Do guys find it a turn off if a girl doesn’t drink any alcohol?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

I'm not sure. ﾠ

[Finchie40]

Only if she doesn’t bitch at him for drinking, I have dated some non drinker girls , that didn’t understand why I liked to unwind and have a few beers on a Friday night after a week of work , she would eventually get mad at me and tried sabotaging my Friday night , Now if her and I had something planned To do , then yes I would go do it with her instead of drinking , but if nothing is going on , my ass is relaxing and unwinding and sitting on my patio drinking and relaxing and talking to my brother over the phone that I don’t get to see Often , so she would try everything in her power to ruin my night , so I opened the front door and said don’t let the door hit ya in the ass on the way out. I realized I will only date girls that like to drink on occasion here on out

[Aford88]

Not all guys drink. So it depends if the guy drinks. If he does, then I'd recommend she be at least a social drinker. If he doesn't drink then it's fine for her not to drink either. I feel like on dates I've had where I have 1 drink that girls that don't drink at all often judge me. And have even said to me why do you drink? I don't think I can keep seeing you. Which is weird cause I always have on my profiles that I have alcohol sometimes. But match your partner thats what I say is the best option.

[eddiemunster1]

I wouldn't mind if she didn't drink (but then again I wouldn't mind if she DID drink). I don't drink much myself. I've been involved with girls who drink, those who don't; girls who do drugs, and girls who don't. Whomever I'm with, I'm into her as much as I can, regardless of what she does or does not do, and that's the way it's supposed to be. Anything other approach would be about selfishness, control, or some other toxicity. Some of these guys' comments seem to be defensive (a "few beers on a Friday night" is probably a downplayed reporting of how much they actually drink); they most likely are alcoholics. But anyway, the answer to the Question should be NO----remember, fellas, relationships are about acceptance and compromise.

[rigmarole]

So long as she doesn't bust my chops for having a few drinks I don't care if she drinks or not. I've never been an alcoholic and I only drink occasionally, but when someone tries to lecture me on drinking they can go fuck themselves. So long as a woman doesn't make drinking an issue, it's not an issue.

[molonski2]

Oh hell NO ! I think its fantastic , standard practise here that women just dont drink , its would be 80 - 90 % that don't drink , and even if they are a wealthy hi- so , they would never drink to excess , mainly just photograph themselves with the wine glass or the like , because wine was very limited for a long time.

I admire anyone that doesn't drink at all , and alcohol is a great thing to avoid , its not a turn off , its a turn on.

[ohsheeT]

No not even. That would make me think that she knows exactly what she wants and who she wants to be and to me it's not that big of a deal

And if you are a girl and you are worried about going out with some guy and you don't drink I say good job you don't need to drink to be with somebody you don't need to follow to be with somebody you need to be yourself and if that's a leader do it lead don't give in do what you want to do but don't follow

[FunkyMonkee]

Not at all!! I PREFER that she doesn't drink! I really can't see what all the fuss is about booze! You blow ALL your money on that shit, you get shitfaced, get sick and throw up and then wake up in the morning with a severe hangover, the likes of which, you need MORE of that shit to get over that and then, you go out and do it again the next night! Thrilling!! Sign me up!!

[MikeInHawaii]

One of my biggest turnoff is a drunk woman. I’m not talking about a glass or two of wine with dinner, but the babbling idiot drunk. Having a $4 glass of tea or a soft drink instead of a bar tab that costs more than your dinner is certainly not a turn-off! A vegetarian non drinker would be a really cheap date!

[ChiTown33]

No. If ANYTHING it'd be the opposite. Despite the fact that the more she drinks the better I look😂 drinking is not a turn on. And depending on how much she drinks CAN be a turnoff. But that's just one guys take. I can't speak for all guys. Like usually attracts like. People who drink typically want to be around others who drink.

[Staximus]

That depends on why she doesn't drink alcohol. She has to have her own reasons. If she doesn't like the way she feels when drinking, can't handle her liquor, does stupid shit when drunk, then it's fine if she doesn't drink because that's what's good for her. If she doesn't drink just because somebody told her drinking is bad, then she needs to think for herself.

[KingOfMe1]

Everybody knows drinking is bad for you. I don't drink and never have and never will. Furthermore, I have no use for it.

[MikeInHawaii]

If someone else told her drinking is bad, and thousands of others told her to drink, why isn’t she thinking for herself?

[WhiteBorr]

No one's expecting you to get pissed, but if you're the type that refuses to even take a sip on occasions, then you come across as someone uptight who won't relax and just wants to follow rules. Surely there's a baileys cocktail or something alcoholic you could partake with in a party situation. Most humans of all ages like to party.

[Anonymous]

Just the opposite. It means 1. She's not easily influenced to be like the rest, and 2. She has some semblance of discipline. In the U. S., the vast majority don't. So you definitely stand out in an intriguing way. I'm the same way... I get told shockingly several times weekly, "You don't do drugs?😲😲Not even smoke weed?😧" All this talk of being "individualistic" in the U. S., is just that... all talk. Most would sell their first born to confirm faster than you can fart.

[BoopBoopBeep]

only if she doesn't want me to. I have a lot of wine. One day I'll open it all. Maybe. It would be nice if we could share it, but it would be horrible if I couldn't drink it.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Not at all. I never drink, myself. I’m much more comfortable without alcohol involved. It simplifies the early stages of a relationship—removes doubt.

[Marcuslrh]

No that's perfect for me because I dont drink alcohol and after a date out with someone who has drank alcohol kissing them is horrible tastes like they are poisoning me🤢

[zuppa99]

No, I rarely drink nowadays anyway. Though it would be nice to share certain things with her if we were in a relationship, like the occasional glass of wine or a particularly well-made cocktail. But that's more of a foodie thing than an alcohol thing.

[Miristheiss]

That is a plus not a detriment.

If someone wanted a long term partner why would her not being a drinker or getting drunk be a bad thing?

Walk me through this line of thinking?

[Bricealan]

Not really. I, at one time had a beautiful partner that I met at Parents without Partners, and she turned out to have an alcohol problem. So no alcohol is not a problem for me.

[stratford]

A lot of guys will probably think it reduces their chances of:

a. getting laid

b. getting up to some extra naughty / kinky stuff

That's not my perspective, but I know some guys think that way.

[Jersey2]

Nope. Designated driver :) When I drank it was good to have my wife there to drive us. She stopped drinking long ago and it worked out. I don’t drink either, now. I like not drinking as much or more than drinking, it has its benefits.

[Billlewis]

If they're the cheeks on my face, I just got shamed. If they're the cheeks on my butt, I just got thrashed. Either of them is much appreciated.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Nope, more of a turn on.

I've never touched it, so I'd much prefer someone who's the same in that aspect.

[exitseven]

No, but I would object if I had to pay for her to drink Perrier water all night if we went out somewhere. That stuff is more expensive than beer

[madhatters4]

nope not a turn off to me. i respect a person's choices.

[Lynx122]

No not at all for me. I don't drink alcohol much.

[serious]

No, it is not at all a turn off if the woman has no bad habits like drinking, smoking etc.

[DryGermanGuy]

Quite the contrary, I would say. Many drunken people are repulsive.

[aquamarine321]

Not every guy are into girls that drinks, but if he truly wants you he doesn’t want a girl that drinks all the time even more than him, that’s only for girls he’s not serious with or friends

[zebronics]

I would encourage her not to drink alcohol or any intoxication, this is the number one Vege! products due to what most number of human dies every year.

[jshm2]

Obviously not. But someone who does is a red flag, they were looking to roofie you...

[Jonnyanalog]

I don’t drink so it wouldn’t bother me at all.