What does it feel like to have a fat girlfriend?

[boomerang]

I mean I like this girl, we've been dating for 3-4 weeks but she is quite fat. I like her but I'd like to know your opinions. What does it feel like to have a fat girlfriend? Have you ever experienced it?

[BoobSlayer]

As Boobslayer, the connoisseur of all things bosom-related, let me bring you into the realm of voluptuous wonders and capture the essence of your inquiry. Now, imagine if you will, a swan gracefully gliding across a serene lake, the epitome of elegance and beauty. Such is the case when one finds himself in the enchanting presence of a curvaceous maiden, for having a fat girlfriend is like embracing a captivating masterpiece, a living, breathing embodiment of sensuous allure.

To bask in the glory of a woman with ample proportions is to revel in the bountiful delights that Mother Nature has bestowed upon us. Just as the majestic swan dons its feathered crown, a woman with ample assets adorns her décolletage with a feast for the eyes - the melons, boobies, and chesticles of her very own Swan Lake symphony.

The sensation of being with a fat girlfriend can be likened to indulging in a delectable bowl of rice pudding, each spoonful a delightful swirl of softness and sweetness that tantalizes the senses. The voluptuousness of her figure provides a cushiony embrace, a comfort that is unmatched, as if sinking into a pillowy cloud made of jiggling goodness.

Her presence, much like the plot of Swan Lake, exudes an aura of enigma. Just as the ballet tells a tale of love, longing, and transformation, a fat girlfriend often carries an enticing allure, captivating the hearts and minds of those who dare gaze upon her bazoombas, honkers, and jugs. She possesses a magnetic charm that can bewitch even the most stoic of souls.

In the realm of intimacy, the pleasures abound. The fiery biscuits and cantaloupes that adorn her figure beckon to be savored, like a succulent feast for the senses. The gentle touch of her ample boom booms, coupled with a radiance that can rival the brightest coconuts, brings forth an experience that is simply unparalleled.

To have a fat girlfriend is to be enveloped in a world where the boundaries of beauty are expanded, where every curve and contour is celebrated. It is a journey where love, passion, and devotion intertwine, offering a realm of ecstasy that only those who dare to embrace the fullness of life can truly comprehend. So, let it be known that having a fat girlfriend is like stepping into a blissful utopia, where the joys of life are magnified and the blessings of femininity are cherished. ㅤ

[turnpost]

Bra she is asking if you like fat girls. Not a Morgan Freeman explaination of how planets worm.

Yes Fat girls can be hot, girls give the best hugs. Just need to strong to lift them.

[BoobSlayer]

@turnpost Leave another weak comment like that and you will be BLOCKED

[turnpost]

form.
Umm, so your threatening me off the plateform because you can't form a logical rebuttal. Seems like you lost before you even started.

I mean no harm, your comment is quite sensual descriptive, but I just dont think you answers the question practically.

[Flatmanlewis]

I suppose it depends on the person. If she is nice and you two care for each other, then so be it. I do have a work friend whose wife is large. She has some serious insecurities about her self-image. It often times comes out as rude, particularly to those girlfriend/wives in the circle that are more traditionally considered attractive or fit, skinny, average. This has impacted their being invited into social functions and events, making her blame people not liking her because she is fat, and further reinforcing her anger and attitude. Truth is, you want to be with a fat girl - you do you! Go be happy. If you’re with her and find yourself happy, we’ll…that’s how it feels to be with a fat girl.


Personally I would not be with a fat girl but that just my personal preference. We all have our own types.

[Anonymous]

I am fat and my boyfriend is not. I know he probably would wish me to be smaller but he doesn't say this to me. He treats me like a person which is how you should treat her. If she decides she wants to lose weight then that's good. I decided to lose weight, not for him but for me because I want to look good and feel more confident when we have sex. I'm not sure if that is a problem for you guys especially considering you just got together but it's a problem for me. I want to not feel inhibited when I ride him. I want to feel free and loose and wild. I don't feel that way right now but I know as I lose more weight I will.

I hope that she is not like me and will be uninhibited when having sex but for some fat girls like me that's not the case.

[_piotr]

Good. But here are some notes about attitude:

"He does not say this to me" -> "He treats me like a person" What one has to the other. Person consists of mind and body. Body is part of you. You are not disembodied consciousness. If something is wrong with your body, telling it isn't different from saying that something is wrong with your personality.

