If your significant other kept arriving home an hour after getting off work would you find that suspicious?

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Telekinetic-Potato · Accepted Answer

No, sometimes you get out late. I've had jobs where I always got out 20 minutes late or so. Then there's driving, traffic, stopping somewhere on the way home for food, making phone calls in the quiet privacy of a car. An hour sounds like they're getting home pretty quick lol

What could they even have time for that you would have a problem with?

ForeverSingle28 · Accepted Answer

I agree with someone comment I just seen on here. At first i Didn't find it suspicious

He would get off at 8 am but sometimes didn't get home until 10-11am

Being that he would sometimes drop off coworkers, he would say he's hanging out with them for a little bit or whatever.. I never cared

Until 2 months later I found out he was at another girl house half of the time🤦🏾‍♀️ and that came with constant check ins, face times, location sharing and all

provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

... yikes.

I'd be breaking up with someone who gets antsy if I have a meeting that runs late or if I take a walk after work before heading home or some shit.

I guess - do you live 1h commute from your SO's work? Because if you do, you really need to calm down.

It's one hour. That's not a lot of time.

Finchie40 · Answer

Patterns can make suspicions rise , but not always a 100 percent accurate , but if your gut is telling you something is off, it’s always best to trust your gut to a certain degree but it’s best to keep it cool giving you time to dig deeper into the sudden change all of a sudden without letting them know you are onto them , Because once a cheater finds out you are on to them, they begin to cover their tracks even more making it harder for you to catch them if they are up to no good , when my ex was having an affair on me , my gut instincts knew something was off by the way she was acting towards me and by her sudden need for space from me , I played it that I wasn’t suspicious on anything and that’s how I fought her red handed and filed for divorce. So if your gut is suspicious you are best to play it cool and play investigator if need be

BadApple69 · Answer

The simple answer is…. I didn’t. The statement that she had to work late was 100% believable. I trusted her without question. Until 6 months later when I found out about the affair. Love is truly blind.
Never assume that your mate loves you as much as you love them….

Reagan said “ trust but verify”. This is really good advice.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

I work in D. C. That's called traffic. I, however, live in a town of 4000 people when not there. If I'm 20 minutes late to something there start calling the hospitals. All i all I think it depends on context, but I like @badapple69's reagan quote. That should be MHO

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

GPS!

lorenzomichael · Answer

Only if I didn't trust her. However if you can't or don't trust the one your with, then why be with them at all? Let me point this out for you. If there is no trust in any relationship, then there is no relationship.

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Depends on how far it is. That said, I think there's about 10km from my office to my home and it's not the first time it took me an hour or more to make it.

AndLikeThatHesGone · Answer

I mean, how long is the drive home? Does he stop by the grocery store? An hour doesn't seem like enough time for a date if that's what you're worried about.

spartan55 · Answer

Yeah, better start looking through his phone...🙄.  Have you ASKED him why?

Adam1978 · Answer

Depends on the distance to work doesn't it and if she managed to run some errands.

sheikalana · Answer

I would ask him why it took him so long to come home. Some days my husband doesn't come home straight after work but he usually tells me in advance.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, unless he has a good excuse, you have to assume he is up to no good.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Probably not... not unless that was a change in behavior for them and they never had a good explanation for why they started arriving late.

MysticDevice · Answer

I'd be curious what she did in that time but would be suspicious of it. Unless she came home agitated and paranoid.

Anonymous · Answer

Id expect him to tell me why in the first place. If it seems like shitty excuse only then id be suspicious, but this being constant itd be enough reason as well.

Anonymous · Answer

If you're being suspicious about something so trivial you shouldn't be in an adult relationship.

shasher · Answer

to be honest i wanna know since when is this behavior is going on? because that can help us get the answer

hismave · Answer

Yeah I would and I'd ensure we spoke about it cause communication, that way secrets can be revealed without knowing  Plus intuition really matters.

Pohjolan · Answer

Its contextual. Like how much time does she need in commuting?

Anonymous · Answer

With a side note: Always let me know what’s going on or what’s on your agenda. Communicate clearly and straight forward.

Slayer-X · Answer

he's definitely doing drugs; but hey, at least he's not cheating

DreamLife7 · Answer

You can't be serious rn lol omg

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