What do guys want a girl to wear on a first date?

[josie]

I haven't been on a date for a long time, what do you think a girl should/should not wear for the first date?

[MrOracle]

You need to take the context of the date into consideration, but beyond that, I would prefer she wore something feminine and comfortable. Here in California, unless the date involves a more active component - bowling, motorcycle ride, an amusement park, etc. - then a sundress is a great choice 3 seasons out of the year.

You will know if the date involves a more formal activity, but most should be fairly casual, and you should be fine in something comfortable and still feminine.

[Anonymous]

It really depends on where we are going. But w that said regardless of where we’re going I don’t want her dressing like a slut. I mean sure I love tits n ass but that doesn’t mean I want her going out w her tits popping out of her shirt, her ass cheeks hanging out of her pants. Have some respect for yourself. Leave it up to me to use my imagination, to keep me guessing. A lot of women complain men don’t take them on dates or things like that. Yes because they’re spreading their legs quicker than butter so there’s no need to. If she’s willing to show everyone online her assets why should I have to pay for it.

[BunBun369]

I can't tell you what they would like to see I could only tell you what I would.
Something cute and comfortable for her. Something that she feels her best in. Everyone's got that outfit or fits that they just step alil different in. 🥰

[Pinay_ako]

Don’t be over dressed or underdressed. Ask him where you’re going and what are you guys doing. Easy on the makeup

[brooker]

If you're looking to impress your date, that's cool, but make sure you're comfortable, too. Because trust me, if you're squirming in your seat because those skinny jeans are cutting off your circulation, your date's gonna notice. And nothing kills the vibe faster than looking like you can't wait to get home and change.

Now, guys are as different as snowflakes—each one has his own idea of what's hot and what's not. But generally speaking, most guys are pretty easy to please. I mean, how many times have you heard a guy say, "She looks great in anything" or "I like her in casual clothes"? I'd say the keyword here is "authenticity." If you're a jeans and T-shirt kinda girl, rock that look. If you love dressing up, go ahead and put on that cute dress. Most guys appreciate it when a girl looks like she made an effort but still looks like herself.

Here's another thing: Location matters. If your first date is a chill coffee hangout, you might look a bit out of place in a glitzy evening gown. But if you're going to a fancy dinner, you don't wanna show up looking like you're ready for a Netflix binge session, right?

But wait, what if you're into the whole "dress to impress" philosophy? Well, you do you! Some guys are absolutely floored by a girl who goes all out. Red lipstick, killer heels—the whole nine yards. Just remember that it's a first date, not a fashion show (unless it actually is a fashion show, in which case, werk it!). You wanna make sure you're both focusing on getting to know each other, not just how hot you look.

So to wrap it up, he wants something that makes her look great but also lets her be herself. At the end of the day, clothes are just the wrapping paper. It's who you are that really counts, and any guy worth his salt will see that, no matter what you're wearing.

[PizzaDaddyo]

Absolutely nothing. Dinner at my house. For real just show up butt naked.


^^ Sadly 800% of dudes would pick that if it were an option.


For real for real answer:
Whatever is appropriate for said activity.
I honestly would like a cute/ pretty dress if we’re going out to restaurants and bars.
Casual leggings or yoga pants are great especially if moving around like bowling or ice skating. Make up if done properly can really enhance your “glow”. Too much or excessive layers is unnecessary and down right unattractive. I’m not in control of what you like and wear makeup-wise but too much is ew and I’m not a fan of consuming a whole tube of lipstick or sucking powder from your neck. So too much makeup would be a low key disappointment and distraction for me because its something you have the power to control.

[hello123456789]

I'm a laid back type of guy so anything works for the most part. I am totally cool with a T-shirt and jeans if we are just hanging out and keeping things low key. If the date requires more business casual attire, a nice dress would be nice. I am a fan of sundresses. As long as she is presentable anything is fine.

[Leme2]

I prefer if it woman dresses casual on a first date. Unless we are going someplace fancy--which we probably shouldn't on a first date. One first date I went on came dressed in yoga pants, a tank top, and a hoodie on top, and I liked it. Just wear something you feel comfortable and confident in appropriate to the setting.

[Counterclocking]

For me, a nice dress 👗 with the skirt 3 inches above the knees (if not wearing a dress, nice shirt/blouse with a skirt 3 inches above the knee), sheer pantyhose (seamless nude/suntan/coffee pantyhose highly desired), and pumps (high heels 👠 are a plus).


I definitely want a woman that’s an avid pantyhose wearer and will wear them for me.

[MysticDevice]

I'd just be exstatic that 1, she actually showed up and 2, she is a she and not a he.

But to answer your question: skirts will get me every time. Them and stockings/leggings. No high heels. Regular shoes look best.

No need to dress to impress, but no need to look trashy either.

[ShadezMcgee]

I want her to wear something appropriate and comfortable for what we will be doing on the date. So for example if we are going for a hike, sports bra and athletic pants or shorts would be more suitable than heels and tight leather pants and tube top.

[slatyb]

It will likely be dinner and perhaps some entertainment. A dress or skirt would be nice but pants are not a deal-breaker.

[BoopBoopBeep]

Depends on the date. Rock climbing vs the museum and cafe vs picnic in the park are all very different expectations of attire.

[knottywriter]

I think to some degree it matters what you are doing for the first date. But typically a casual, flirty vibe is what I like to see.

[artgorgeous]

We want them to NOT look like a hooker. More viable question is what not to wear.

[ProbablyClueless]

I don't have any real preference, as long as the outfit is contextually appropriate for the venue and she feel confident wearing it.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Whatever you want, whatever you would usually wear and whatever you feel comfortable wearing.

[exitseven]

A nice pair of jeans and a blouse. And don't forget a comfortable pair of shoes

[Date_a_Snob]

I usually wear a dress or blouse and skirt. I almost always wear heels.

[Nikki1989]

Depends on whether he is a control freak or not.

[HippieVeganJewslim]

Modest clothing, like a long skirt, hijāb, long sleeves, high neck-opening, &c

[Staximus]

That depends where the date is. Something not too bummy or trashy for the occasion.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Do try to look sexy

just dress casual

[TallAnon]

What I can reasonably expect her to wear on a random day, let's keep this realistic.