I like to drink wine and when I’m out with friends I’ll drink mix drinks. When attracting a guy Is drinking a turn off?
I just wanted to know if drinking at all what is a turn off
Depends how much and how often. I don't mind some and her having a good time here and there, but I don't want a drunk for a girlfriend either.
Course it is. Drinking, recreational drug use. It's all an indication of impulse - or rather self - control.
Drinking more than say a glass or two of wine... means you've limited to very little self control. Means you'll likely be problematic. Be that either they have to retrieve your drunken ass from a pub, worry about you driving home drunk, or if you're even faithful & not a cheater.
Who cares? Do whatever makes you happy
I think it depends on the guys religion. One thing I think would be important to understand in my opinion is if the guy you are on a date with or you are spending time with etc believes in a religion that encourages to stay away from alcohol. But also I think it is important to understand that there are some people that legitimately can never drink alcohol again in their life because of a medical condition so I would always ask the person you are with if they are okay with you drinking and if they say no you should ask them to explain further if they do not explain further so you can have a better understanding why they do not feel comfortable around alcohol or maybe why they can never drink alcohol again
If you do things you wouldn’t do while sober & then blame it on drink it’s a turn off.
If you’re swilling so much booze that your waist is shaped like s car tire: turn off.
If you’re an alcoholic: turn off.
If you think you’re going to do “girls night out” at a bar while in a serious relationship: turn off.
All the guys saying drinking is a turnoff are either old or don't like alcohol for moral reasons. I don't drink anymore, but I don't give a shit if others drink. I only stopped because of my liver. Is drinking (in general) a turn off? Fuck no. In fact, some guys like to buy girls drink because it's lowers those guards we all put up when we meet someone new and allows for more natural conversation. Is being abnoxiously drunk a turn off? Yes, unless you're a guy who just wants to brag about how many girls he's slept with.
Not the drinking itself but just the way some people handle themselves when they drink too much. Socially drinking and occasionally at home is fine but if it’s on an alcoholic level, then yeah, it’s a turn off. The horrible smell it causes on the breathe and through the skin is the big turn off for me, versus the actual drink itself.
Alittle maybe moderatly shows your self respect and self control , dignity and concern for yourself and others around you... shows you have standards above those who have 0 self control.
Releasing your inhibitions without any alcohol or drugs is the name of the game. Stay out of a state of slur and stupor.
In moderation No,
But when you see someone male or female trying to consume the maximum amount of alcohol in the shortest possible time you have to wonder what can be so bad in their lives they have to try to kill themselves through alcohol poisoning.
Depends how much... I drink socially and I don’t drink much. My boyfriend drinks strong crap... When We started dating we’d go out to bars/clubs for fun and I noticed he’d purposefully buy me tons of drinks since I “babied” my drinks... he learned real fast that I was a light weight when he had to carry me up 3 flights of stairs. He has since... let me be.
Yea he stopped doing that! I baby my drinks because I’m not a drinker so I don’t like getting drunk.
Please don't worry about that.
If someone is not attracted to you because of that, then it's the wrong person either way.
You want to attract the right person for you. And that is someone who isn't thrown off with something you enjoy.
Anything beyond a slight buzz is not a turn on. Slurred words, falling over things, passing out while fucking aren't or even exaggerated by alcohol sexuality isn't fun. I want you to be alert and tuned into your body's nerve endings during sex is much more fun
It's a yellow flag. I'm not against drinking. But if I see her drink, I'll watch closely for a while to make sure it's not a problem. I had an alcoholic girlfriend and that's not going to happen again. It needs to be completely under control.
never really been fond of the smell or taste of alcohol myself. so if a girl drinks to much or to often it can be a turn off.
There is a time and a place. It goes both ways. I dont think a woman would find it attractive if a guy is falling down drunk. I would think the woman is thinking is he like that 24-7, is that going to effect my sense if safety, is he a mean drunk, the kids, is he going to embarrass me... etc...
I don't know about other guys mam but for me it would be, because I don't drink and I think it is not healthy, so I would not want my partner consuming anything that can harm her.
I honestly prefer women who drink nothing. Not even juice or water. Call me old fashioned but the idea of a hydrated female body is disgusting.
What is century do you hell from that Women don’t drink anything? There’s got to be some health problems in there somewhere
I'm obviously joking
Moderation is the key. You get drunk on a first date or early in the dating game, you'll no longer be dating THAT guy. Unless he's an alcoholic and has found his ideal drinking buddy...
If you’re an alcoholic then it’s a turn off for anyone. If you’re drinking socially then you’re good. If a guy has an issue with that it’s probably due to a past experience he had that went bad or he’s just uptight.
Heavy drinking is a big turn off. But I raise a cautious eyebrow at women who drink. Especially those that drink wine. They tend to have high maintenance tendencies while those that drink beer or hard liquor tend to be more tomboyish. Both are turn offs in their own way.
If a girl has a glass of wine iccassionally with dinner... no.
If she drinks a lot... if going out to "drink"
are her social plans... yes.
A lot of guys drink beer so they’d prob like if u drink that but i dont like alcohol at all and would hope he doesn't either
Most definitely. I won't be with someone that is an alcoholic.. Getting a light buzz is fine but getting drunk, nope not dealing with it.
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I say no, personally I drink, obviously i know my limits and know not to go above that, but i fancy someone who also drinks. 1 is because i don’t judge the things you are in to, that’s your preference do as you please, i don’t even mind if they smoke weed or other drugs (as along as it’s not excessively and super hard drugs). 2 it’s cause I don’t want to feel judge, if meeting someone and I’m the only one drinking I feel like they are probably judging me for it. But yeah doesn’t make a difference for me as much.