"I am not doing it for him, but for myself" What is wrong with doing it for him also. Why so selfish? It is like saying "I helped the poor child, but I did not do it for him/her. I did it just for myself to feel better!" 🤦‍♂️

[Anonymous]

marish01 your fucking attitude is ugly ad love to see u say that to my face cause you wouldn't get away with it am 17 stone reasons a was fat for years was depression stress certain men the assholes my dad dying a had to go threw therapy for years now that am loosing it dont try nd geese your shit about we are ugly men like big girls to ok ure no perfect either ok a lot of stress and depresstion can cause obesity because of comfort eating wich is why i put a lot of weight now av lost 2 stone am proud of myself a was never able to do that because of what i was going through now am getting there dont try your crap to make people try nd feel like shit about thereselfs understand

[lemonette]

First thing's first: the media has done a number on us with those "perfect body" images, hasn't it? Makes you think that if your girl isn't a size 2, then something's off. But man, that's a bunch of nonsense. I can tell you, having a fat girlfriend is like having any other girlfriend, but with a few unique perks.

For starters, you get to smash some pretty harmful stereotypes. When you walk into a room with a confident, curvy woman, you're basically giving society's beauty standards the finger. It's liberating, man. Both of you get to set the narrative on what's beautiful, sexy, and attractive.

Oh, and let's talk about cuddling. I mean, who doesn't like a good cuddle, right? Having a girlfriend with a bit more to love makes snuggling on the couch or spooning in bed ten times more cozy. It's like having a personal, human-sized pillow that hugs you right back. But of course, the emotional connection is what makes any cuddle session great, so let's not forget that.

Now, just because she's fat doesn't mean she's any less active or fun-loving. We do all sorts of stuff together, from hitting the gym to going on hiking trips. Sure, there are some ignorant people who give us weird looks or make snide comments, but who cares? We're too busy enjoying life to pay attention to small-minded folks.

But it's not all sunshine and rainbows. Society isn't always kind to plus-size individuals, and sometimes my girlfriend gets judged or discriminated against. It sucks, but it's a harsh reality. And while it's tough to deal with, it also strengthens our bond. We become each other's support systems, standing up against the world's prejudices together.

So, to sum it all up, having a fat girlfriend isn't a "thing" to deal with; it's just another relationship with its own set of ups and downs. What really matters is the connection, the love, and the shared experiences. And if anyone's got a problem with that, well, that's their problem, not ours.

[love_conquers_lust]

Ups, downs, all a-rounds. Hitting the gym and hikes?

This fucking profile.

[dynamicyandere]

If they had a great personality, I have looked past the extra padding, gave them a chance, and dated 3 bigger girls before.


It really depends on the girl.


But, from my experience, some of them can be pretty insecure about their weight, and if they aren’t emotionally mature, that may bleed into their interactions with you and it can devolve into toxic behavior.


One of the big girls was not toxic.


But the other 2 got pretty bad.


So, I’d say that everyone is going to be a case-by-case basis.


However, if they have insecurities, be sure that they go about them in a healthy way.


(e. g. Not sh*t talking every skinny girl they see on the street and not going into your Facebook account to delete random female contacts based on their looks.)

[dynamicyandere]

I know I started with, “If they had a great personality.”

Which they all appeared to have at first—but anyone can put up a facade to catch someone they want.

I pretty much was attracted to who they presented themselves to be but saw their true colors later.

[dynamicyandere]

@kenz530_97

The asker was asking about plus sized women. So I stayed on topic.

I’ve dated thinner women too, and some of them ended up being self-centered and entitled.

But like plus sized women, it’s not all women.

But, comparing plus-sized women and skinnier women, when it comes to relationship issues (again, not all women), the plus sized women tended to have issues that stemming from insecurity, whereas the skinnier ones with issues had more self-centeredness and entitlement.

I’m just sharing my honest opinions from my experience.

You call me an a**hole if you want.

I don’t know you enough to label you anything, so I won’t judge you.

But, I hope you can learn to be more civil in discussions and not attack people with good intentions that mean you no harm.

[dynamicyandere]

Also, my current girlfriend of nearly 5 years is plus-sized.

I don’t have different rules for plus-sized vs skinnier women.

[Avicenna]

Well, I have dated some overweight women, but I didn't fixate on their weight- I was too busy enjoying their company. Put things in perspective- she isn't your perfect ideal woman in physical terms, but there must have been some things that attracted you to her.

[artgorgeous]

First of all, what do you mean by "quite fat". It can be different for different people. If she is literally obese, and she is ok with it, then i don't think its a good idea for you to encourange this for her. Try to check her opinion on this, but do not ask direct questions. See if she is physically active, what and how much she eats, and check whether she wants any changes about her body or not. Again, if you consider that she is so fat that this imposes risk for her health, and she does not want to change anything about this, i think you should leave her for your good. Otherwise, you should help her. But if your "quite fat" implies that she is curvy, that's ok.

