What do guys want a girl to wear on a first date?

[girlz]

Do you guys have a specific idea? What is the most appealing thing a girl can wear on a first date?

[robot]

It's important to note that you should primarily focus on what makes you feel comfortable and confident. If you feel good in what you're wearing, that confidence will shine through, which is attractive to most people, regardless of gender.

However, if you're looking for general guidelines, you could consider the following:

Context-Appropriate: Dress according to the venue or activity. If you're going to a fancy restaurant, you may opt for something more formal. If you're heading to a casual café or a walk in the park, something casual and comfortable might be more appropriate.

Personal Style: Wear something that reflects who you are. Authenticity is attractive, so don't wear something that makes you feel unlike yourself.

Comfort: Uncomfortable clothes can make you fidgety or self-conscious, which can distract from the date itself. Choose an outfit that you feel good in.

A Touch of Individuality: Something that shows off a unique aspect of yourself can be a great conversation starter and help you stand out.

Cleanness: Regardless of what style you go for, make sure your clothes are clean, well-fitting, and in good condition. Wrinkled, stained, or ill-fitting clothes generally don't make a good impression.

Safety and Modesty: Depending on the culture and the individual, showing too much skin can sometimes be construed in ways you didn't intend. Dressing more on the modest side can be safer for a first date unless you're sure of the other person's preferences and expectations.

Remember that these are just guidelines based on general perceptions and cultural norms as of my last update in September 2021. The most important thing is that you feel comfortable and confident in whatever you choose to wear.

[MrOracle]

Dress in context for the date, generally. My first dates are generally casual and laid back, so something comfortable and feminine is what I would prefer - a sundress (unless it's winter) is excellent.

But again, the context of the date matters. I've taken a couple of girls shooting on a first date, so I told them to wear jeans and a shirt with a small, tight neck hole, because hot brass loves to find cleavage. Another girl I took ice skating because she hadn't been for a very long time and no one ever wanted to go with her - so jeans and a jacket was appropriate.

I generally don't do dinner dates, especially not more formal/expensive ones, until I'm already in a relationship.

[Peter_Penetrator]

Her birthday suit and a smile.



Depends on where a guy intends on taking her on the date. If l take her to Mc Donalds, then casual.


I would hope to be lucky enough that the weather would be cool enough that we could spend our date in my backyard.


She would need to be comfortable enough that I could crank up the grill, stream some music on bluetooth speakers. Get the fire pit out and make S'mores.

[jennifer_bloom]

I like to wear either blue or purple or grey tops cause I think its classy but still sensitive looking and aesthetic, without being flashy without being over powering or too pronounced and eccentric. I have a yellow top I might use for a third date but for the first few dates I would choose a classic colour like purple or blue and my pants are always comfortable black pants. I never wear anything other than black pants with one exception which is this military style pair that I think looks very good on me.

[Rei13]

You have to dress for the occasion and make sure it is appropriate for that. So probably no outfit that you’d go to a bar in if you’re going to be at a coffee shop. I think practicing good hygiene, being clean, and wearing flattering clothes are what is important for both men and women. Also anything that is cute/sexy while still being modest for women. You can do that wearing jeans if that is the look you go for

[AviatorTom]

I always liked a woman to wear a comfortable, feminine, slightly sexy, outfit on the first date.

[OlderAndWiser]

LBD with dazzling accessories.

[brooker]

First thing's first, if a guy is always super vague about his plans or what he's up to, that could be a red flag. Like, if he's never up for making plans in advance and only hits you up for last-minute hangouts, that's not a great sign. It kinda shows you're not high on his priority list, more like a "let's see if nothing better comes up" kind of deal.

Then there's the whole commitment talk, or the lack thereof. If he avoids it like the plague or changes the subject every time you bring up anything even remotely relationship-y, he might not be in it for keeps. Look, everyone's scared of the "Where is this going?" talk to some extent, but if he's seriously into you, he'll be willing to have that conversation at some point.

But here's a subtle one: how he introduces you to people. If you've been seeing each other for a while and he still introduces you as a "friend," that could be a signal he's not that invested. I mean, how hard is it to say, "This is [Your Name], we've been dating"? If he's serious, he should be proud to show you off.

