What type of clothes do you like to see your date wear on a first casual date?

Question

My all time favorite outfit on a man is plain black tee, blue jeans, clean simple sneakers/black boots and a leather jacket.

What's yours preference?

I often hear guys saying they want their girl to dress modest and/or comfortable especially for a casual date, does that mean you should be 100% true to yourself? Are sneakers allowed? Combined with a dress if it's nice outside? Or is it okay to wear something simple but cute like a nice top and jeans that fit you well + them sneakers?
I like to make it more special by other things like curling my hair and putting on some flirty lipstick.

VanillaSalt · Accepted Answer

You should be you. That being said you might not be everyone’s cup of tea. If you can’t attract men by being you then maybe you need to change.

That being said I like feminine women. I don’t like strong makeup. All that fake lashes and nails stuff is yuck. I like women that are graceful, calm, and beautiful. How you present yourself gives me an idea of your personality. Soft light colors, if ya wanna be flirty a sundress is very classy, shoes matter to some but idc. Makeups difficult though. I don’t like strong makeup. Just touch it up to bring out your natural beauty. Lipstick is ugly except in very specific circumstances for me.

That goal is to look nice not hot. You want their first thought to be your pretty not hot.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

My preference would be a casual dress (sun dress) on her if weather allows - which means 3 out of 4 seasons here in California - but I'm also fine with jeans/shorts and a T-shirt or whatever. As long as she still has a feminine look, I'm fine. I want her to be comfortable and at ease, but within that context, the more feminine the better.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I would prefer for the first date or any day in general, he dress casually because i will. I like to see a guy in henleys, baseball jerseys, crew tees, polos, vests, vnecks, cargo shorts/pants, khakis, loose jeans, tracksuits, nikes or jordans. Sweatpants are hot too but not for a date.

Shiface92 · Accepted Answer

Summer Fall Winter

coachTanthony · Answer

This right here

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I like loose fitting clothes that show off his physical fitness so maybe a black top or a blue jacket.

Anonymous · Answer

I've never actually taken a girl on a date.
I mean I took my girlfriend out all the time, but we had been together for a while, it's not the same.
I always just meet women at their place and have sex.

That's not a brag either, or a diss on the women I've been with. It's a process to get to that point and it's how I've always done it. And quite frankly, I'm not happy about it.

One of these days, I'd like to know what it feels like to take a girl out, be a gentleman and get to know her on a romantic first date.
I feel like I'm missing out on that whole experience

(Sorry, I know that's not an answer to your question. I think I'd wear nice jeans and a button up shirt, and take my hat off for once)

andreasderjuengere · Answer

Let's seeeee...:

- a casual pair of trousers in dark blue with a hint of green in it; not too short and showing the ankles; medium high waist cut.

- a casual shirt with a flower pattern, mostly in green and light purple; sleeves covering the elbows, medium tight cut that indicates breast size, but not the nipple shape.

- casual half open shoes and socks of short length... in a tasteful checkered pattern mostly in brown, cream and orange colours; heel height between 3/4 '' and 1 1'4 ''

- casual Jew-ellery at wrists and neck made from plastic - and 'colourful'.

- a casual hair decoration in the shape of a butterfly (Southern American variety, preferably) and worn on the right side at the back of the skull.

- casual underwear is not a requirement... I'm not too specific in my expectations there.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Wear whatever you normally wear, trying to change your habits in any way for a date, is just misleading your date.

The only exception to that rule, is if its skimpy clothes to show off the body, then its less about "misleading through false presentation" and more about "look at how nice my tits are".

People should be themselves.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Anything that looks nice I'm fine with. I personally like women that dress with jeans and a nice shirt. Something like this.

OfMiceandMen · Answer

Nothing too revealing, I want to focus on getting to know her and it is kind of difficult if she is wearing something that unintentionally takes my eyes off hers.

loveslongnails · Answer

I Want A Girl With A Short Skirt and A Long Jacket Or a sundress

najekim · Answer

IMHO, dress as you would running to the store for some milk & bread.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I think maybe a button up shirt and jeans would do nicely.

Finchie40 · Answer

Whatever she eels comfortable in , I am not the kind of guy that tells a girl what she needs to wear , Now in the bedroom I might but that’s a whole different story 😋

Spiritofn · Answer

On my sexy bitch, whatever she look good in, alll I know is I like to get a pump for a good week before, & hit the libary at least twice. & Let my mother give me a prayer cause nobodyy more sacred then a woman.

BoobMan · Answer

Hair done and flirty lipstick is great for a first date. I also like to see an outfit that really complements her body. It doesn't need to show a lot of skin, but something form-fitting is ideal on a girl with a great bod!

slatyb · Answer

Something attractive and appropriate for the occasion. I'm not that picky. Pretty much whatever she wants

RavVid · Answer

I'd like modest feminine clothing but think sneakers would look a bit silly. Not seen any girl pull that off.

NathanDavis · Answer

whatever she's the most comfortable and confident with...

Heterosketero · Answer

Honestly, a lady could show up after work in what she was wearing, I went through with it for the company.

driven159 · Answer

Being in Florida shorts and comfy cool top is the way here.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care about her cloths too much and don't expect the same from her. Just look normal , too fancy isn't my thing. It seems fake and forced.

UncleBilll · Answer

Something like this to be honest.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't care. I personally focus on bigger things. I don't waste my time making judgements about clothing and style.

Anonymous · Answer

I wear whatever I already have on that day. I don’t go out of my way. I be myself.

strlb · Answer

Depends on where/what activity we are doing but casual nice shirt and shorts in the summer, jeans and nice top in the winter.

TJ1892 · Answer

Smart but causal, it's always good to see an effort made regardless of where the date is taking place.

Guanfei · Answer

Something feminine, simple. A sundress would be ideal.

HippieVeganJewslim · Answer

Almost anything is fine by me, as long as it’s modest, and a bit colourful.

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Jeans leather belt and a buttoned down shirt :)

msc545 · Answer

I have no particular preferences but I like your choices

zagor · Answer

Pretty much like your choice but on a girl.

Jennz6 · Answer

Jeans and a muscle shirt

BrookeS · Answer

I wear a tshirt and some ripped jeans

In_Trance · Answer

whatever she's comfortable and confident wearing

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

A cute dress with some heels

Anonymous · Answer

I really don't care.

eagle1951 · Answer

skirt or dress

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