As 5'3(161cm) guy, should I put height on tinder?

[Anonymous]

I'm an average looking guy, nothing that stands out more than height.

Still, should I add it to my bio, or let it be eventually for later, or does that even matter that much?

Yes, put it in the bio

No, save it eventually for later

Updates

+1 y

Why is height such a deal-breaker.

Pro.
* He has the perfect face
* Taking care of himself
* Wants children and a solid plan for future
* Perfect income and could potentially hold us both up
* Interesting hobbies which we both share
* doesn't live too far away
* Aren't a guy who recently released from jail.
* He's an angel

Cons
* Buuut he's shorter than me. So now I don't feel "protection" and I can't walk in heels.

This is the only trait you can't change..

[balyai]

Add it. You don't want a girl leaving you when you go on a date.

[Asker]

But maybe if we could try to connect first with DM after match. Then come stumble upon the height-pref/criteria. If she ghost away, then I know it did matter and just 'next', or she could have slope it and give it a try?

I mean, when you're in the swiping-roll, you're usually veeery shallow, right? And that even is for eventually potential matches?

But I might be wrong, it's another swiping-thingy for girls, I think..

[Nikki1989]

Oh goody, another trivial height question.

[Asker]

I know, there's tons of this subject..

[Ms_Facesitter]

I'd do it. I would put my height as well.

[Asker]

Why?

[Ms_Facesitter]

Some guys don't like dating someone taller than them.

[Asker]

To me height doesn't matter, but noticed I'm little bit lonely with that preference..

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not a dealbreaker. If anything, I find a short man holding his own really sexy.

[Asker]

I know, everything is about karisma and confidence and know who you are and accept it. And that goes for both parts.
But how do you show you're a person who holds his/hers own in an shallow world?

[Ms_Facesitter]

By not going on shallow apps.

[Asker]

But don't you think that applies IRL too?

[Ms_Facesitter]

On apps you're invited and encouraged to be superficial. It's better to just go out there in places you like and talk to people.