think of…
Follow up to the story. Doctors were able to sew his penis back on AND sometime later the husband did some porn movies like… “Bobbitt uncut”
TRUE STORY!13 Reply- +1 y
He was also very abusive, still abusive now.. so he got what he deserved..
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Yeah it is well deserved.. keep your hands to yourself or get what is coming to you..
1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Marry him with the sole intent of spitting out a spog , then cut off all sexual activity , use said child as leverage to snag at least 60% , he he bought everything into the marriage , then fck other guys , be known as a tramp , never work a paid job , just laugh at him how you have managed to play the system ,
Then for good measure kick him in the nuts for physical pain , tell him pay more , or he will never ever see his child again , turn up to court in glasses and dressed like a church mouse , and start crying saying how he emotionally abused you..
Few men will make it though alive , if they do , they tend to be in jail.
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@molonski2. Very well said.
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@KrakenAttackin thanks Kraken , I was trying to think of a combination of horrendous things I've seen women do over the years mate -- hahahahaha , all certainly are pretty common.
+1 yMarry him, divorce him, take more then half his stuff, take the house and car, make him pay alimony till you remarry, take the kids, make him pay all the court cost
A women can destroy a man life by just being a total bitch
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Yup, leveraging the court system to completely turn the man’s life upside down. Which will take years to recover from, if they recover at all. It’s one thing to divorce, it’s another to completely destroy him financially and emotionally by putting him into crippling debt and taking away the kids.
The sky is the limit you girls are a mystery i know its programed in example my daughter lost a tooth I gave her 5 bucks later we are at store wants a barbie doll i told her i did not have 10 bucks for it and while i was making dinner she puller both her front teeth out came in kitchen with a bloody paper towel i still have the picture so natually I gave her 10 bucks she handed it back and said you hang onto it. I knew right then in life that wemen are the controllers so you already know you just might not know it lol
10 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. Honestly quite a bit but at the same time not too much
The quite a bit part is in the moment of time she could just totally f*** your life up destroy you all she has to do is lie and say something about you and you're f***** because the courts are going to believe her not unless you have 100% proof
And then the not too much part no matter what she does you will survive you will get over it and she's the one that will have to pay for it somewhere down the road especially if she was lying or cheating to f*** you up10 ReplyAccusing them of sexual assault falsely.
if a man has sexual assault a women and there is a valid sexual assault yes charges should be brought. A women sleeping with a guy and waking up regretting it the next day isn’t sexual assault.
by falsely, accusing, a man of sexual assault is going to ruin his life regardless, if he’s innocent or not because the thing is, everyone hates people who sexually assault women. So the worst thing you can do is accuse a dude who is not guilty of sexual assault of sexual assault because then he won’t even be able to get a job shoveling shit out of the barn. You’re basically actively attempting to cause the guy to go commit suicide because no one would ever hire him the women is literally ruining his life and there no come back, Even if it goes to court and the guy is proven innocent he still wouldn’t be able to work anywhere women who do this are basically guilty of murder.
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+1 yBreak his heart. Guys have a lot of problems showing emotion, but when a girl breaks his heart, he has a hard time hiding anything. Cheating on a guy is horrible also, but that's still breaking his heart. And guys who are assholes to girls get more respect, like the girl stays with him, and the more he treats her like garbage, the more she wants him, though a lot of girls deny this, but their actions speak for themselves.
If both the boyfriend and girlfriend sat down and both described to each other what they want in the relationship, they would go so much smoother. I don't know why anyone hasn't figured this out yet!
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+1 yEat from my plate like on a date.
I’m allowed to hate this. There’s a huge distinction between sharing and entitlement I see in people and I’d perfer a woman that understands this difference and what it means to men. Like don’t be one of those bitches that entitles herself to my stuff as I have no interest in taking a thing from you. I would assume if I ate from your plate without asking in your head you’d be like “oh man” just a little bit. It’s not the amount that she takes. It’s the principal. What else will she take from you and how is she going about it? Is she politely asking not so often not a big deal. Is it’s a thing than she probably would take anything from you.00 Reply1.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Kidnap all the people he loves and force him to watch videos of them captive and being tortured and slowly dismembered while being kept alive as long as possible. Then torturing he, himself and eventually murdering him after putting him through psychological humiliation and excruciating pain like cutting off fingers, toes, genitals etc.