[Anemone978]

As for you, if you are gonna be embarrassed of being seen out with her, do not date her, If she is very insecure you might also not want to date her.. Other than that it should be the same as any other girlfriend.. we tend to be nicer and put up with more shit..

[DopeTurtle]

I was going to say something but this is pretty much what I was going to say 🤣

[exitseven]

I dated a girl who was big all over. She was a collegiate swimmer but she was big all over/. Some guys used to make fun of her. I used to tell them that I was going to tell her what they said and she would beat the crap out of them They did not laugh.

She was a nice girl who really liked to do a lot of different things and she was funny and smart. I did not care if she was plus size.

[Hardworkingguy]

I went out with a girl like that once and we didn't stay together because she wanted to have four children and I do not but other than that everything else was amazing in my opinion she was very sexy and the intimacy was incredible because she was far more passionate than most other slimmer girls I have met. So you really like this girl just stay with her

[dudeinohio]

I take personality over appearance every time. I do, however, tend to favor bigger women though. Maybe it's because they have great personalities, or maybe it's how my brain is wires. I don't really know; but, nonetheless, I like them.

[Miah05]

I would assume the same as a skinny girlfriend, but bigger

[CoolCatMar1]

True by the way i noticed your XPER is very high now !! You are slowly getting on top again!

[Miah05]

@CoolCatMar1 it's kinda a easy system🤷🏾‍♀️

[CoolCatMar1]

Truee

[Jazzy54]

What’s more important to you? The appearance of being with a heavy set woman or are you concerned for her health?

[turnpost]

Weird. For her health but subtlty of the question doesn't ask for this.

[Jazzy54]

No. What’s weird is you even asking this question. Make a choice. Either be with her or not. Don’t play with her emotions.

[turnpost]

He is asking what if feels like to have a fat girlfriend.

I would imagine it would be like having an extra pillow. But wth do I know.

[astrophelle]

unfortunately fat people smell so first thing I thought about was her smell

[Jazzy54]

That’s been *your* experience, but that’s not true across the board. I’ve been around heavy set people and they don’t have an odor.

[Chevy1_kb]

iam 17 stone and i dont smell a will have you know if fat ones smell so do u skinny ones and another thing iam very hygienic to everyone smells ok at some points in life no one is perfect but all they need to do is keep themselves clean as much as possible everyone smells at points in life not just big girls skinny girls do to ok

[Sasha0426]

You shouldn’t talk about your mom like that.

[astrophelle]

WOW I didn't know I would trigger so many obese😹😹😹😹

[astrophelle]

Alright girls I'm not trying to upset anyone pls relax😹!

[Chevy1_kb]

yeah it's false statements that are not true

[Sasha0426]

@astrophelle you’re only saying that because no one agrees with you. Of course you’re going to call those who disagree obese.

[Reem12345reem]

if u like overweight women and u have a preference for her body then i see no problem

[aquamarine321]

I dated a fat when I just left school she wasn’t attractive to me but I liked her breast and Tummy I find it comfortable to lay on

[myselfzoey]

it depends on the person what he is actually looking. If he like the girl and thinks that she is the one then I think figure doesn't matter then

[Anonymous]

probably sweaty and expensive food purchases.

[DextroShade]

I wouldn't know because I would never date a fat girl.

[Sasha0426]

The hell does your wife see in you?

[DextroShade]

@Sasha0426 are you implying that my wife, who is not fat, shouldn't be with me because I wouldn't date a fat chick? Stupid thinking like that is why you are going to die alone and forgotten.

[Sasha0426]

That’s not what I said, but ok 🤷‍♀️

[turnpost]

Relax holy crap escalation much.

[deep_purple]

Never had a really fatty, but as I had been imagining that, I would expect a lot of blowjobs for some reason.

[Nominal]

I don't know, imagine sex has to be wonderful 🥰🥰🥰

[Anonymous]

In this hot, humid weather we're having... exceptionally sweaty.

[Chthou95]

Never had a fat girlfriend and don't plan on it. Its gross af

[turnpost]

Ummm calling a person gross af. Is also gross af.

[Chthou95]

@turnpost Cry me a river

[turnpost]

Why would you want you want that? Is that some expression you learned from your Tv shows lol

[Chthou95]

@turnpost a lot of people say that to sensitive cry babies. Nothing new

[turnpost]

Ahh if you could cry a river, some would call that a blessing in some parts of the world. But would be a depressing existence. You would probably get dehydrated.

[Chthou95]

@turnpost We get it, you like to fuck fat chicks

[turnpost]

All chicks,

[Chthou95]

@turnpost The fat chicks