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I say no, personally I drink, obviously i know my limits and know not to go above that, but i fancy someone who also drinks. 1 is because i don’t judge the things you are in to, that’s your preference do as you please, i don’t even mind if they smoke weed or other drugs (as along as it’s not excessively and super hard drugs). 2 it’s cause I don’t want to feel judge, if meeting someone and I’m the only one drinking I feel like they are probably judging me for it. But yeah doesn’t make a difference for me as much.
Depends how much and how often. I don't mind some and her having a good time here and there, but I don't want a drunk for a girlfriend either.
Course it is. Drinking, recreational drug use. It's all an indication of impulse - or rather self - control.
Drinking more than say a glass or two of wine... means you've limited to very little self control. Means you'll likely be problematic. Be that either they have to retrieve your drunken ass from a pub, worry about you driving home drunk, or if you're even faithful & not a cheater.
Who cares? Do whatever makes you happy
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I think it depends on the guys religion. One thing I think would be important to understand in my opinion is if the guy you are on a date with or you are spending time with etc believes in a religion that encourages to stay away from alcohol. But also I think it is important to understand that there are some people that legitimately can never drink alcohol again in their life because of a medical condition so I would always ask the person you are with if they are okay with you drinking and if they say no you should ask them to explain further if they do not explain further so you can have a better understanding why they do not feel comfortable around alcohol or maybe why they can never drink alcohol again
If you do things you wouldn’t do while sober & then blame it on drink it’s a turn off.
If you’re swilling so much booze that your waist is shaped like s car tire: turn off.
If you’re an alcoholic: turn off.
If you think you’re going to do “girls night out” at a bar while in a serious relationship: turn off.
All the guys saying drinking is a turnoff are either old or don't like alcohol for moral reasons. I don't drink anymore, but I don't give a shit if others drink. I only stopped because of my liver. Is drinking (in general) a turn off? Fuck no. In fact, some guys like to buy girls drink because it's lowers those guards we all put up when we meet someone new and allows for more natural conversation. Is being abnoxiously drunk a turn off? Yes, unless you're a guy who just wants to brag about how many girls he's slept with.
Not the drinking itself but just the way some people handle themselves when they drink too much. Socially drinking and occasionally at home is fine but if it’s on an alcoholic level, then yeah, it’s a turn off. The horrible smell it causes on the breathe and through the skin is the big turn off for me, versus the actual drink itself.
In moderation No,
But when you see someone male or female trying to consume the maximum amount of alcohol in the shortest possible time you have to wonder what can be so bad in their lives they have to try to kill themselves through alcohol poisoning.
Anything beyond a slight buzz is not a turn on. Slurred words, falling over things, passing out while fucking aren't or even exaggerated by alcohol sexuality isn't fun. I want you to be alert and tuned into your body's nerve endings during sex is much more fun
Alittle maybe moderatly shows your self respect and self control , dignity and concern for yourself and others around you... shows you have standards above those who have 0 self control.
Releasing your inhibitions without any alcohol or drugs is the name of the game. Stay out of a state of slur and stupor.
Depends how much... I drink socially and I don’t drink much. My boyfriend drinks strong crap... When We started dating we’d go out to bars/clubs for fun and I noticed he’d purposefully buy me tons of drinks since I “babied” my drinks... he learned real fast that I was a light weight when he had to carry me up 3 flights of stairs. He has since... let me be.
Yea he stopped doing that! I baby my drinks because I’m not a drinker so I don’t like getting drunk.
Please don't worry about that.
If someone is not attracted to you because of that, then it's the wrong person either way.
You want to attract the right person for you. And that is someone who isn't thrown off with something you enjoy.
It's a yellow flag. I'm not against drinking. But if I see her drink, I'll watch closely for a while to make sure it's not a problem. I had an alcoholic girlfriend and that's not going to happen again. It needs to be completely under control.
never really been fond of the smell or taste of alcohol myself. so if a girl drinks to much or to often it can be a turn off.
There is a time and a place. It goes both ways. I dont think a woman would find it attractive if a guy is falling down drunk. I would think the woman is thinking is he like that 24-7, is that going to effect my sense if safety, is he a mean drunk, the kids, is he going to embarrass me... etc...
I don't know about other guys mam but for me it would be, because I don't drink and I think it is not healthy, so I would not want my partner consuming anything that can harm her.
I honestly prefer women who drink nothing. Not even juice or water. Call me old fashioned but the idea of a hydrated female body is disgusting.
What is century do you hell from that Women don’t drink anything? There’s got to be some health problems in there somewhere
I'm obviously joking
I know
Moderation is the key. You get drunk on a first date or early in the dating game, you'll no longer be dating THAT guy. Unless he's an alcoholic and has found his ideal drinking buddy...
If you’re an alcoholic then it’s a turn off for anyone. If you’re drinking socially then you’re good. If a guy has an issue with that it’s probably due to a past experience he had that went bad or he’s just uptight.
