Is it a woman’s fault her husband leaves and abandons his family because she keeps aging?

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Women are told that our value decreases as we age and we become less desirable and that’s why men push away older women. I figured out, since men prefer younger women, that’s why they either cheat or leave and abandon their families because their wife is getting older. So, it is the woman’s fault because she didn’t find a way to stop aging? How do we stop aging in order to keep a man in our lives?

TonyMetal___86 · Accepted Answer

Are you for real witch sasha? Maybe you have the secret recipe how to make women ageless 🤣🤣

Anyways tbh, this is a sh*tty thought, a woman's value may increase or decrease depending on the way she acts and treats others, it's never about how she looks or her beauty...

If i love a girl and she loves me back the way i do, i'll keep loving her the way i do till we die!

Idc if she gets thin or fat or she become wrinkled, i only care about her inside beauty and about what she carries in her heart and mind, she will always be valuable for me no matter what her age is!

A man who abondons his wife and family just because his wife has aged is an animal and shouldn't be called a man because he is a disgrace for men, he's just a MALE!

Now about you, who told you that you aren't valuable or that you have lost your value because you're 30, by the way 30 is a young age and you have never lost your value, any person who tells you that you don't have a value, turn him instantly into a frog 🐸 😁

Lionman95 · Accepted Answer

No I think it´s a myth that guys cheat because their wife is aging. A guy that abandons his family does so because of conflicts with his wife or because he wasn´t ready to be a father but I sincerely doubt he´ll do so because his wife is aging.
People that say that a woman loses value because she gets older and doesn´t look as good as she might have looked in her youth are saying such more online where they talk a lot without consequences. It´s never just a question of looks there are other factors since many guys are actually looking for a woman to get old with.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

Aging is natural for everyone including men. We're not going to look the same in 10, 20, 30, years. But we can make an effort to look good and healthy. When people stop making an effort and let themselves go can be an issue. I've been married for three months now and although we haven't been married for that long I always make sure I look good around my husband every single day. I take care of myself I do it for the both of us and for health reasons too.

To answer your question is not the woman's fault but I also think people should not take relationships and marriages for granted you should always put some effort.

BasedBaeBecca · Accepted Answer

It is not a woman's fault their husband leaves or cheats just because they're aging. That is entirely on the man. The man should not have married you unless they were committed to you for life and growing old together. Men who chase after younger women because they've "aged" are shallow. Don't base your self worth, your value on what a man thinks of you. If he leaves its his loss. Don't ever try to stop aging to please a man. That's ridiculous and unrealistic. Find a better man, one who will love you forever, regardless of age.

jshm2 · Answer

That's utter bullshit and you're depressing yourself over nothing.

Older mature women are the bomb and even as a teen always preferred the older than younger.

Women are partners, not currency or "value" and desire is in the eye of the beholder. You could be ugly in New York, but stunning in Milan. It's about how you style and carry yourself. No woman looks good all of the time. It's about looking good when it matters.

aaron210419 · Answer

Of course it's not your fault, abusive manipulative relationships can leave you to believe that you had more of a part in it than you actually did. There are sick people out there who pretend to be something they're not just because it's something to do. One day you realize that that person you loved wasn't even real, it was an act, and now seeing them as they truly are is like watching someone else talk around in their skin.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Of course not. How could it be her fault that he would throw away a commitment because of something that inevitably happens to all who do not die?

Also, it is sad that so many people end up feeling valueless because of the absurd standards of "society." Ray Stevens was putting forth deep truth when he wrote "Everything is Beautiful." That truth is not negated just because some random strangers are too self-absorbed to appreciate it.

DextroShade · Answer

80% of divorces are initiated by women, so this situation you describe is rare. Even when men cheat they still usually don't plan to leave their wives for the side chicks. We don't expect you to not age, just don't get fat and stay out of the sun so that you age gracefully.

Anonymous · Answer

You're full of shit. Blaming a gender and playing the victim because you sleep around with degenerate guys. Those degenerate guys you choose to sleep around.

That was your choice stop blaming me for your mistakes. You should've picked the nice guy when you had a chance. Stop playing the victim.

sundayflower · Answer

Why would you even get married if you’re going to run for the hills when your partner, a human being, ages? You never loved them in the first place. That’s a problem on their part for being so superficial.

provokeesmokee · Answer

Wtf kinda idiot marries and knocks up a woman but doesn't realize she's not an immortal and unaging vampire? Damn, someone really -sucks- at Tinder. 👉😎👉

Fireguy17 · Answer

Hell no, the guy is aging as well. Getting older happens if you live long enough, and here is the shocker, there isn't anything you can do about it, so enjoy your youth while you can.

inhua · Answer

women are the ones overwhelmingly filing for divorce, not men

Adaeva · Answer

It is not your fault if it is not under your control.

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Your new picture looks very cute.

Bobbybopeep · Answer

in my opinion. Take everything as your fault. And then you have control. Not because you’re aging tho. But because you picked the wrong partner that cares about aging.  Get what I mean.

exitseven · Answer

Of course not. Everyone gets old and I think it is great to get old together.

dudeinohio · Answer

Women's value doesn't decrease. It's the man's fault for being disloyal.

Anonymous · Answer

The situation is not good for most men either. When girls are young, they only want bad boys or rich guys and treat other men like trash.  Why shouldn't these guys want to have fun later in life?

BigDog1989 · Answer

Men age too. whys it such a problem for women to "age"

TallAnon · Answer

If that happens, it's your fault for not finding a better dude.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, women are beautiful in their teens and youth, after the age of 30 their appearance becomes quite unpleasant.

Anonymous · Answer

No, some men are total jerk-offs. I am sure you will find a few on this post before too long.

slatyb · Answer

No, it's not. Most men do not do this.

Jennz6 · Answer

Women can’t help getting older

Mr-take-yo-girl · Answer

Yes if she lets herself go and becomes fat

Christoff92 · Answer

Could be for other reasons like stress and anger

MissBoogus · Answer

I’ve only gotten hotter as I aged 🤔 lol

Grovermint · Answer

It's the fault of whoever leaves.

Aiko_E_Lara · Answer

Is it a man's fault that he is short?

Miristheiss · Answer

No..

Is it a woman’s fault her husband leaves and abandons his family because she keeps aging?

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