I mean, you asked...
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damn that's real deep
- False rape accusations
- not knowing who the father of her kid is
- entrapment by saying stuff like if you leave imma kms while she cheats and fucks other dudes (ik someone who this happened to broke him mentally )
- cheat on him with his relatives or friends also if you get pregnant by one of them and tell him it’s his
- having him raise a kid she knows that’s not his ( usually ends with the kid not having a father and the “father” broken)
- marrying him with the sold purpose of a divorce and a easy come up ( get a prenup fellas)
- physical abuse
- mentally torture him
- physical torture him (which will play into mental torture)
- killing his family in front of him or torture everyone he carried about (I’ve seen a video on this happened in Mexico)
I believe these are some of the many worse things you can do to anybody
10 ReplyAccuse him of rape, never smile and talk to him much, treat him like a dirt. refuse to have sex with him. find his weak point and use it to harass him. gossip bad about him to your friends and others. never give him good food to eat and instead give him spoilt food and rotten vegetables and fruits. never give him good water. embarass him in front of his friends and your friends. never sleep next to him. always shout at him and tell offensive words to him. cheat on him by having sex with other guys, if his mother or father is alive and living with him complain bad about him to them by making false stories that his parents will believe you and scold him. if he is staying in your own house, then chase him away for being in your property. When he is sleeping, pour water on him immediately. pour dirty water on the soap he is using.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yNot respecting his masculinity.
It’s easy for a woman to respect a man’s masculinity when he offers some sort of benefit for her. If she already likes him, she needs him for something, being nice to him looks good for her own optics, etc. then she has an active interest to treat him well to a certain capacity.
But when a man can offer none of these things and yet he isn’t antagonistic then a woman has absolutely zero right to disrespect any man’s masculinity.
This is why the friendzone is so insulting to men. It’s not that we aren’t getting romance/sex. While that’s heartbreaking and disappointing a mature man can accept it. Attraction isn’t a choice.
But a woman who confidently friendzones a man literally has no respect for the man’s masculinity. She just see’s him as another woman she can platonically bond with. She doesn’t see him as a real man.
That’s a deeper insult to a man than most women will ever comprehend.
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+1 yThe worst thing I've ever heard a woman do to a man was make false allegations of abuse and sexual assault against him. This was before the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard case, so everyone just believed her side of the story without question. He was arrested more than once, lost his job, was evicted, and feel into a bottomless depression. None of his friends believed him, and if I remember correctly only his parents thought she was exaggerating, but still believed he did something. He ended up committing suicide because he had no support and no one believed anything he said to defend himself. After his funeral, she confessed that she made everything up but for some reason some of the people still believed he did what she accused him of.
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+1 yIg make his whole family hate him, then when he goes to explain everything, kill the whole family in front of him so he doesn't get closure. The memories alone would be mentally tormenting, then have him kidnapped and stringed up in a basement with a blindfold on. I think beating him like he's a pinata would hurt really badly, then make deep slices in him arms and legs only to pour salt in them and rip the previous cuts into bigger ones. Then I guess to really finish it off and make it real bad, take the knife and cut a trail leading from his groin to the bottom of his neck and leaving him there with his organs out for a few minutes. Then bring out the a dog who hasn't eaten for a bit to finish him off. All of this in a dimly lit room would really put him on edge. I think this is one of the worst things a woman can do to a man.