Social media is another minefield. If he's super active online but never posts anything with you (or worse, keeps your relationship status hidden), he might be keeping his options open. I know, I know, not everyone is big on PDA, even online, but if he's posting pics of every other aspect of his life but leaves you out, it's worth asking why.

If you've got doubts, nothing beats good old-fashioned communication. Have a sit-down, look him in the eyes, and ask what's up. Yeah, it's scary, but it's the most straightforward way to get the answers you need. And remember, you deserve someone who's as invested in you as you are in them. So if it turns out he's not serious, it's his loss, not yours.

[A_Bell]

I always wore a dress or skirt on dates unless it wasn't appropriate to the venue or weather.

If it's a dinner focus, I would wear a nice dress but a movie, probably a skirt and a blouse.

Occasionally jeans or pants, but I hate how they fit at my height.

[genericname85]

i think it would be more efficient to think about what you want to signal to your date rather than what a potential mate could be looking for. like what do you want from a partner? what sort of relationship are you looking for? these questions should inform your choice of clothes.

[stratford]

I would ideally like her to dress in a way that helps me understand her intentions for the date. I know that can be difficult on a first date when you might not know, but it's good to know whether she might be open to more, or whether it's just more of a get to know you kind of date.

Either is fine, but it helps set the scene.

[BigDog1989]

Some would say, just wear what you'd normally wear, just so you feel comfortable, but, then, how would you distinguish that from any other time you "hung out". The best relationships start as "just friends", right? So, if you don't go out, on a date, wearing something a little less "you", wouldn't it feel a little more "special". I don't know, just sayin'

[dragoblack]

Fashionable but comfortable. My rule of dating is "dress to impress, but don't overdress for the occasion" the right outfit and how much you clean yourself up, will show how much you are interested.
I tend to go cafe for first date. It's a relaxing and safe atmosphere, with affordable drinks that don't break the bank account. I usually try to go to ones with board games to help break awkward tension.

[strateguy632]

i thought aboout games but then they, i were opponents?

[Adaeva]

A modest dress, slightly above her knees and tight fitting in the waist to show her figure. Something like this.

[lightbulb27]

A smile and a pleasant demeanor.

I've never really thought about clothes because that wasn't valued in my family. something modest where I can see your shape... that tells me if you are taking care of yourself.

[Fireguy17]

Dress for the date.
Going to the race track/drag strip jeans sneakers are just fine.
I have seen a few women wearing a nice dress and heels to a short track or tractor pulls.
Looked nice, but way over dressed.

[Nik1hil]

1) Her manners.

2) Aura of respect.

A Girl who shows respect to a man and has her manners, and makes him feel comfortable and guides a man to communicate himself better.. Is am instant date 2

[Lionman95]

A nicht outfit she would also choose going out with friends. Something that's appropriate and not showing off a lot of cleavage.

[TheSpaceGnome]

The most appealing thing a woman I'm interested in can wear is her birthday suit. Short of that, a cosplay outfit, and short of that, clothes are clothes and I'm indifferent to which ones she's wearing.

[Sparkie460]

It would depend on what we we're doing on the date.
If we're going to a nice restaurant I'd want her to get a little dressed up but not overdone.
If we're just going to the movies, she can wear whatever she wants as long as she is comfortable

[Anonymous]

Honestly whatever she feels comfortable in. Though I think it should fit the activity decided upon. So say you just went to get coffee. Then something everyday and comfy would be ideal. If you went out to a fancy restaurant then dressing up a bit would be best and may even be required.

But I prefer that she is just herself and dresses. to be comfortable. What's the point wearing something that's not appropriate for the date activity or. comfortable you know.

[SeekingSubmission]

WE WANT YOU TO WEAR AN ATTRACTIVE OUTFIT AND STILL BE ABLE TO STAY COMFORTABLE DURING THE WHOLE DATE!

[Billlewis]

What I really want her to wear is a pair of open toed sandals or pumps that show off her feet and toes.

[Flatmanlewis]

The right blend of sexy and comfortable. Had to give specifics without knowing he venue or type of date.

[Counterclocking]

For me, a blouse or nice shirt if she’s wearing a skirt, a dress or skirt that’s 3 inches above the knee, sheer pantyhose (suntan is what I love the most), and pumps (high heels are a plus).