Heavy drinking is a big turn off. But I raise a cautious eyebrow at women who drink. Especially those that drink wine. They tend to have high maintenance tendencies while those that drink beer or hard liquor tend to be more tomboyish. Both are turn offs in their own way.
If a girl has a glass of wine iccassionally with dinner... no.
If she drinks a lot... if going out to "drink"
are her social plans... yes.
A lot of guys drink beer so they’d prob like if u drink that but i dont like alcohol at all and would hope he doesn't either
Most definitely. I won't be with someone that is an alcoholic.. Getting a light buzz is fine but getting drunk, nope not dealing with it.
Definitely not where I’m from lol. Drinking it a standard for people dating, its just a thing you do before having sex.
I can deal with someone a little tipsy, but if you going for broke, I can't do it 🥴
No it's not, it depends how you act when you drink though like if you drink and pity yourself or you act crazy, start arguing or fighting with someone and pretty much making a scene, that a turn off.
I think aslong as you are drinking and having fun that's cool.
If your drink and falling all over the place, not so good
I hate the smell of alcohol, it's almost as bad as chittlings to me, so I'll say if it's excessive or if I begin to smell it then it's a turn off
It isn't to most guys. As for me I don't mind if you drink but too much is bad. Personally I don't plan to ever drink so as long as there is no forcing me to drink unless it's an extremely special occasion it's fine.
Nope!! But if you drink to become drunk and then act like an ass then we will have a problem.
If you can handle your liquor and know ur limits then its all good
It’s a turn off for me but I don’t drink. Guys who drink will be more likely to not care or find it attractive
Drinking is okay.
Becoming drunk is repulsive, as well as dangerous.
Yes, to me it's a turn off, even if you are a social drinker (occasional drinker). Avoid alcohol.
Depends how much it is. So many women drink wine cause they wanna look classy but they're borderline alcoholics. It doesn't matter what you drink it matters if you're depending on it to cope or not.
I wouldn't care if it was light drinking, but as someone who grew up with an alcoholic mom, if I'm watching you get drunk, probably not going to ask for your number.
I had an ex who simply couldn’t handle her alcohol... cussing... throwing up... that was a true turn off. Someone who can drink normally is fine
Turn off for me. I don't tolerate a drunk partner. I myself am completely dry when comes to alcohol. I feel that it should be banned like other narcotics.
To me, it is. At least habitual drinking is a turn off. It's okay if she drinks once in a while.
I don't have a problem with a little social drinking, as in a couple of mixed drinks or glasses of wine with a meal. Excessive drinking or drunkenness? Big problem.
It depends on the quality, quantity and frequency
A glass or two of something good at the weekend isn't an issuw
A bottle of wine like paint stripper everyday is a big issue
Drinking? Not at all. Now a drunk on the other hand...
No. It's all about moderation. I like to drink sometimes as well, but if you're the type of person who needs to drink in order to have fun, it will be a problem. Not just for a relationship but in general.
I'm a girl who enjoys alcohol from time to time, and I've never had any problem with guys just because of that, lol
Heavy drinking, yes. No one wants to have to deal with a drunk.
If she does it every time we go out yes it is sometimes they can’t handle their liquor
Only when the woman start talking too loud and start acting that she's the top female / grandiose
Lmao 😂
talking to a drunk person is like talking to a wall, at least the wall doesn't talk back
Drinking is fine. Being drunk is a total turnoff. Being regularly drunk is a deal-breaker.
Depends on the man. If he's an alcoholic i think heavy drinking would attract him. Otherwise not.
To a point yes. For me. If they have to get completely obliterated, its huge turn off
I drink from time to time, but if she does and can't handle it goes all crazy then it's not good lol
As someone who doesn't drink, it's certainly not a turn on. But unless it's excessive drinking it's not a turn off.
Why do you care? Do what you like. If a guy has a problem with it, it's his problem.
Social drinking isn't a turn off, but excessive drinking is. Also being pretentious and obnoxious when drinking is instant turn off.
It can be. Especially if you have a habit of drinking too much
Depends. But I don’t drink and prefer to spend my time with someone else not drinking
I find it unnatractive, but I think most guys are ok with it.
As long as it sociably and not to excess. Meaning an obnoxious drunk, it doesn't matter to me.
I have been a babysitter to too many drunks!
well if your pissed its not nice. I dont drink or smoke
it somewhat is for me. but thats because i have lived with a bunch of alcoholucs throughout my life.
I'm tied of addicts; alcohol, attention, whatever and it's getting harder and harder to find a woman that isn't an addict in some way.
no I like women who drink wine I usually like to chill before making love with her drinking wine in the bathtube and making love again.
If you are drinking when you are trying to attract guys, unless you get inebriated to the point where you do stupid things then it just might be a turn off.
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