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But thats just my opinion
My ex cut me off of sex for some reason really pissed me off because it wasn't about the sex it was about control and she wanted it, she wanted to be the one in charge the one making the decisions and telling me what to do because she was right/she knew better she was using sex as a way to get it (if you're a good boy you will get it and if your bad ill take it away) her dad was the same way so it must run in her family never got along with him either
Probably why we're not together anymore I wanted a partnership where we tslk about it and work together and she wanted to be the boss making all the decisions, she never understood that the more you tighten your grip the more will slips through your fingers,
people don't like be controlled they will grow to resent it and the controller
Probably the reason why she is alone today 25 years later11 Reply- +1 y
That don't matter when all he does is Jack off
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+1 yCheat on him and tell him it's his child but it isn't. Definitely there is nothing more disgusting than committing paternity fraud and him still being forced to pay child support even when proven he's not the child's father.
41 Reply Lie about his integrity and/or accuse him of heinous acts of which he did not do. It’s quite disgusting what some women will accuse a man of.
21 ReplyI probably shouldn't say this but women have tried to hurt me all my life and always failed, I've never really gave them that power over my day. but to answer your question? The worst thing? Its die on them. 100%. Die slowly and hide it. Hide it until you are unable to. Not because you want to spite them, but because you want to protect them. Now let me tell you. There's nothing worse than watching your best friend die powerless to protect them. Indescribable. The slower the worse.
The one woman that I'd crawl through broken glass for was the one that warped my spirit for half a decade and counting.
00 Reply3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. I would think virtually the same things a man could do to a woman.
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@Paige90 Literally not possible. Please cite any actual trial in human history
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@Vegasrunner
Naturally your apologies are fully accepted.
I suppose because of my job as a forensic scientist these type of cases I pay particular attention to.
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+1 yAssault him.
tell him he deserves it.
laugh at him and call him pathetic when he rightfully goes berserk.
Tell the entire family about what a berserk monster he is , conveniently leaving out the part where you put your hands on the guy.
Then triple down on gaslighting him about how he is an abuser.
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+1 yGaslighting and ghosting
Demanding apologies when she's in the wrong
Give the silent treatment for trivial things
Take on chores or responsibilities for the sole purpose of using that against him later
Nitpicks and criticises to such a degree so as to never be happy or satisfied
Cheating of course.
And the PIÈCE DE RÉSISTANCE: False rape accusations and related allegations.20 Reply - 8.8K opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 ypublicly claim that he raped her. nobody believes a man and even in the rare cases where men who were not actually guilty were vindicted like with johnny depp, the stigma does still stick and they still suffer from the consequence of her doing that.
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vindicated*
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meh. it's ok. think i even heard it at some point before without knowing the name.
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@Mewzinc probably in flames. what's yours?
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Woah thanks for introducing me to a new band. I listened to Call My Name. I love how the singer sings with his soul and puts everything in it lol. I could listen to that song when I'm angry, along with slipknot people = shit. Also I listened to End The Transmission which the lyrics in that song are pretty cool. "Choose your side, there are no winners. Hell is overcrowded and Heaven is full of Sinners." Your band reminds me of that older show on adult swim called Metalocalypse.
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@Mewzinc yeah the guy seems to be an insufferable edge lord personally. but he seems to be able to sing well and song writing is decent too from what i just saw xD didn't even know them before.
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@Mewzinc clicked through a few ones xD nothing really stuck in my head tbh xD
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@Mewzinc hardly xD i can play a little guitar but i haven't touched the thing in a while.
1.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Make false accusations and ruin his life, keep his kids away from him, lie to his kids so they grow up to hate him while he’s busting his ass to provide for them while working three jobs and living in a trailer.
women can be just as evil as men…because they’re both human.
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Opinion Owner+1 yUsually is.
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+1 yBetween cheating on him especially with his best friend or sibling or faslely accusing him of rape.
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+1 yIsn't the war between men and women grand? It makes life worth living. The coolest thing is that if men wanted they could wipe out women in a heartbeat. But the fact that they don't is so nice and says a lot about the relationship. Think about it.
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To be clear I was not being sarcastic just in case you thought I was. It's actually quite fascinating I think this tension between men and women. Is it love or hate? Or is it just a recognition that there can be no posterity without both? It's fascinating to me.
As to the "Sounds like a dream" comment I am not sure what you mean. I can think of several different interpretations. Can you explain it more?
3.2K opinions shared on Dating topic. It would be marrying a man and then divorcing him and then taking half of his money and all that (house, car, assets...). That'll deliver the man straight into poverty.
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+1 yOverall disrespect. To men respect is love.
40 Reply1.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Any kind of emotional damage that makes him feel like less of a man especially when it´s done publically. Like treat him like a child make him depend on her and then threaten to take it away from him.
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Anonymous(36-45)+1 yshare his dick pic with all her friends while making fun of it and calling it small. If she showed them the same picture while praising it, they would all be agreeing that it's so huge, but getting a group of women to all agree that his pp is little is a pretty bad thing.
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Well, he shouldn't have sent it in the first place - No, he shouldn't have taken a damn picture of it to begin with. 🤦♀️
Opinion Owner+1 y@PrettyCrumblBb no no. what if she asked for it when he originally sent it. but they had a fight at a later date, and she decided to share it with all of them?
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Who cares if she asked for it. Why are you dumb enough to send it?
Opinion Owner+1 ynoooooooo. sexting is pretty fun. only SOMETIMES it's dumb. 😲
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Nah it's always dumb
+1 yPlay with his feelings and emotions when you don't love him
Monetary stuff can be earned back. But once you break a person's heart irrespective of the gender it takes forever to heal and even trust someone who might actually love them for real this time.
So I would say feelings00 Reply466 opinions shared on Dating topic. Women don't hurt men the way men hurt women. Women prefer emotional damage. Which I'd say is worse.
10 ReplyMurder him, do fraud, cheat on him, kill his children, torture, murder his wife, hurt his family members, basically everything a man can do to a woman
10 ReplyEmasculate him in public
Nag him till he withdraws
Emotionally gaslight him
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+1 yCall him husband material?

Run Forest Run!! 00 Reply Find whatever it is he holds dear and take that away.
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+1 yInsult /humiliate. And I think it applies to both genders
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+1 yFalsely accuse him of a heinous act in an attempt to discredit him or potentially get him in trouble with the public.
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+1 yin our society, i feel the worst is: if she falsely accused a man , because everybody would believe her, and cancel him etc.
10 Reply 567 opinions shared on Dating topic. Accuse a man of rape or domestic violence, even if she withdraws the accusation later, because the mud will stick for the rest of his life, and there has been cases of men committing suicide just from being accused of either.
00 Reply453 opinions shared on Dating topic. Paternity fraud, hasn't changed since millions of years, the man spend his resources raising genes which aren't his.
10 Reply351 opinions shared on Dating topic. r*pe, abuse, and murder, because those are the worst things anyone can do to anyone
10 Reply935 opinions shared on Dating topic. Gonna go broad here & say "If she were to invite any form of extreme negativity into his life."
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+1 yShe can give her pussy away to whoever she wants. I mean it is hers. However the worst thing she could do to me to piss me off would be to fuck up my car, or my truck. I catch and cut her fucking hair off.
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+1 yGet pregnant by another man and lie and have him believe he is raising his own child.
20 Reply Weaponise the things he cares about. Love, sex, family. If he truly cares, weaponising these against him will be brutal
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+1 yCheat on him, hurt people he loves, rape or assault accusations, burn his house down, assault him, break his heart
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+1 yFalsely accuse him of tape/abuse or get an abortion without telling him
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+1 yoh you yourself sure know how to "stick it to the man"
you don't need our advice tootz
01 Reply Cheat, misuse their pictures, kill, make him suicidal.
20 Replykick them where it hurts as a joke or take their kids from them
10 Reply4.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. Q: What's the worst thing a woman can do to a man?
A: Marry him.
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+1 yThe worst thing a woman can do to a man is make him believe he is worthless.
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+1 yTelling lies.
Ultimately anything bad she does only happens because she lied to make it happen.00 Reply Peg him, nothing is more shameful for a man than that shit, yea it's totally disgusting.
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